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The Happya Life - Breaking Free from Survival Mode From Coping to Thriving
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Breaking Free from Survival Mode From Coping to Thriving

06/27/24 • 17 min

The Happya Life

Welcome back, lovely listeners, to another episode of the Happya Life Podcast. I’m Clare Deacon, your host and guide on this journey to living a happier, more fulfilling life. Today, we’re diving into a topic that I’m deeply passionate about: breaking free from survival mode and learning how to thrive. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just plain exhausted, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I’ll share personal stories and actionable tips to help you transition from merely surviving to truly thriving. We’ll explore what survival mode is, its impact on our health and well-being, and the real possibility of growth after trauma, known as post-traumatic growth. You’ll learn how to shift your mindset, build resilience, and implement practical strategies to create a more empowered and motivated version of yourself. Join me as we uncover how to embrace a flourishing life beyond survival.

Key Segments:

· Understanding Survival Mode: Discover what survival mode is, how it manifests, and why it doesn’t have to be a permanent state.

· The Impact of Survival Mode: Learn about the long-term effects of survival mode on mental and physical health, relationships, and overall well-being.

· The Mindset Shift: Find out how to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset and view challenges as opportunities for growth.

· Building Resilience: Explore actionable steps to develop resilience, including self-care, goal setting, and embracing flexibility.

· Actionable Tips to Thrive: Get practical strategies to transition from surviving to thriving, such as setting clear goals, establishing routines, and celebrating small wins.

Call to Action: To discover more about how you can move on from survival, check out my book, "Blooming Happya." It’s filled with practical advice, inspiring stories, and strategies to help you thrive. Visit our website to learn more and join the Happya community for support and resources. Remember, you have the power to break free from survival mode and create a thriving, fulfilling life. Take care and be well!

Happya Hour: https://happyacoach.com/happyahour

Email: [email protected]
Music by LemonMusicStudio

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Welcome back, lovely listeners, to another episode of the Happya Life Podcast. I’m Clare Deacon, your host and guide on this journey to living a happier, more fulfilling life. Today, we’re diving into a topic that I’m deeply passionate about: breaking free from survival mode and learning how to thrive. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just plain exhausted, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I’ll share personal stories and actionable tips to help you transition from merely surviving to truly thriving. We’ll explore what survival mode is, its impact on our health and well-being, and the real possibility of growth after trauma, known as post-traumatic growth. You’ll learn how to shift your mindset, build resilience, and implement practical strategies to create a more empowered and motivated version of yourself. Join me as we uncover how to embrace a flourishing life beyond survival.

Key Segments:

· Understanding Survival Mode: Discover what survival mode is, how it manifests, and why it doesn’t have to be a permanent state.

· The Impact of Survival Mode: Learn about the long-term effects of survival mode on mental and physical health, relationships, and overall well-being.

· The Mindset Shift: Find out how to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset and view challenges as opportunities for growth.

· Building Resilience: Explore actionable steps to develop resilience, including self-care, goal setting, and embracing flexibility.

· Actionable Tips to Thrive: Get practical strategies to transition from surviving to thriving, such as setting clear goals, establishing routines, and celebrating small wins.

Call to Action: To discover more about how you can move on from survival, check out my book, "Blooming Happya." It’s filled with practical advice, inspiring stories, and strategies to help you thrive. Visit our website to learn more and join the Happya community for support and resources. Remember, you have the power to break free from survival mode and create a thriving, fulfilling life. Take care and be well!

Happya Hour: https://happyacoach.com/happyahour

Email: [email protected]
Music by LemonMusicStudio

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undefined - Thriving Through Anxiety: Strategies for Inner Peace

Thriving Through Anxiety: Strategies for Inner Peace

Welcome to another episode of the Happya Life podcast. I'm your host Clare Deacon, and today, we're diving deep into the topic of anxiety and exploring strategies for finding inner peace. As Mental Health Awareness Week continues, it's essential to shine a light on the state of mental health in the UK, especially amidst the challenges brought about by the pandemic. We'll discuss the significance of positive psychology in navigating anxiety, share personal experiences, and provide actionable steps you can take to soothe your anxiety and reclaim your well-being. So, whether you're looking to manage your own anxiety or support a loved one, stay tuned for valuable insights and inspiration. Let's dive in!.

Over the past few years, we've witnessed a concerning trend of deteriorating mental health among individuals in the UK. The pressures of modern life, coupled with the challenges brought about by the pandemic, have taken a significant toll on our well-being. The traditional mental health system often approaches mental health from an illness ideology, focusing solely on treating symptoms rather than addressing underlying causes which simply offer short-term relief only before issues come back more intensively.

At Happya, we believe in a different approach. We're dedicated to providing
resources and support to help you combat the effects of anxiety and other
mental health challenges so that you can live a healthier, happier life. Our
goal is to empower you to take control of your mental well-being and thrive,
not just survive. Our approach is grounded in positive psychology, which
focuses on building strengths and fostering resilience rather than just
treating symptoms.

Positive psychology offers a unique lens through which we can view mental health and well-being. Instead of dwelling on past traumas or problems, positive psychology encourages us to focus on our strengths, values, and aspirations. It's about moving forward, not getting stuck in the past.

I understand firsthand the limitations of traditional therapy approaches when it comes to trauma. When I was going through my own process of recovery from trauma, I found myself continually swimming in my own swamp of trauma. I didn't want to spend sessions going over old wounds, reliving painful memories, but I did need to acknowledge them and let go in order to allow them to heal. That's where positive psychology made all the difference.

Our trauma-informed approach at Happya acknowledges the impact of past traumas while also focusing on building resilience and fostering healing. It's about creating a safe space where you can explore your experiences without retraumatising yourself. We don't ignore the past, but we also don't let it define your future.

I've seen countless individuals give up on therapy because they felt like it wasn't working or because they believed they were too broken to change. But the truth is, healing is possible, and positive psychology offers a pathway forward. It's about empowering individuals to reclaim their lives, to find joy and purpose even in the face of adversity. It isn’t them who have failed it is the system.

No matter your starting point there are always going to be steps you will need to take to not only maintain but improve your wellbeing and during mental health awareness we are focusing on anxiety.

Let's dive into our discussion about anxiety. Anxiety is a natural response to stress and can manifest in various ways, from persistent worry to physical symptoms like rapid heartbeat and muscle tension. While occasional anxiety is normal, chronic, or excessive anxiety can interfere with daily life and lead to significant distress.

So,

Happya Hour: https://happyacoach.com/happyahour

Email: [email protected]
Music by LemonMusicStudio

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undefined - Embracing Authenticity Be True to Yourself

Embracing Authenticity Be True to Yourself

Welcome back, to another episode of the Happya Life Podcast. I’m Clare Deacon, your host and guide on this journey to living a happier, more fulfilling life. Today, we’re diving into a topic that is incredibly close to my heart: the power of authenticity and how embracing your true self can lead to a more fulfilling life. If you’ve ever struggled with self-acceptance or felt like you’re not living your true self, this episode is for you.

In this episode, I’ll share personal stories, positive psychology principles, and insights from the Happya philosophy to help you embrace your authenticity and feel confident in who you are. We’ll explore what authenticity means, its importance, and practical steps to harmonise your outer life with your inner truth. You’ll learn how to overcome societal expectations, practice self-compassion, and pursue your passions, all of which can transform your life into one that is deeply fulfilling and true to yourself.

Key Segments:

  • Understanding Authenticity: Discover what authenticity really means and how living in alignment with your true self can bring inner peace and fulfilment.
  • The Importance of Self-Acceptance: Learn about the barriers to self-acceptance and techniques to foster it, such as writing a letter to yourself to acknowledge your strengths and achievements.
  • The Power of Authenticity: Explore the profound impact of living authentically, including improved mental well-being, stronger relationships, and greater life satisfaction.
  • Happya Philosophy - Harmonising Your Authenticity: Understand the first principle of the Happya philosophy, "Harmonising Your Authenticity," and practical ways to implement it in daily life.
  • The Benefits of Living Authentically: Discuss the long-term benefits of authenticity, including reduced stress, increased resilience, and a deeper sense of purpose.

I encourage you to explore these concepts further in my book, "Blooming Happya." It’s filled with practical advice, inspiring stories, and exercises to help you embrace your true self with confidence. Visit our website to learn more. Remember, you are beautiful, you are worthy, and you are enough. Take care and be well!

Happya Hour: https://happyacoach.com/happyahour

Email: [email protected]
Music by LemonMusicStudio

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