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Crystal Paine Show - 257. Simple Systems That Keep Us Sane

257. Simple Systems That Keep Us Sane

04/23/24 • 29 min

Crystal Paine Show

Do you ever feel like you're just barely keeping your head above water? If so, this episode of The Crystal Paine Show is for you! Jesse and I have been married for 21 years and we've learned and grown a lot in those years -- and tried a lot of different things that worked and many things that didn't.

In this conversation, we share some of our simple systems that keep us sane and help us to have breathing room in our days to enjoy our life and invest in what matters most.

First up, we talk about how we each have our own jurisdictions in managing our house and business and what that looks like. We also share what we expect of our kids and how us all working together really frees up a lot of physical and emotional energy for us as parents.

Then, we move onto detailing changes we've made this year to simplify and how it has made such a difference: like reserving one day a week for meetings and interviews, carefully considering commitments and what that looks like for us right now, and how we have our work schedule set up so we both get time to work in.

We end with sharing a number of different strategies we employ to eliminate decision fatigue and to streamline our lives: things like groceries, dishes, laundry, daily routines, avoiding paper piles, and more! I also give you a little peek into my home life growing up and talk about how my mom's organized systems influenced me.

If you're ready to ditch the overwhelm and reclaim your peace of mind, I hope our ideas serve as a springboard for solutions that might work for you, and don't forget to snag your free Simplified Home Checklists!

In This Episode

[0:35] - Today's episode dives into practical strategies for maintaining sanity and enjoying life even if there's a lot going on.

[1:52] - Delegation and instilling teamwork and work ethic in our kids.

[4:35] - Gradual release of responsibility leads to independence as kids develop their own systems over time.

[8:20] - Everyone is an asset to our home and we all work together.

[11:05] - What simplifying has looked like for our home and schedule this year and one change that has made a big difference.

[15:58] - Our current schedule for work-life balance with both of us working from home.

[18:39] - How my mom's organized systems have influenced me.

[20:46] - Scheduling grocery deliveries and using cost-saving programs like Kroger Boost.

[22:59] - Daily routines, paper piles, and how we prep for our day the night before.

[27:52] - Check out the free Simplified Home Checklists!

Links & Resources

Social Media


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Do you ever feel like you're just barely keeping your head above water? If so, this episode of The Crystal Paine Show is for you! Jesse and I have been married for 21 years and we've learned and grown a lot in those years -- and tried a lot of different things that worked and many things that didn't.

In this conversation, we share some of our simple systems that keep us sane and help us to have breathing room in our days to enjoy our life and invest in what matters most.

First up, we talk about how we each have our own jurisdictions in managing our house and business and what that looks like. We also share what we expect of our kids and how us all working together really frees up a lot of physical and emotional energy for us as parents.

Then, we move onto detailing changes we've made this year to simplify and how it has made such a difference: like reserving one day a week for meetings and interviews, carefully considering commitments and what that looks like for us right now, and how we have our work schedule set up so we both get time to work in.

We end with sharing a number of different strategies we employ to eliminate decision fatigue and to streamline our lives: things like groceries, dishes, laundry, daily routines, avoiding paper piles, and more! I also give you a little peek into my home life growing up and talk about how my mom's organized systems influenced me.

If you're ready to ditch the overwhelm and reclaim your peace of mind, I hope our ideas serve as a springboard for solutions that might work for you, and don't forget to snag your free Simplified Home Checklists!

In This Episode

[0:35] - Today's episode dives into practical strategies for maintaining sanity and enjoying life even if there's a lot going on.

[1:52] - Delegation and instilling teamwork and work ethic in our kids.

[4:35] - Gradual release of responsibility leads to independence as kids develop their own systems over time.

[8:20] - Everyone is an asset to our home and we all work together.

[11:05] - What simplifying has looked like for our home and schedule this year and one change that has made a big difference.

[15:58] - Our current schedule for work-life balance with both of us working from home.

[18:39] - How my mom's organized systems have influenced me.

[20:46] - Scheduling grocery deliveries and using cost-saving programs like Kroger Boost.

[22:59] - Daily routines, paper piles, and how we prep for our day the night before.

[27:52] - Check out the free Simplified Home Checklists!

Links & Resources

Social Media


Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: https://www.armoire.style
* Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/CRYSTAL
* Check out Glorify: https://glorify-app.com/crystal
* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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256. Micah's Unexpected Hospital Stay

This episode is a reminder to trust your God-given intuition. If you feel something is wrong or off, get it checked out.

In this podcast, we share the story of Micah getting really sick recently and how it ended up landing him in the hospital. We got so many questions from you all about his illness and how we knew when it was time to take him to the hospital/what we experienced, that I thought recording a podcast episode sharing in-depth might be helpful.

We're so grateful that Micah is doing better now and fully back to his sweet, busy, silly self! We missed all his smiles and laughter and singing while he was sick!

In this episode, we also give an update on what we're reading, share a reader's response to last week's episode, and we have a fun and friendly "argument" over audiobooks.

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[0:35] - This week, we're sharing about Micah's recent sickness and hospital stay.

[1:27] - Jesse is still reading Three Felonies A Day by Harvey Silvergate and Alan M. Dershowitz because it’s a dense read.

[2:01] - I've been reading I Want God by Lisa Whittle.

[4:10] - I share a message from a listener about commentary in last episode about Farmer Boy.

[6:07] - Jesse and I have a friendly discussion about whether audiobooks count as "reading" and he shares about the John Grisham audiobooks he's listened to recently, including Jake Brigance trilogy.

[8:45] - I had a very full weekend planned, including my last girls-only youth group camp and attending my friend's wedding, but that all changed when Micah got sick.

[12:04] - We knew we needed to do something and ended up calling and asking about getting Zofran.

[14:01] - Micah's symptoms persisted, prompting a pediatrician visit.

[18:39] - We ended up in the ER and it took many attempts plus two rounds of sedatives to finally get the IV in.

[24:31] - After hours of IV fluids in the ER, they ended up deciding to admit Micah as his labs didn't look good.

[29:23] - I touch upon some of the lessons that were learned from this experience.

Links & Resources

Crystal Paine

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258. How We're Processing Having Back-to-Back Seniors

Today's episode is on a topic that was requested by a follower! Jesse and I share what it's been like navigating back-to-back senior years with our daughters, Kathrynne and Kaitlynn! It has been a whirlwind of emotions and logistics and Jesse and I are opening up about our experiences - the highs, the challenges, the blessings, and the unexpected lessons that we have learned along the way.

Jesse and I share things we learned the hard way, how it's been different for each daughter, what has been easier about going through senior year the second time, and just fun insider information about the experiences that we haven't shared elsewhere online.

Whether you have a senior or a child in high school or just are curious what we've learned, I hope that you enjoy listening to us share

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[0:35] - Jesse and I are talking today about having back-to-back seniors.

[1:13] - I share insights from a devotional from a book, highlighting God's timing and unexpected blessings.

[4:08] - Hear how I discovered unforeseen opportunities through MoneySavingMom.com.

[7:03] - Be sure to follow @crystaliscleaning on Instagram!

[9:04] - The challenges and emotional intensity of having two high school seniors in two years.

[12:52] - Jesse finds our current senior year smoother compared to the previous one, crediting Kaitlynn's self-motivation.

[13:44] - I reflect on simplifying preparations for Kaitlynn's graduation, learning from past experiences with Kathrynne.

[22:18] - Encouraging preparedness and focusing on the next year makes for smoother transitions for children.

[23:13] - Kaitlynn's openness to uncertainty and evolving plans for the future.

[28:09] - What I'm learning about embracing the present while also thinking about the future.Links & Resources

Links

Crystal Paine

Embraced: 100 Devotions to Know God Is Holding You Close by Lysa TerKeurst

FREE Simplified Home Checklists

Social Media


Our Sponsors:
* Check out Armoire and use my code CRYSTAL for a great deal: https://www.armoire.style
* Check out Armoire: https://armoire.style/CRYSTAL
* Check out Glorify: https://glorify-app.com/crystal
* Check out IXL and use my code TODAY for a great deal: https://www.ixl.com
Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

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