The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Casey Donatello is a married, non-monogamous author and podcast host who embraces the Hotwife lifestyle. She is passionate about supporting others on their journey to becoming more confident and unapologetic in their lives and their sexual choices. In today’s episode, she shares her process of recognizing and pursuing a relationship dynamic and sexual lifestyle that she finds most fulfilling. We also discuss how she found a partner who aligned with her vision for life and sex and how they deal with jealousy, communication, and rule-setting as they cultivate partner-sharing experiences. Casey also offers practical wisdom on entering the Hotwife lifestyle, pleasing your partner orally, and embracing all aspects of yourself through nudism, content creation, and fulfilling sexual encounters. Tune in to hear all this and more from today’s candid and sexually empowered guest!

Key Points From This Episode:

• An overview of Casey Donatello and her introduction to the Hotwife lifestyle.

• Her relationship journey leading up to her current marriage.

• Jealousy in the Hotwife lifestyle and how her dates are structured.

• Rule-setting and the feedback process.

• Tips for those looking to pursue a Hotwife lifestyle.

• Why it’s essential to share your sexual aspirations with a potential partner.

• Casey’s opinion on how to give your partner a good blow job!

• Advice for finding the confidence to talk dirty.

• Our guest weighs in on whether or not size matters.

• Advice for building confidence while riding your man.

• Why Casey doesn’t edit any of her content.

• How public nudism has supported Casey to find body confidence.

• Tips for women who are hoping to squirt.

• Casey’s complex journey into the lifestyle.

• The story behind Casey’s four books.

Quotes:

“[Hotwifing] is completely different than a regular threesome. Sometimes, it’s hard for people to understand how three people isn’t always the same equation. But it really isn’t.” [0:05:50]

“It’s like putting your relationship in a pressure cooker when you invite other people into your bed.” [0:08:26]

“There’s no right or wrong to what you are interested in. It’s just that you and your partner [have to] agree on it.” [0:19:06]

“A lot of times, people don’t want to talk about sex when they’re having sex, but that’s the best time.” [0:30:53]

“If you absolutely hate something or it hurts you, speak up! Don’t let somebody hurt your body because you don’t want to hurt their feelings.” [0:31:22]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Casey Donatello — https://caseydonatello.com/

Casey Donatello on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/caseydonatello.official/

Casey Donatello on X — https://twitter.com/hotwifelife869/

In Bed Podcast — https://caseydonatello.com/in-bed-podcast/

In Bed with Strangers — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07CQT1R15/

Scarlet Surrenders — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PYX8DQB/

Scarlet Swings Higher — https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07RZVKQ3M/

Bad Girls Bible Newsletter — https://badgirlsbible.com/newsletter

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#34 The Secret To Reaching Orgasm During Sex with Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. https://badgirlsbible.com/34-the-secret-to-reaching-orgasm-during-sex-with-laurie-mintz-ph-d

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In this episode we welcome Eyal Matsliah, author, sex therapist and business coach.

Eyal takes a tantric approach to helping his clients overcome trauma, achieve multiple orgasms and take this energy into the rest of their lives.

We chat about the importance of conscious sex and how it can permeate through people’s intimate and public lives, inspiring creativity and success as well as bringing previously unimaginable heights of pleasure.

The conversation also covers sexual repression, early ejaculation, and achieving the sometimes illusive orgasm. Eyal has plenty of helpful instructions from his book and website to share as a taste of what he offers.

Finally, Eyal explains the idea of slow sex and how our attitudes towards sexuality can maximize our enjoyment and benefit.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Eyal’s background and how he came to his current position.
• What Eyal understands by the term ‘conscious sex’.
• The yoni massage and the healing that it can entail for both parties.
• Prevalence of sexual repression and freeing ourselves from these shackles.
• Harnessing energy through tantra and using it for your life.
• Help for those who struggle to have any type of orgasm.
• A guide to a helpful and exploratory self pleasuring practice.
• A remedy for men with a lack of longevity in bed.
• How to help your partner along the path to better sex in the right way.
• Slow sex and getting away from the fast paced fiction of porn.
• The different attitudes we can foster towards these goals.
• Direct and indirect pleasure and considering giving and taking.
• And much more!

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Intimate Power — http://www.intimatepower.com/

Intimate Power on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/intimatepower/?hl=en

Eyal on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/eyalnow1

Eyal on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/eyalnow/?hl=en

Eyal Matsliah Twitter — https://twitter.com/eyalnow?lang=en

Orgasm Unleashed — https://www.amazon.com/Orgasm-Unleashed-guide-pleasure-healing/dp/0994414919

Layla Martin — https://www.layla-martin.com/laylahome/

Are We Sexually Repressed and Don’t Know It — http://www.intimatepower.com/are-we-sexually-repressed-and-dont-know-it/

Huffington Post — https://www.huffingtonpost.com

Napoleon Hill — http://www.naphill.org/

Think and Grow Rich — https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Napoleon-Hill-ebook/dp/B01BT0ISHQ

Tim Ferriss — https://tim.blog/

Bulletproof Coffee — https://blog.bulletproof.com/

Start with Why — https://startwithwhy.com/

On the show today we welcome Geanni, who is here to tell us all about her personal story and how she found out that her husband had got another woman pregnant while they were still married. This sort of situation is understandably distressing, but Geannie has a great perspective on it and offers amazing advice and insight that she has learned along the way. She gives us some of the backstory of how her and her husband got together and the marriage before explaining the period in which the infidelity came to light. She talks about her commitment to the marriage and how they actually managed to get over the issue for a period before the relationship ended. She also goes into her feelings on their relationship currently, how they share a child and the parenting process for her. For all of this and a fascinating interview from Geannie, be sure to tune in!

• Some personal background on Geannie.
• Meeting her husband in high school and getting to know him.
• The proposal and getting married soon after school.
• Confronting her husband about her suspicions.
• Reconciling after the initial separation and the role of Geannie’s spirituality in this.
• Geannie’s husband’s fears of pregnancy with the other women.
• The decision to try and overcome this massive hurdle and the difficult first year.
• Geannie’s current relationship with her husband and the family they have.
• Advice from Geannie to listeners in a similar situation.
• Geannie’s contact with her husband’s child and the mother.
• And much more!

“We started dating early in 2006 and that was my senior year in high school. It was his junior year in high school. We were married in October of 2007.” — Geannie [0:03:32]

“I just kept digging until I found something and so when I accused him, when I finally went to him, he denied it.” — Geannie [0:08:30]

Bad Girls Bible — https://badgirlsbible.com

In today's episode, I talk to family and marriage therapist Dr. Corey Allen on the three dangerous mistakes that can affect your relationship. We dive deep and discuss how to prevent all three from becoming a major problem: money, sex and the in-laws/kids.

Show Highlights

5.00 - Why it's not money that causes problems, it's the meaning attached to money.

6.28 - What to do when you and your partner view money in a very different way so it doesn't become a problem.

10.30 - Why you don't have to agree with everything your partner says or does.

12.40 - Why committed relationships are designed to help us grow up and how we need to grow through problems we face with our partner.

17.55 - Possibly the most important question you can ask yourself before you get married or if you are already married: "Would you want to be married to you?" and then applying this question to specific aspects of your marriage.

18.20 - What to do if you and your partner have different sex drives.

21.20 - The mistake guys make who have a higher sex drive than their wife and how it turns her off.

24.30 - Being honest with your partner and it's amazing benefits.

28.25 - We talk about when making a compromise in your relationship is not really a compromise at all.

31.30 - The issue with the in-laws.

33.45 - Why having a great relationship only requires common sense, but the problem is that we attach emotion to relationship...which make things complicated.

36.50 - Why recognizing that your emotions are going to cloud your judgement in your relationship.

38.00 - The main issue to avoid with your in-laws.

Show Notes

You can find Corey at http://simplemarriage.net and pick up a copy of Naked Marriage at simplemarriage.net/naked-marriage You can also listen to his podcast at https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/sexy-marriage-radio/id472302597?mt=2

In this episode of the Bad Girl's Bible podcast, I talk to swinger Cooper S. Beckett from the Life in the Swingset podcast. Cooper explains in detail what swinging is, the steps a couple can take to safely explore it, how it can help your relationship (or hinder it!) and more.

Show Highlights 1.25 - how he got into the swinging scene. 4.55 Why monogamy, NOT SWINGING is the right choice for many people. 6.05 - The traditional definition of swinging 6.50 - What polyamory and why it's different. 8.15 - Why swinging and polyamory is definitely not cheating 9.45 - The problem with life's unspoken "social contract." 10.35 - How to start talking to your partner about swinging in a smooth way. 18.10 - Why non-monogamy has improved Cooper's communication skills. 18.35 - How to start your swinging journey with your partner and make sure it's a great experience, and why some couples have a bad first experience. 21.55 - Tips on how to spot and avoid fakers when using swinging sites 23.30 - How to make your first swinger date easy going and successfull. 25.10 - What to do if one partner has reservations. 28.40 - Dealing with jealousy. 33.55 - What to do if swinging doesn't work for you 43.55 - One of the most important benefits of non-monogamy

Show Notes Kinsey scale - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale Cassidy - https://www.kasidie.com - the swinger site Cooper mentioned on the show

More On Cooper If you want to get in touch with Cooper, you can find him online at:

http://coopersbeckett.com/ https://twitter.com/coopersbeckett?lang=en https://www.facebook.com/coopersbeckett/ https://www.instagram.com/coopersbeckett/ Cooper's Podcast Podcast website: http://www.lifeontheswingset.com/ Podcast on iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/life-on-swingset-swinging/id354627460?mt=2

Cooper's Collection of Swinging Podcasts: swingset.fm

Cooper's 1st book http://coopersbeckett.com/books/my-life-on-the-swingset-adventures-in-swinging-polyamory/

Cooper's 2nd book http://coopersbeckett.com/books/a-life-less-monogamous-a-novel-by-cooper-s-beckett/ Special Discount for Listeners Cooper kindly gave me a discount code that you can use to get 10% off anything you purchase on his site, coopersbeckett.com. Just enter the word bible in the offer code section and that 10% discount will be applied to your order.