32. Expectations, guilt, & holidays

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12/13/21 • 58 min

It’s the holiday season! A time for fun, festivities, checking out, expectations, and blowups, if we’re being honest (which you know we are). This is a time where you may want to simply check out now that you have time away from work, but instead, it’s the best time to truly check in with yourself, your partner, and your relationship.

In this episode, we explore the realities of the holidays and the people we spend them with, how expectations lead to most holiday disappointments and blowups, and how to use this time of year to jumpstart your sexual energy. We’re even giving you a live role play example of responding vs reacting when Aunt Esmerelda makes snarky comments about your sex coaching career (you know, as an example).

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to intentionally choose your partner and turn into the love that you share this holiday season.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/32-holidays

PLUS: Tune in to episode 24. Communicating with clarity and truth for more tips on communicating in the full expression of yourself

If you’re ready for some hot tips on how to truly connect with your partner, then grab a seat at our FREE class: 5 Steps to Connected Sex where you’ll dig deeper into some of our best teachings like sex beyond the mood and pleasure over orgasm. Join us today at laceyandflynn.com/freeclass!

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

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Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to intentionally choose your partner and turn into the love that you share this holiday season.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/32-holidays

PLUS: Tune in to episode 24. Communicating with clarity and truth for more tips on communicating in the full expression of yourself

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.

Previous Episode

31. Touching with intention

Has touching your partner become just another routine part of your day? Have you ever found yourself going to kiss your partner goodnight and... there’s really nothing there?

When we are disconnected from ourselves, touch can feel empty. Words can feel empty. We can end up just going through the motions in our day-to-day actions and even in our gestures towards our partner. This gives us interactions that are fleeting and shallow and leaves us craving true satisfactory intimacy.

So, in this episode, we explore what it means to touch your partner with intention. We’re giving you a live example of checking in with yourselves, dropping into full embodiment, and exploring non-sexual touch that’s full of intention.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to enter deep into presence when offering your love to another being.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/31-touching

Be sure to check out these episodes for additional support on this topic: 13. Sexual fantasies & intimacy without sex, 16. The joy of eating pussy, and 24. Communicating with clarity.

Are you yearning to elevate into a fucking powerful, mature, sexual, sustainable relationship? Apply to work with us at laceyandflynn.com/coaching.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

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33. Why we have sex on a podcast

When this year started, we had no idea we would find ourselves having sex on a chart-topping podcast for the world to hear. Yet, here we are, 7+ months in continuing to spread our work of progressive sex education.

In this episode, we’re sharing the story behind our journey of creating this podcast, how we chose to have sex for all of you to hear, and some of our biggest fears stepping into this concept.

Grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear our story through censorship and creating a podcast about sex that’s both innovative and far from pornographic.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/33-sexonapodcast

Explore our podcasting journey even deeper by listening to episode 01. We just had sex and episode 28. The joy of simple sex.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Want your questions answered on the show? Submit them here.