
Cultivating Joy: The Three Layers of Change
11/04/24 • 32 min
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Cultivating A Joyful Mindset Mini Series Ep. 1
In this episode of The Lighthouse Within, Ambar Paloma dives into why pursuing happiness can be counterproductive and how shifting to a mindset centered around joy can help you build resilience for life changes.
Ambar shares personal stories, insights from psychology, and practical tools for rewiring your brain to become more joyful and solution oriented.
With references to works like Atomic Habits, The Body Keeps the Score, and more, this episode is packed with valuable strategies that will transform your life.
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00:00 - Welcome Aboard: Introduction to the mini series on Joy
01:13 - 5 AM Epiphany: The Difference Between Happiness and Joy
05:02 - Shifting the Focus to Joy
06:11 - Identity and Habits: Building a Joyful Life
12:00 - The Mental and Physical Toll of Complaining
18:22 - The Power of Gratitude: Transforming Your Mindset
23:00 - Scientific Evidence of Gratitude’s Benefits
29:46 - Practical Tips: Daily Gratitude Practices
31:12 - Final Message
Cultivating A Joyful Mindset Mini Series Ep. 1
In this episode of The Lighthouse Within, Ambar Paloma dives into why pursuing happiness can be counterproductive and how shifting to a mindset centered around joy can help you build resilience for life changes.
Ambar shares personal stories, insights from psychology, and practical tools for rewiring your brain to become more joyful and solution oriented.
With references to works like Atomic Habits, The Body Keeps the Score, and more, this episode is packed with valuable strategies that will transform your life.
✨ Your Next Step:Grab your FREE copy of The Clarity Compass to help you navigate uncertainty with confidence and clarity.
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Explore my must-read books for resilience!
00:00 - Welcome Aboard: Introduction to the mini series on Joy
01:13 - 5 AM Epiphany: The Difference Between Happiness and Joy
05:02 - Shifting the Focus to Joy
06:11 - Identity and Habits: Building a Joyful Life
12:00 - The Mental and Physical Toll of Complaining
18:22 - The Power of Gratitude: Transforming Your Mindset
23:00 - Scientific Evidence of Gratitude’s Benefits
29:46 - Practical Tips: Daily Gratitude Practices
31:12 - Final Message
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Manage Your Emotions In Three Easy Steps
In this episode of The Lighthouse Within with Ambar Paloma, we’re focusing on how to manage your emotions and build resilience for life changes by creating an emotional first aid kit.
Host Ambar Paloma shares personal experiences to highlight the dangers of 'false remedies' and the importance of replacing harmful coping strategies like emotional eating and substance use.
We dive into real remedies that bring relief to the mind, body, and spirit, and discuss the need for a multi-part system for emotional management that allows for releasing, restoring, and reflecting.
This episode offers practical exercises designed to help you manage your emotions, including essential tools like self-forgiveness, understanding repressed emotions, and activities such as journaling and therapy. You’ll discover how to use your emotions as valuable signals to better understand your wants, needs, and values, ultimately achieving lasting inner peace and improving emotional and mental health.
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00:00 Welcome Aboard: Introduction to Emotional First Aid
01:30 Story Time: A Personal Tale of Emotional Struggles
05:26 Understanding False Remedies
07:17 The Vicious Cycle of Maladaptive Coping
10:12 A Healing Activity: Letting Go of False Remedies
13:00 Reclaiming Your Power: Building Emotional Intelligence
16:39 The Cost of Repressing Emotions
17:26 Two-Part Approach to Emotional Management
17:45 Regulating Our Emotions
18:52 Comforting the Mind and Body
21:32 Nourishing the Spirit
24:21 Processing Emotions
25:54 Understanding Emotions as a Roadmap
27:46 Building Emotional Resilience
28:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Cultivating Joy: When Plans Don't Work Out
Cultivating A Joyful Mindset Mini Series Ep. 2
In this episode of The Lighthouse Within, host Ambar Paloma discusses how to handle seasons of uncertainty and life transitions.
Drawing from her personal experiences, including a profound quarter-life crisis, Ambar explores the distinction between fleeting happiness and enduring joy.
She offers practical advice on managing anxiety and grief during uncertain times, advocating for a focus on the present and the pursuit of joy.
With references to neurological studies and quotes from influential books, Ambar guides listeners on how to reframe challenges as opportunities while fostering resilience for life changes.
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00:00 Welcome to The Lighthouse Within
00:11 Understanding Uncertainty
01:20 The Pursuit of Joy Over Happiness
02:59 Ambar's Quarter Life Crisis
07:51 The Turning Point: Moving to Spain
10:57 Embracing Uncertainty and Finding Meaning
21:18 Practical Tips for Managing Anxiety
28:54 Final Thoughts and Next Steps
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