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This Isn’t Therapy

This Isn’t Therapy

Jake Ernst & Simon Paluck

This Isn’t Therapy... it's a podcast about it! Therapy themes are everywhere you look— they’re in your relationships, in the culture, and yes, inside of you, Mary! Each week, Jake Ernst and Simon Paluck peel back the therapy curtain to discuss the very things people are talking to their therapists about. Anxiety. Boundaries. People Pleasing. Their narcissistic mother. No topic is off limits! New episodes released every Thursday. ⁣ The hosts: Jake: https://www.instagram.com/mswjake Simon: https://www.instagram.com/directedbysimon The pod: https://www.instagram.com/notatherapypodcast
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best This Isn’t Therapy episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to This Isn’t Therapy for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite This Isn’t Therapy episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

This Isn’t Therapy - Therapy taught me...

Therapy taught me...

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04/06/23 • 45 min

This isn't therapy... it's the episode about therapy breakthroughs. The therapeutic "aha!" is known to many as the nugget of therapy gold that taught us something new, changed our perspective on something, or unlocked a new layer of growth. In this episode, Jake and Simon share therapy breakthroughs from the Lovely Listeners. Tune in for a discussion about the things therapy taught us (or technically-- you)!

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Bonjourrrr, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

Episode Mixed by Jordan Paluck

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This Isn’t Therapy - How to be yourself

How to be yourself

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06/01/23 • 43 min

This isn't therapy... it's an episode about authenticity, being yourself, and knowing who you are. In this episode, Jake guides Simon through an ~authenticity exercise~! OoOoooO! They discuss whether or not authenticity should be everyone's goal and how the path to becoming yourself looks different for everyone (and how to find your own way!)... CAUTION: THIS EPISODE IS EXTREMELY FUNNY AND AUTHENTIC.

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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This Isn’t Therapy - The Future of Therapy (AI, VR, & Web 3.0)
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03/09/23 • 52 min

This Isn't Therapy...this is a prediction episode about the future of therapy. In this episode, Jake and Simon talk about how Artificial Intelligence (AI), Virtual Reality (VR), and Web 3.0 (what!?!) and how they may (or may already be!) impacting therapy for therapists and clients alike. Jake and Simon also discuss what Americans are saying about the use of AI chatbots in therapy and react to a recent comment from the Talkspace CEO that AI can improve therapist performance and boost quality of care.

Articles referenced:
1. 60% of Americans Would Be Uncomfortable With Provider Relying on AI in Their Own Health Care2. Talkspace CEO: AI Can Improve Therapist Performance, Boost Quality

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

Episode Mixed by Jordan Paluck

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This Isn’t Therapy - The rise in therapy language

The rise in therapy language

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03/30/23 • 43 min

This Isn't Therapy...but this is an episode about the overuse of therapy language and the impact its having on our relationships. Gaslighting? Triggered? Trauma-bonding? What do these words actually mean!? And are we using them correctly? Listen to find out. Also, Jake and Simon welcome special guests: Dr. Miriam-Webster, Tammy Toxic, and Gary Gaslight. This is an episode you absolutely don't want to miss, mmmmmkay?

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Bonjourrrr, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

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This Isn’t Therapy - "Doing isn't being."

"Doing isn't being."

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04/27/23 • 36 min

This Isn't Therapy... it's the follow-up to last week's convo about thinking vs. doing. This week, we're talking about doing vs. being-- another paradox we are made to sit with as humans who feel things. In this episode, Jake and SImon unpack submissions from the lovely listeners about how to know when things are good and content. They share three stories from y'all about how to embrace feeling content with where we're at and how to tell when there's no fixing, meddling, or deeper work to do.

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣
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This Isn’t Therapy - Feeling content with life

Feeling content with life

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05/04/23 • 32 min

This Isn't Therapy...this is a conversation about slowing down, baby. How do you know when things are good? How do you embrace feeling content with where you're at? Remember hobbies? What are those!?! TELL US!! In this episode of the pod, Jake and Simon chit chat through two lovely listener stories about finding stillness. What happens when things are...fine and there's no fixing, meddling, or deeper work to do?

PS- send us fan art okay thank u 😘

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣
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This Isn’t Therapy - Perfectionism vs. Healthy Striving
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01/19/23 • 41 min

This isn't therapy... it's a fun, flirty, fab conversation about our friend perfectionism. In this episode, Jake and Simon read two submissions from the lovely listeners about comparison and needing things to be perfect. Jake shares three essential ingredients for healthy striving, the ultimate antidote to comparing from a place of perfectionism. Let's dive in. :-)

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

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This Isn’t Therapy - What are my needs? (Part 1)

What are my needs? (Part 1)

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02/23/23 • 36 min

This Isn't Therapy...this is a (part 1) conversation about our needs - what are they? Why is everyone talking about them? And how do you know if your needs are being met? What follows is a funny and fabulous convo about Primal, Survival, and Growth needs (oh my!) This episode is essential for anyone out there wondering: what are my needs?!

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

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This Isn’t Therapy - Self-Diagnosis: Is it valid?

Self-Diagnosis: Is it valid?

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03/23/23 • 47 min

This isn't therapy... it's the episode about self-diagnosis. In this episode, Jake and Simon pull back the curtain on diagnosis and ask if we can truly give ourselves a mental health diagnosis. Jake and Simon read two very different perspectives, submitted by two licensed therapists, and discuss the pros and cons of self-diagnosis. In the final segment, Jake shares how he approaches self-diagnosis in his work as a therapist.

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Bonjourrrr, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon ⁣⁣

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This Isn’t Therapy - Adapting to difference

Adapting to difference

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06/08/23 • 31 min

This Isn't Therapy...this is a fun, flirty convo about adapting to scenarios while keeping your values in check (*DING*). On this episode of the pod, Jake and Simon discuss two lovely listener stories, safe spaces, the embarrassing Ontario Catholic school board's decision to ~not~ fly a pride flag, and our new queer icon, Tina the Troll. Also, stay tuned to the end of the ep because we may or may not have a favour to ask! HAPPY PRIDE!!! <3333

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Hello, hi! Follow us on Instagram: @notatherapypodcast⁣
Jake Ernst: @mswjake
Simon Paluck: @directedbysimon
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How many episodes does This Isn’t Therapy have?

This Isn’t Therapy currently has 167 episodes available.

What topics does This Isn’t Therapy cover?

The podcast is about Culture, Health & Fitness, Society, Lgbtq, Self-Help, Mental Health, Funny, Wellness, Therapy, Comedy, Podcasts, Gay, Self-Improvement, Education, Relationships and Queer.

What is the most popular episode on This Isn’t Therapy?

The episode title 'The Future of Therapy (AI, VR, & Web 3.0)' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on This Isn’t Therapy?

The average episode length on This Isn’t Therapy is 40 minutes.

How often are episodes of This Isn’t Therapy released?

Episodes of This Isn’t Therapy are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of This Isn’t Therapy?

The first episode of This Isn’t Therapy was released on Aug 26, 2020.

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