45. Orgasm edition: How to make her cum

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03/14/22 • 52 min

Have you lost your direct path to orgasm? Maybe you've been with your partner for a while, and though they've made you cum in the past, life has gotten in the way. And sure, you can still make yourself cum, but it just doesn’t leave you feeling as satisfied or connected.

Thanks to a wonderful listener request, we are so excited to share part one of our special edition orgasm episode with you today: How to make her cum. (Because we believe that the feminine has to come first.)

We don't usually treat orgasm as the goal, but in this episode, we're focusing on pleasure (and the clit) and unlocking full female orgasmic potential. We’re also exploring pussy consciousness, fully dropping into your body, softening into orgasm, and so much more.

So, to all the clits, tongues, lickers, and fingerers out there, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to take notes and gain more wisdom on your exploration of making her cum.

And stay tuned for part two: How to make him cum.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/45-her-orgasm

Find out more about School of Whole, Lacey’s 12-month coaching and channelling collective to help transform you from an Uninitiated Woman lacking confidence, turn-on and self-worth into a Sexually Liberated Woman who’s healed from the past, aligned to her truest desires and living a wildly satisfying life on her terms.

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

So, to all the clits, tongues, lickers, and fingerers out there, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to take notes and gain more wisdom on your exploration of making her cum.

And stay tuned for part two: How to make him cum.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/45-her-orgasm

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Previous Episode

44. Porn, Self Pleasure and Soft Men

Men, it's time you check out of porn and check back into your body so you can have epic sex that satisfies you both.

In today's society, many men have lost their compass, confidence, and ability to ravage a woman from a place of integrity beyond the political correctness of the standards determined by porn. And because it's been a constant in our lives for so long, many men have also become addicted to porn, not even recognizing how this is impacting their lives and relationships.

In today's episode, we're exploring and understanding the space of being a man and why so many men today have gone soft (we know this might be triggering, but stay with us – we've got you). We're also walking you through the process of checking out of porn, being your own stimulation (visually, energetically, and in every way), and tapping into your primal sexuality.

So, men, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to feel empowered by your own sexuality. Because in the end, that's all you need.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/44-porn

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Next Episode

46. Orgasm edition: How to make him cum

We are so excited to share part two of our special edition orgasm episode: How to make him cum.

In our last episode, we talked about what the feminine requires to step into her orgasmic potential. And today, we are focusing on the masculine and why this is such an uncomfortable space for so many men right now. Because as a man, you have to walk a fine line between your inbuilt animal instinct to procreate and your desire to connect with your partner on a deeper level, all while steering their pleasure in the right way.

We’ve also joked before about how most dudes are always ready to blow, but how sometimes it’s not so easy. And today’s episode is the perfect example of that because we go from having performative superficial marshmallow sex (it’ll make more sense when you listen) to having a fully primal, soulful, and satisfying session of pleasure.

We’re also exploring the resistance that men feel when it comes to their sexuality, how to stay authentic when dealing with pressure and performance anxiety, and how to open up and truly immerse yourself in pleasure.

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to learn how to make him cum.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/46-his-orgasm

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex, where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.