27. Dry spells & the yoga of sucking cock

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11/08/21 • 58 min

Have you ever found yourself right in the middle of a dry spell? Maybe you’re even wondering, “How the heck do I initiate sex at this point?”

Well, we recently broke our own dry spell (woo hoo!) and, in this episode, we’re sharing our 5 key takeaways from this experience to help you break through your dry spell and rekindle your connection with your partner. We’re also exploring the real reason you’re irritated with your partner (we promise it’s not because they leave the tea towel lying on the counter), how living in the “I’ve just got to get this done” mentality is hindering you from truly being present, and why we as humans are so resistant to change.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to increase your awareness, release expectation, and break your dry spell.

To dive deeper into this topic, we suggest listening to these past episodes that will greatly support what you’re learning here:

02. Have sex (even when you don’t feel like it)

17. The epic return to unicorn sex (Part 1)

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/27-dry-spells

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

Have you ever found yourself right in the middle of a dry spell? Maybe you’re even wondering, “How the heck do I initiate sex at this point?”

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to increase your awareness, release expectation, and break your dry spell.

To dive deeper into this topic, we suggest listening to these past episodes that will greatly support what you’re learning here:

02. Have sex (even when you don’t feel like it)

17. The epic return to unicorn sex (Part 1)

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/27-dry-spells

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

Previous Episode

26. 5 tips for more satisfying & connected sex

How can I have a deeper connection with my partner? What is soulful sex and how can I have that in my relationship?

We’ve worked with thousands of couples and have found that most of them are doing the same things that just simply aren’t working in their relationships. Some of these include coming together to have sex only if they’re “in the mood” (which - spoiler alert: does not work!), only allowing themselves to experience pleasure through their pussies and cocks, and focusing solely on the orgasm as the end goal. These are just a few of the things we’re helping you to reshape today.

In this episode, we’re taking you through 5 key things that you need to transform to move your current relationship into deeper connection & more soulful sex (or whatever word best describes the type of sex you’re dreaming of having!). By the way, we’ve got a super secret guest (who we’re calling Esmeralda) joining us behind the scenes working on a piece, so you may hear some notes on our amazing episode being taken in the background.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn how to feel pleasure throughout your entire body, explore the importance of equilibrium in your relationship, and move from the sex you’re currently having into the more connected, more spiritual sex you’ve been dreaming of.

To dive deeper into this episode, we suggest listening to these past episodes that will greatly support what you’re learning here:

Get all the juicy episode notes at https://laceyandflynn.com/podcast/25-voice

Stay tuned for news on an exciting free class we’re releasing soon!

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

Next Episode

28. The joy of simple sex

Have you ever found yourself in the infamous “I’ll be happy when...” mentality? You know, the thoughts that say once you reach the destination or achieve that goal that you’ll be so much happier.

Here’s the truth: focusing solely on the destination can very easily leave you feeling underwhelmed, unsatisfied, and far from happier. It is so imperative that you treat the journey just as important as the destination whether it’s in your career, your personal goals, or your sex life. Often, we mindlessly push ourselves through the journey of sex to reach orgasm which may never come and can leave us more unsatisfied than before we started.

In this episode, we’re simply having sex. A straight up sex session. We’re just going to see what happens and we’re bringing you along for the ride (all the puns intended). We also share some updates in our personal lives around truth and balance, how to allow more ease into letting go of what no longer fits, and just how sexual we all naturally are.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to explore the simplicity of sex.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/28-simplesex

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.