61. The big argument: Lacey wants Flynn to lead

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09/12/22 • 62 min

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Today’s episode is a big one. It’s not what we had planned, but we’re sharing this process, this big emotional release and open communication, to help bring you to the point of your own discovery.

This is us working through one of the biggest pains in our lives and something that needed to happen. Hopefully, there'll be moments in this episode that you really relate to and give you insight into what's happening in your own life and your own relationships.

In this episode, we talk about why Lacey feels like she’s in charge of almost everything and how she doesn’t feel fully understood, how Flynn has been feeling uninspired and partially checked out, and some textbook masculine-feminine polarity. We also come to some realizations about this period of transition that we’re in and new ways to support each other.

It's powerful. It's emotional. It's intense. And it's also full of love (and sealed with a kiss).

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear a conversation that’s been a long time coming.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/61-argument

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It's powerful. It's emotional. It's intense. And it's also full of love (and sealed with a kiss).

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear a conversation that’s been a long time coming.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/61-argument

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.

Previous Episode

60. Life-changing anal and why we're no longer working together

Welcome back, everybody!

We're back in your earholes with a bang, and we’ve got lots of news, including our recent deep cosmic anal experience. And we want to tell you about it not just to pat ourselves on the back but because it was actually life-changing.

We’ve also had some recent breakthroughs in terms of how we work together (don’t worry, this podcast and our course, Sex Elevated, aren’t going anywhere).

So today, we’re sharing how exactly these two things are related and how they’ve brought us closer than ever.

In this episode, you’ll hear about our life-changing anal experience and everything it’s brought us, how Lacey was able to let go of control and resentment, and how Flynn found his strength again to support her. You’ll also hear some challenges of working together as a couple and how to create support for yourself as a woman.

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear about our magical, life-changing anal and how changing our working relationship has allowed us to step into our zones of genius more fully.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/60-life-changing-anal

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

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Next Episode

62. Rag-doll sex

Trigger Warning: There is a brief mention of rape in this episode in the context of trying to find the correct language around giving your partner full permission to dominate you.

What happens when you surrender fully and be dominated by your partner? Rag-doll sex.

And that’s what this episode is all about.

If you’ve listened to our previous episode, you know how much Lacey wants Flynn to lead. And this episode is about precisely that, Lacey feeling safe enough to fully surrender and Flynn taking what he wants and owning his masculinity.

In today’s episode, we’re starting off hot and heavy, and Lacey gets dominated by love. We discuss the importance of setting the proper foundation and how being able to let go allows you to experience new levels of pleasure. Flynn shares his perspective on how being dominant and restoring the polarity in the relationship enables him to remember more about who he truly is and embrace his masculinity.

So, grab your headset, tune in, and get ready to hear how sometimes you just want your partner to treat you like a rag doll.

Get all the juicy episode notes at laceyandflynn.com/podcast/62-ragdoll

Ready to work with us to elevate your relationship? Email us at [email protected] or head to laceyandflynn.com/coaching to get started.

Learn more about Sex Elevated, our online course to amplify your intimacy, supercharge your sex, and slingshot you into a new dimension of pleasure, connection, and love in your relationship.

Chat with us on Instagram. Send us a DM and tell us your experience in sex and listening to the episode.