31. Redefining Home Management and Embracing Shared Parenting with Ashley Blackington
01/09/24 • 48 min
Ever feel like motherhood is an unforgiving juggling act? You're not alone. That's why I've invited Ashley Blackington, an occupational therapist turned CEO of Dovetail Designs, to share her game-changing strategies for transforming the chaos of family life into a harmonious symphony. She created the Dovetail® framework by combining her 12+ years of clinical experience, research, and the lived experience of trying to, collaboratively, run a busy home with her husband. Our discussion uncovers the magic of making the 'invisible' workload visible, redistributing tasks, and establishing a thriving environment of shared parenting responsibilities.
As we peel back the layers of home management, we uncover the essential role of visual systems and effective communication in achieving balance. Ashley's planner isn't just a schedule—it's a revolution, integrating self-care and reflection into the fabric of family organization. We delve into how these tailored tools can liberate mental space and promote individual and collective well-being.
If you've ever found yourself longing for a moment of peace amidst the whirlwind of parenting, this episode is your blueprint for crafting a space where personal growth and family planning coexist.
Wrap up the episode by stepping into a future where gender roles in parenting are relics of the past. We share candid reflections on the power of trust in your partner's parenting prowess and how to inspire children of any gender to contribute to household tasks. This conversation goes beyond planners and systems; it's a call to action for incremental change, patience, and the joyous rewards of shared control. Join us on this transformative journey—your ticket to a more organized, collaborative, and joyful path in the wild adventure of raising a family.
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Ever feel like motherhood is an unforgiving juggling act? You're not alone. That's why I've invited Ashley Blackington, an occupational therapist turned CEO of Dovetail Designs, to share her game-changing strategies for transforming the chaos of family life into a harmonious symphony. She created the Dovetail® framework by combining her 12+ years of clinical experience, research, and the lived experience of trying to, collaboratively, run a busy home with her husband. Our discussion uncovers the magic of making the 'invisible' workload visible, redistributing tasks, and establishing a thriving environment of shared parenting responsibilities.
As we peel back the layers of home management, we uncover the essential role of visual systems and effective communication in achieving balance. Ashley's planner isn't just a schedule—it's a revolution, integrating self-care and reflection into the fabric of family organization. We delve into how these tailored tools can liberate mental space and promote individual and collective well-being.
If you've ever found yourself longing for a moment of peace amidst the whirlwind of parenting, this episode is your blueprint for crafting a space where personal growth and family planning coexist.
Wrap up the episode by stepping into a future where gender roles in parenting are relics of the past. We share candid reflections on the power of trust in your partner's parenting prowess and how to inspire children of any gender to contribute to household tasks. This conversation goes beyond planners and systems; it's a call to action for incremental change, patience, and the joyous rewards of shared control. Join us on this transformative journey—your ticket to a more organized, collaborative, and joyful path in the wild adventure of raising a family.
Be sure to check out Ashley!
Ashley’s Instagram
Ashley’s WebsiteAshley’s Podcast
AFFILIATE DISCOUNT CODES:
--> If you are ready to keep you and your family healthy this season, don’t forget to use my link for Mary Ruth Organics for $15 off your first order!
I'd love to hear your thoughts! Send me a message :)
Experience Motherhood more!
- Follow over on Instagram: @experiencemotherhood
- STAY CONNECTED THROUGH EMAIL
- Discover YOU again after kids through The Experience Identity Program
- Get access to other free guides
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Support the Show
A small donation of $5, $10 or more is an amazing way to keep this podcast going and support me! Thank you so much for listening!
Until next time. . . Go Experience Motherhood!
Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only. In no way is this therapy or clinical advice.
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Struggling with the guilt of taking time for yourself amidst the chaos of motherhood? You're not alone. The first episode of 2024 is an honest conversation about the necessity of self-care and personal growth for mothers, without the side dish of guilt. I share stories that beautifully illustrate the positive repercussions of self-awareness not just for us, but for our children too. Discover how nurturing your personal identity can coexist with your role as a parent, and why setting intentions for growth as the new year rolls in can be a game-changer for your family.
KEY TAKEAWAYS:
- Practical Tools for Thriving: The episode provides actionable tips for mothers to set achievable goals and establish nurturing routines that prioritize their well-being amidst the challenges of motherhood.
- Invest in Yourself for Better Parenting: Investing in personal growth and emotional intelligence not only nurtures the mother but also creates a more nurturing environment for children, positively impacting their development.
- Empowerment and Celebration: Embracing the multifaceted journey of motherhood is about celebrating identities, acknowledging challenges and triumphs, and recognizing the profound influence mothers have on shaping the future through their children.
Make 2024 the year to rediscover YOU in the midst of motherhood!
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Experience Motherhood more!
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In this week's episode, I'm joined by Maggie Schneider, a mom of two and owner of Hilltop Help, as she shares her journey growing up without a mother. From a seasoned Registered Nurse to a successful entrepreneur in web design and digital marketing, Maggie discusses how her childhood influences her motherhood. Gain insights into her experiences and find hope in overcoming parental loss. Listen for encouragement and vulnerability in this episode.
Our conversation explores the delicate line of integrating an absent parent into life's milestones, unpacking the suitcase of emotions to find closure and acceptance. Maggie peels back the layers of her soul, sharing how she maintains mental health and personal boundaries. Her story, rich and heartfelt, offers a beacon for mothers navigating the complex seas of relationships and identity, reminding us all that within the trials of parenthood, there lies the potential for boundless resilience and joy.
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- Discover YOU again after kids through The Experience Identity Program
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Your support is incredibly meaningful!
Support the Show
A small donation of $5, $10 or more is an amazing way to keep this podcast going and support me! Thank you so much for listening!
Until next time. . . Go Experience Motherhood!
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Experience Motherhood - 31. Redefining Home Management and Embracing Shared Parenting with Ashley Blackington
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