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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

Lacey Haynes & Flynn Talbot

Hi! We’re Lacey & Flynn and we f**cking love having sex together. But it wasn’t always this way. A few years ago, we were barely having sex at all. Lacey didn’t want to anymore and Flynn wasn’t happy about it. Instead of breaking up though, we decided to dig into exactly what was going on. How was it possible we’d gone from loads of sex in that honeymoon phase to completely cold between the sheets? We began a mission to explore all the reasons sex dries up in longterm relationships and that’s what we’re bringing you in this show. From resistance to rejection, non-existent sex drives to constant arguments, we’re going to give you the ins and outs of why your sex life isn’t working then show you what to do about it. After years of healing our own relationship by committing to our sex lives like it was our business, we made helping other people with their sex lives our actual business. Since then, we’ve taught thousands of singles and couples around the world via our online course Sex Elevated, how to talk about sex, how to ask for what they want, how to heal their baggage and ultimately, have epic, soulful and satisfying sex lives. On this Podcast, we’ll be teaching you (and showing you!) everything we’ve learned through our private lives, our studies and our experience helping thousands of people in the same boat. Sometimes we’ll even have sex and break it down for you so you can actually see (well, hear) the work in action. We’ll also invite special guests into the conversation and even answer your personal questions live on the show to help you transform your relationship and sex life. Hilarious, emotional, spiritual and 100% real, we’re leaving no stone unturned as we share the intimate workings of our sex life with you. This might make you uncomfortable. It might make you excited. If you tune in and really dig deep, this podcast will totally change not only your sex life, but how you relate to pleasure, healing, and who you are as a person. Whether you’re in a rut, an epic relationship, looking to spice things up, or wanting to develop a more soulful intimate life, we’re going to show you what it looks like to actually do the work to make your relationship and sex life amazing. Tune in then find all the juicy details from each episode at laceyandflynn.com/podcast

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 63. Manifesturbation™ [Listener Favourite]
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09/26/22 • 81 min

Want to explore what it means to create your life through pleasure? Enter ManifesturbationTM.

We are all about manifesturbating right now, which is why we decided to bring our ManifesturbationTM episode back!

ManifesturbationTM, the act of using your sexual energy to create the life you desire, helps you to stop thinking, attune to yourself, become more clear on what you truly want, and align to a bigger vision. You connect to yourself and your pleasure and then have it all arrive in your body.

It's just a totally joyous process of making the life you desire. And isn't that the ultimate way to create the life that you want?

When this episode originally came out in June of 2021, our podcast had gone live only a few months prior. And this was before we manifested our way to huge press and two projects we’d been dreaming about.

So here we are 50+ episodes later, having co-created our own dreams through this practice (and continuing to do so), and have already helped hundreds of other people do the same, just in the last few months!

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to go back in time and hear our first big share around ManifesturbationTM and how you, too, can create the life you desire through pleasure.

P.S. If this is tickling you and you want to unlock your sexual energy and create your life through pleasure instead of struggle, make sure to get on the waitlist for Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at laceyhaynes.com/manifest.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/63-manifesturbation

Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get on the waitlist for Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at laceyhaynes.com/manifest.

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 61. The big argument: Lacey wants Flynn to lead
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09/12/22 • 62 min

Today’s episode is a big one. It’s not what we had planned, but we’re sharing this process, this big emotional release and open communication, to help bring you to the point of your own discovery.

This is us working through one of the biggest pains in our lives and something that needed to happen. Hopefully, there'll be moments in this episode that you really relate to and give you insight into what's happening in your own life and your own relationships.

In this episode, we talk about why Lacey feels like she’s in charge of almost everything and how she doesn’t feel fully understood, how Flynn has been feeling uninspired and partially checked out, and some textbook masculine-feminine polarity. We also come to some realizations about this period of transition that we’re in and new ways to support each other.

It's powerful. It's emotional. It's intense. And it's also full of love (and sealed with a kiss).

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear a conversation that’s been a long time coming.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/61-argument

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 36. 11 reasons why they don't want to have sex with you
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01/10/22 • 63 min

Has your partner constantly been rejecting you? Have you just not been “in the mood” lately? Or do you believe you’re just not interested in sex? Well, this is the episode for you.

Listen, we have been there before. After more than 10 years together plus coaching students and clients, we’ve compiled 11 reasons why you or your partner just... don’t want to have sex. And we want you to know, you’re not alone.

In this episode, we’re walking you through each reason and giving you tips on what to do to really experience the kind of sex we’re talking about - the kind that will blow your whole fucking life wide open.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to kick each of these reasons right to the curb.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/36-11reasons

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Interested in Flynn’s coaching program for men? Send him a personal message on Instagram (@flynntalbot) or at [email protected] to learn more about The Elevated Man.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 66. How to give a blow job

66. How to give a blow job

Lacey & Flynn Have Sex

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11/07/22 • 29 min

Aaand we’re back after an unintentional hiatus! We’re sorry to leave you hanging, so stay tuned for more details on what we’ve been up to.

In the meantime, in today’s episode, we’re doing something that we don’t usually do: coming at you with a how-to. As in, how to give a blow job (we kinda gave it away in the title).

This isn't your typical how-to, though, because we always want to come at things from an embodied landscape, doing things from within first. So, today we want to take you on a journey of mutual understanding and pleasure, letting go of power dynamic issues, and tuning into your partner. We also share some practical tips and Lacey’s Queen of Pressure and Turkish Dancer techniques.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn all you need to know when it comes to blow jobbing!

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/66-blowjob

Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at manifesturbation.com.

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 47. Why is she so mean to him?

47. Why is she so mean to him?

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03/28/22 • 30 min

How many times have you witnessed a woman being mean to her partner? How often have you heard a man respond with, "Yes, Dear"? Or maybe you are the woman or man in these scenarios?

We've received a lot of feedback from our episode about porn, self-pleasure, and soft men, and today's episode is an extension of that episode.

Because a common dynamic we're seeing in many relationships is one where the woman becomes quite mean, aggressive, and volatile. And unfortunately, the man is on the receiving end, continually bearing the brunt of her aggression and volatility.

So in today’s powerful episode, we’re setting blame and judgment aside and exploring what happens when the man loses his connection to his power, masculinity, and leadership and how this is then received in the relationship.

But there are two sides to every story.

We're also talking about the feminine's experience and what may have led her to act in this way, the dynamic that leads to creating the “Yes, Dear” man, and the importance of trusting your partner's leadership and asserting your own boundaries.

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to better understand the dynamics you might be perpetuating so you and your partner can start to heal yourself and your relationship.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/47-meanwomen

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 50. Quickies, Doggy Style & Learning from Discomfort
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04/18/22 • 38 min

When things get uncomfortable during sex, do you keep going or change up positions?

We’re still very much in a celebratory mood and are continuing the celebrations of Lacey & Flynn Have Sex (and Flynn’s birthday) with a mid-day office quickie for our 50th episode.

And in light of having so much to celebrate and be thankful for, we went into this episode with a quickie play mentality, jumping straight into it - no foreplay and no build-up. Because sometimes, all you have time for is a quickie.

This session is an excellent example of how you can use sex as a punctuation point in your day and demarcate special times in your life to celebrate things that are happening.

But today’s episode isn’t just about having a quickie. Despite our intentions for this episode, we soon start to drop into new layers of depth and connection, and Lacey uncovers some discomfort along the way. But instead of turning away from it, she decides to explore it and let it unfold.

So, grab your headset (and a bowl of cauliflower), tune in, and get ready to learn why discomfort isn’t always a bad thing.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/50-quickies

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 32. Expectations, guilt, & holidays
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12/13/21 • 58 min

It’s the holiday season! A time for fun, festivities, checking out, expectations, and blowups, if we’re being honest (which you know we are). This is a time where you may want to simply check out now that you have time away from work, but instead, it’s the best time to truly check in with yourself, your partner, and your relationship.

In this episode, we explore the realities of the holidays and the people we spend them with, how expectations lead to most holiday disappointments and blowups, and how to use this time of year to jumpstart your sexual energy. We’re even giving you a live role play example of responding vs reacting when Aunt Esmerelda makes snarky comments about your sex coaching career (you know, as an example).

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to intentionally choose your partner and turn into the love that you share this holiday season.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/32-holidays

PLUS: Tune in to episode 24. Communicating with clarity and truth for more tips on communicating in the full expression of yourself

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 68. The Yeti story and Lacey's vulnerability hangover
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11/21/22 • 47 min

A rare silver Yeti lived in the deepest part of the forest. She was magical and creative, but she was very big, and all of the other creatures were scared of her and couldn't reconcile how tender she was with her brutish appearance...

Not knowing that this would turn into the episode that it did, we start today with a very special and magical bedtime story that turned out to be so much more.

We explore the true meaning behind Lacey’s bedtime story, her recent experience that has left her with a vulnerability hangover, and feeling misunderstood (and how to handle it).

Because though we both feel truly called to do this work, the truth is that it takes a lot of strength to hold the unknown and do what feels right. But it is also true that we never know with certainty what’s going to happen, and that can stir up a lot of emotions and raise many fear-based questions. So in today’s episode, we dive into all of this and more.

Grab your headset, tune in, and find out if, in reality, Lacey is the true silver Yeti.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/68-yeti

Interested in unlocking your sexual energy and co-creating your life through pleasure instead of struggle? Get Lacey’s ManifesturbationTM Activations at manifesturbation.com.

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on, and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires, and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings, like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 45. Orgasm edition: How to make her cum
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03/14/22 • 52 min

Have you lost your direct path to orgasm? Maybe you've been with your partner for a while, and though they've made you cum in the past, life has gotten in the way. And sure, you can still make yourself cum, but it just doesn’t leave you feeling as satisfied or connected.

Thanks to a wonderful listener request, we are so excited to share part one of our special edition orgasm episode with you today: How to make her cum. (Because we believe that the feminine has to come first.)

We don't usually treat orgasm as the goal, but in this episode, we're focusing on pleasure (and the clit) and unlocking full female orgasmic potential. We’re also exploring pussy consciousness, fully dropping into your body, softening into orgasm, and so much more.

So, to all the clits, tongues, lickers, and fingerers out there, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to take notes and gain more wisdom on your exploration of making her cum.

And stay tuned for part two: How to make him cum.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/45-her-orgasm

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex - 27. Dry spells & the yoga of sucking cock
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11/08/21 • 58 min

Have you ever found yourself right in the middle of a dry spell? Maybe you’re even wondering, “How the heck do I initiate sex at this point?”

Well, we recently broke our own dry spell (woo hoo!) and, in this episode, we’re sharing our 5 key takeaways from this experience to help you break through your dry spell and rekindle your connection with your partner. We’re also exploring the real reason you’re irritated with your partner (we promise it’s not because they leave the tea towel lying on the counter), how living in the “I’ve just got to get this done” mentality is hindering you from truly being present, and why we as humans are so resistant to change.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to increase your awareness, release expectation, and break your dry spell.

To dive deeper into this topic, we suggest listening to these past episodes that will greatly support what you’re learning here:

02. Have sex (even when you don’t feel like it)

17. The epic return to unicorn sex (Part 1)

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/27-dry-spells

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

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Lacey & Flynn Have Sex currently has 71 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Sex, Podcasts, Relationships and Sexuality.

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The episode title '63. Manifesturbation™ [Listener Favourite]' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on Lacey & Flynn Have Sex is 53 minutes.

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