Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

Want to explore what it means to create your life through pleasure? Enter ManifesturbationTM.

We are all about manifesturbating right now, which is why we decided to bring our ManifesturbationTM episode back!

ManifesturbationTM, the act of using your sexual energy to create the life you desire, helps you to stop thinking, attune to yourself, become more clear on what you truly want, and align to a bigger vision. You connect to yourself and your pleasure and then have it all arrive in your body.

It's just a totally joyous process of making the life you desire. And isn't that the ultimate way to create the life that you want?

When this episode originally came out in June of 2021, our podcast had gone live only a few months prior. And this was before we manifested our way to huge press and two projects we’d been dreaming about.

So here we are 50+ episodes later, having co-created our own dreams through this practice (and continuing to do so), and have already helped hundreds of other people do the same, just in the last few months!

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to go back in time and hear our first big share around ManifesturbationTM and how you, too, can create the life you desire through pleasure.

P.S. If this is tickling you and you want to unlock your sexual energy and create your life through pleasure instead of struggle, make sure to get on the waitlist for Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at laceyhaynes.com/manifest.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/63-manifesturbation

Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get on the waitlist for Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at laceyhaynes.com/manifest.

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Today’s episode is a big one. It’s not what we had planned, but we’re sharing this process, this big emotional release and open communication, to help bring you to the point of your own discovery.

This is us working through one of the biggest pains in our lives and something that needed to happen. Hopefully, there'll be moments in this episode that you really relate to and give you insight into what's happening in your own life and your own relationships.

In this episode, we talk about why Lacey feels like she’s in charge of almost everything and how she doesn’t feel fully understood, how Flynn has been feeling uninspired and partially checked out, and some textbook masculine-feminine polarity. We also come to some realizations about this period of transition that we’re in and new ways to support each other.

It's powerful. It's emotional. It's intense. And it's also full of love (and sealed with a kiss).

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear a conversation that’s been a long time coming.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/61-argument

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Has your partner constantly been rejecting you? Have you just not been “in the mood” lately? Or do you believe you’re just not interested in sex? Well, this is the episode for you.

Listen, we have been there before. After more than 10 years together plus coaching students and clients, we’ve compiled 11 reasons why you or your partner just... don’t want to have sex. And we want you to know, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re walking you through each reason and giving you tips on what to do to really experience the kind of sex we’re talking about - the kind that will blow your whole fucking life wide open.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to kick each of these reasons right to the curb.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/36-11reasons

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Interested in Flynn’s coaching program for men? Send him a personal message on Instagram (@flynntalbot) or at [email protected] to learn more about The Elevated Man.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Aaand we’re back after an unintentional hiatus! We’re sorry to leave you hanging, so stay tuned for more details on what we’ve been up to.

In the meantime, in today’s episode, we’re doing something that we don’t usually do: coming at you with a how-to. As in, how to give a blow job (we kinda gave it away in the title).

This isn't your typical how-to, though, because we always want to come at things from an embodied landscape, doing things from within first. So, today we want to take you on a journey of mutual understanding and pleasure, letting go of power dynamic issues, and tuning into your partner. We also share some practical tips and Lacey’s Queen of Pressure and Turkish Dancer techniques.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn all you need to know when it comes to blow jobbing!

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/66-blowjob

Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at manifesturbation.com.

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

How many times have you witnessed a woman being mean to her partner? How often have you heard a man respond with, "Yes, Dear"? Or maybe you are the woman or man in these scenarios?

We've received a lot of feedback from our episode about porn, self-pleasure, and soft men, and today's episode is an extension of that episode.

Because a common dynamic we're seeing in many relationships is one where the woman becomes quite mean, aggressive, and volatile. And unfortunately, the man is on the receiving end, continually bearing the brunt of her aggression and volatility.

So in today’s powerful episode, we’re setting blame and judgment aside and exploring what happens when the man loses his connection to his power, masculinity, and leadership and how this is then received in the relationship.

But there are two sides to every story.

We're also talking about the feminine's experience and what may have led her to act in this way, the dynamic that leads to creating the “Yes, Dear” man, and the importance of trusting your partner's leadership and asserting your own boundaries.

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to better understand the dynamics you might be perpetuating so you and your partner can start to heal yourself and your relationship.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/47-meanwomen

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.