We RAD DADS - EP32 - Just be with Anthony Hayes

EP32 - Just be with Anthony Hayes

08/01/16 • 60 min

Please welcome my guest this week, Anthony Hayes. Anthony is a VERY busy dad with multiple engagements such as authoring a total of 3 books, blogging, hosting his own podcast and is an integral part of some very active communities online. Not that that is enough, Anthony also works full time.

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Talk about dichotomy! Anthony is a father to a darling little girl named Violet and consequently, runs a blog called “The Daddy Daughter Diaries” wherein he talks about being a new dad.

His book “The Science of Being” draws together much of his struggles in life which are centered around a debilitating diagnosis of clinical depression. Many are never treated; much less diagnosed, however, Anthony wasn’t going to let this stop him. Added to this his podcast “Me, Myself and I” chronicles his positive mindset shift and how it impacts his daily life for the better.

There’s so much more I’m blown away. Anthony truly is a machine and an example of a RAD DAD making things happen!

Join us for daddy’s dance party, Grunge, Zoolander, Mindset shifts, Too old for Disney, and the never-ending love of Dad.

Talking Points

Fathers day & The RAD-T

Clinical Depression: The science of being

If I can find it, you sure as hell can too

Grunge, The thing to do

Zoolander

Wedding crashers- Mix it up

Spreaker - Anyone can do it

Bomb Crater

Moment of Change - Mindset shift

Rock - Dad

I will ALWAYS be there for you Violet, no matter what

Daddy’s Dance party - Daren Hayes

Weakness: Demanding job

Bucket list item: Disney for her birthday every year.

Passion, Don’t give up on your passion

Me, Myself and I Radio

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Talk about dichotomy! Anthony is a father to a darling little girl named Violet and consequently, runs a blog called “The Daddy Daughter Diaries” wherein he talks about being a new dad.

There’s so much more I’m blown away. Anthony truly is a machine and an example of a RAD DAD making things happen!

Join us for daddy’s dance party, Grunge, Zoolander, Mindset shifts, Too old for Disney, and the never-ending love of Dad.

Talking Points

Fathers day & The RAD-T

Clinical Depression: The science of being

If I can find it, you sure as hell can too

Grunge, The thing to do

Zoolander

Wedding crashers- Mix it up

Spreaker - Anyone can do it

Bomb Crater

Moment of Change - Mindset shift

Rock - Dad

I will ALWAYS be there for you Violet, no matter what

Daddy’s Dance party - Daren Hayes

Weakness: Demanding job

Bucket list item: Disney for her birthday every year.

Passion, Don’t give up on your passion

Me, Myself and I Radio

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EP31 - Full frontal fatherhood with Julian Redwood MFT

Julian is an accomplished marriage and family therapist from Berkley California. Julian is gaining notoriety with his video series highlighting simple do’s and don’ts of relationships and parenting. He runs a site called fullfrontalfatherhood.com and frequently contributes to greatdad.com, pregnancymagazine.com, and thegooddadproject.com. Being a dad himself he speaks with direct experience and wisdom dropping simple nuggets for all to put into action.

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In this episode, Julian enlightens us all with some absolutely incredible insight into what it is to be a dad and how the societal gender programming of men (mixed with our stubbornness and ego- of course) actually perpetuate common “new family” woes. I’m guessing; like me, you too fell into some of these very common scenarios.

That’s exactly why I HAD to have him on the Podcast- he’s obviously a wealth of information and wisdom. Don’t think that just because he’s an MFT he’s got this parenting thing all dialed, nope. He’s just like the rest of us trying to figure it all out and doing the best he can failing forward. Just like you, however, he’s maximizing the wisdom of others in this quest and now you can tap into his wealth of experiences.

Join us for what it means to be human, the parenting manual, the bumbling father stereotype, nobody is perfect and of course the greatest American hero. But the real nugget is how Julian demystifies and delineates an extremely common relational breakdown that every guy is pre-programmed to fall into... Cue Admiral Ackbar, “Its a trap!”

Talking points:

Sleep cycles

Clark Kent vs. The Greatest American Hero

What does it mean to be human? i.e. Human hacks

“To be a parent is to fail”

How to react when you fail as a parent - Video link

Nobody is a perfect parent, even the MFT

Where’s the Manual?

Demystifying the trouble with the traditional dad model. -gets right to the point. wisdom

Facing your fears and the rewards of stepping out of your comfort zone.

Bumbling father stereotype. Parenthood TV show

The Dad movement

Shout out to Hogan Hilling - dadlyrally.com

Professional take on how to process being a dad in today’s culture and be completely healthy.

RAD DAD tools: Process your emotions properly meet your emotional needs.

Find a tribe

Superpower: (how to deal with a crying child video) Respond appropriately. Allow tantrums but hold your boundaries

Meditation: Just Breathe: give yourself a time out.

Bucket List: Continue to be a highly involved part of daughter’s life.

Contact Julian Redwood at:

fullfrontalfatherhood.com

julianredwood.com

Full Frontal Fatherhood Podcast: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/no-title/id929866565?mt=2

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EP33 - Father Nation with Jesse Foster

Jesse Foster is our guest this week and he has quite a resume of gathering wisdom from dads of all backgrounds. Jesse is the host of the Father Nation podcast which has over 150 episodes. Once becoming a father himself, Jesse wanted to expand his knowledge on the subject and proceeded to launch Father Nation in order to capitalize on the wisdom of fathers everywhere... sound familiar? Being exposed to that kind of knowledge, he has some great takeaways which he shares with us this week.

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Jesse has an interesting backstory as well. Early on he lived and worked in Kazakstan and Kyurgstan teaching English. After a failed attempt at self-employment, he found himself relying on the generosity of others to get by. It was then he decided to 10x his life with the inspiration of Grant Cardone.

Jesse now WORKS for Mr. Cardone after some massive action of his own! Check out his epic story of overcoming in a BIG way and learn the 3 roles that fathers need to play in their own lives. Stick around because Jesse is letting us in on some awesome bonuses with a coupon code for his very own instructional video series at Dadlearn.com... get 20% off with his special coupon code!!!

Join us for: Grant Cardone, Sagging, The Naked Gun, The 10x Rule, and living abroad. Don’t miss this one with Jesse Foster! Grant Cardone books and Videos.

90’s ‘sagging’ pants

Naked gun, Ace Ventura

Bomb Crater: living off generosity

Hindsight: self-evaluation allows for current course correction

limiting beliefs & past failures

“If you can believe you can do something, a lot of times you can”

The 10x rule steps: No nothing, retreat, normal action, massive action (10x)

Dad super power: Telling stories

Worst: patience/frustration and punishment.

Roles: Trainer, Buddy, King

Cornerstone trait: Faith

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