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YOUR BIRTH, GOD’S WAY -  Christian Pregnancy, Natural Birth, Postpartum, Breastfeeding Help - EP 12  \ Tired Of Being Pushed Around? 4 Things To Do When Your Provider Says You HAVE TO Do Something

EP 12 \ Tired Of Being Pushed Around? 4 Things To Do When Your Provider Says You HAVE TO Do Something

03/07/23 • 25 min

YOUR BIRTH, GOD’S WAY - Christian Pregnancy, Natural Birth, Postpartum, Breastfeeding Help
It's so hard to know what to do when you have a provider telling you that you "have to" do something and you really don't want to do it. What if you say no and something bad happens? What if you say yes and it wasn't needed and it leads to other things that could be harmful that wouldn't have happened if you'd stuck to your guns? It's overwhelming and intimidating so today I'm going to give you 3 ways to do when your provider tells you that you "have to" do something so we can try to eliminate fear and think clearly and rationally about what we're going to choose. This will mainly impact hospital births since home and birth center providers tend to be believers in informed consent rather than intimidation, but that's not 100% the case so everyone could stand to benefit from what I'm gonna share today. Links in today's show: Book Your Midwife & Me Power Hour Here "Pushed: The Painful Truth about Childbirth and Modern Maternity Care" by Jennifer Block Ina May's Guide To Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin Statistics from The Farm SURVEY --> https://bit.ly/yourbirthsurvey Got questions? Email [email protected] Exclusive Online Birth Community -- facebook.com/groups/yourbirthgodsway DISCLAIMER: Remember that though I am a midwife, I am not YOUR midwife. I strive to provide the most accurate information I can, but you must do your research and consult other reputable sources, including your provider, to make the best decision for your own care. I do not know the specific details about your situation and thus I am not responsible for the outcomes of your choices. Some links may be affiliate links which provide me a small commission when you purchase through them. This does not cost you anything at all and it allows me to continue providing you with the content you love.
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It's so hard to know what to do when you have a provider telling you that you "have to" do something and you really don't want to do it. What if you say no and something bad happens? What if you say yes and it wasn't needed and it leads to other things that could be harmful that wouldn't have happened if you'd stuck to your guns? It's overwhelming and intimidating so today I'm going to give you 3 ways to do when your provider tells you that you "have to" do something so we can try to eliminate fear and think clearly and rationally about what we're going to choose. This will mainly impact hospital births since home and birth center providers tend to be believers in informed consent rather than intimidation, but that's not 100% the case so everyone could stand to benefit from what I'm gonna share today. Links in today's show: Book Your Midwife & Me Power Hour Here "Pushed: The Painful Truth about Childbirth and Modern Maternity Care" by Jennifer Block Ina May's Guide To Childbirth by Ina May Gaskin Statistics from The Farm SURVEY --> https://bit.ly/yourbirthsurvey Got questions? Email [email protected] Exclusive Online Birth Community -- facebook.com/groups/yourbirthgodsway DISCLAIMER: Remember that though I am a midwife, I am not YOUR midwife. I strive to provide the most accurate information I can, but you must do your research and consult other reputable sources, including your provider, to make the best decision for your own care. I do not know the specific details about your situation and thus I am not responsible for the outcomes of your choices. Some links may be affiliate links which provide me a small commission when you purchase through them. This does not cost you anything at all and it allows me to continue providing you with the content you love.

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