Ep. 147 - Stop Outsourcing Your Power: How to Take Responsibility For Your Life

04/22/25 • 24 min

You’re not stuck - you’re speaking stuck. Today, we’re going to unpack the sneaky ways your language is sabotaging your progress, and how to take back full ownership of your results, your emotions, and your next big move.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying “I have to...”, “I’m too busy...”, or “It’s just the way it is,” this episode was made for you.

You’re not broken, but your language might be holding you back - and you don’t even realise it. In this unapologetically honest episode, you'll uncover how the words you choose shape your beliefs, behaviours, and ultimately, your reality. It's time to stop outsourcing your power. You're the author of your life, and that means owning your communication - especially with yourself.

Key Takeaways You’ll Love:

Disempowering Language ≠ Empowered Life - Stop saying “should,” “have to,” “it’s not fair,” or “they don’t let me.” You’ll learn powerful NLP-informed reframes to take back control of your narrative.
Responsibility = Response-Ability - Reclaim your choice in every situation so you feel more in control and less like life is “happening to you.”
Rewire Your Self-Talk - Get real about the stories you tell yourself, discover the beliefs underneath, and learn how to rewire them to show up more confident, capable, and clear.

Listen now and learn how to speak like the powerful person you are becoming. You're ready. Let’s go.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to bet on yourself, this is it. Stop hesitating. Start leading. Fill out this Career Confidence Quiz today.

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If you’ve ever found yourself saying “I have to...”, “I’m too busy...”, or “It’s just the way it is,” this episode was made for you.

Key Takeaways You’ll Love:

Disempowering Language ≠ Empowered Life - Stop saying “should,” “have to,” “it’s not fair,” or “they don’t let me.” You’ll learn powerful NLP-informed reframes to take back control of your narrative.
Responsibility = Response-Ability - Reclaim your choice in every situation so you feel more in control and less like life is “happening to you.”
Rewire Your Self-Talk - Get real about the stories you tell yourself, discover the beliefs underneath, and learn how to rewire them to show up more confident, capable, and clear.

Listen now and learn how to speak like the powerful person you are becoming. You're ready. Let’s go.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to bet on yourself, this is it. Stop hesitating. Start leading. Fill out this Career Confidence Quiz today.

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EP. 146 - The Inner Child Isn't Immature - She's Unhealed: Reconnecting to Move Forward

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Have you been feeling stuck, shrinking in meetings, or struggling to understand why you keep holding back even though you know you’re capable of more?

In this episode, you’ll uncover why past pain - often buried so deep you’ve forgotten it - might be running the show in your career today. From being overlooked in meetings to replaying conversations in your head wondering, “Why didn’t I speak up?” - this episode explores how unresolved moments from your childhood (yes, even small ones) have shaped your beliefs, your confidence, and your voice.

Here’s what you'll discover:

How your subconscious is driving your reactions - and why awareness is the first step to rewriting your story.
How unmet needs from childhood are influencing your work relationships, confidence, and decision-making more than you realise.
Practical NLP-based healing strategies like matrix therapy and timeline therapy to rewire your beliefs and take your power back.

Awareness creates power and past moments are creating a barrier that’s costing you growth. So if you’re ready to move forward with clarity, confidence, and purpose - press play. You’re not broken. You’re just ready to rise.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to bet on yourself, this is it. Stop hesitating. Start leading. Fill out this Career Confidence Quiz today.

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Ep. 148 - Beyond the Voice: The Real Reasons You're Playing Small (And How to Rise Out of It)

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If you’ve been feeling like you’re meant for more - but something keeps holding you back - this episode might be just what you need right now. Beyond the Voice: The Real Reasons You're Playing Small (And How to Rise Out of It) gently explores what’s really going on beneath the surface when you feel stuck, even though you’re smart, capable, and working hard.

You’ll discover why trying to “feel more confident” hasn’t been the answer - and how shifting into courage first can open up new possibilities. You’ll hear four subtle but powerful patterns that may have been slowing you down: the stories you tell yourself, the pressure you carry, the fear of letting go, and the habit of comparing yourself to others.

Inside, you’ll take away:

A kinder, more helpful way to reframe your self-talk so you can start moving forward again
How to find the space between comfort and burnout - and finally build sustainable momentum
Why certainty isn’t required to begin (and how waiting for it might be holding you back)

You don’t need to change who you are - just start trusting yourself more deeply and free yourself. Stop waiting for permission. Pick yourself, back yourself, and rise.

If you’ve been waiting for a sign to bet on yourself, this is it. Stop hesitating. Start leading. Fill out this Career Confidence Quiz today.