#23 Conscious Sex and How Men Can Last Longer In Bed With Eyal Matsliah

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11/23/18 • 47 min

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In this episode we welcome Eyal Matsliah, author, sex therapist and business coach.

Eyal takes a tantric approach to helping his clients overcome trauma, achieve multiple orgasms and take this energy into the rest of their lives.

We chat about the importance of conscious sex and how it can permeate through people’s intimate and public lives, inspiring creativity and success as well as bringing previously unimaginable heights of pleasure.

The conversation also covers sexual repression, early ejaculation, and achieving the sometimes illusive orgasm. Eyal has plenty of helpful instructions from his book and website to share as a taste of what he offers.

Finally, Eyal explains the idea of slow sex and how our attitudes towards sexuality can maximize our enjoyment and benefit.

Key Points From This Episode:

Eyal’s background and how he came to his current position.
What Eyal understands by the term ‘conscious sex’.
The yoni massage and the healing that it can entail for both parties.
Prevalence of sexual repression and freeing ourselves from these shackles.
Harnessing energy through tantra and using it for your life.
Help for those who struggle to have any type of orgasm.
A guide to a helpful and exploratory self pleasuring practice.
A remedy for men with a lack of longevity in bed.
How to help your partner along the path to better sex in the right way.
Slow sex and getting away from the fast paced fiction of porn.
The different attitudes we can foster towards these goals.
Direct and indirect pleasure and considering giving and taking.
And much more!

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Intimate Power — http://www.intimatepower.com/

Intimate Power on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/intimatepower/?hl=en

Eyal on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/eyalnow1

Eyal on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/eyalnow/?hl=en

Eyal Matsliah Twitter — https://twitter.com/eyalnow?lang=en

Orgasm Unleashed — https://www.amazon.com/Orgasm-Unleashed-guide-pleasure-healing/dp/0994414919

Layla Martin — https://www.layla-martin.com/laylahome/

Are We Sexually Repressed and Don’t Know It — http://www.intimatepower.com/are-we-sexually-repressed-and-dont-know-it/

Huffington Post — https://www.huffingtonpost.com

Napoleon Hill — http://www.naphill.org/

Think and Grow Rich — https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Napoleon-Hill-ebook/dp/B01BT0ISHQ

Tim Ferriss — https://tim.blog/

Bulletproof Coffee — https://blog.bulletproof.com/

Start with Why — https://startwithwhy.com/

In this episode we welcome Eyal Matsliah, author, sex therapist and business coach.

Eyal takes a tantric approach to helping his clients overcome trauma, achieve multiple orgasms and take this energy into the rest of their lives.

Finally, Eyal explains the idea of slow sex and how our attitudes towards sexuality can maximize our enjoyment and benefit.

Key Points From This Episode:

Eyal’s background and how he came to his current position.
What Eyal understands by the term ‘conscious sex’.
The yoni massage and the healing that it can entail for both parties.
Prevalence of sexual repression and freeing ourselves from these shackles.
Harnessing energy through tantra and using it for your life.
Help for those who struggle to have any type of orgasm.
A guide to a helpful and exploratory self pleasuring practice.
A remedy for men with a lack of longevity in bed.
How to help your partner along the path to better sex in the right way.
Slow sex and getting away from the fast paced fiction of porn.
The different attitudes we can foster towards these goals.
Direct and indirect pleasure and considering giving and taking.
And much more!

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Intimate Power — http://www.intimatepower.com/

Intimate Power on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/intimatepower/?hl=en

Eyal on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/eyalnow1

Eyal on Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/eyalnow/?hl=en

Eyal Matsliah Twitter — https://twitter.com/eyalnow?lang=en

Orgasm Unleashed — https://www.amazon.com/Orgasm-Unleashed-guide-pleasure-healing/dp/0994414919

Layla Martin — https://www.layla-martin.com/laylahome/

Are We Sexually Repressed and Don’t Know It — http://www.intimatepower.com/are-we-sexually-repressed-and-dont-know-it/

Huffington Post — https://www.huffingtonpost.com

Napoleon Hill — http://www.naphill.org/

Think and Grow Rich — https://www.amazon.com/Think-Grow-Rich-Napoleon-Hill-ebook/dp/B01BT0ISHQ

Tim Ferriss — https://tim.blog/

Bulletproof Coffee — https://blog.bulletproof.com/

Start with Why — https://startwithwhy.com/

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#22 Erotic Intelligence, Curing Low Libido, and Somatic Movement with Jamie Elizabeth Thompson

On the show today we are joined by Jamie Elizabeth Thompson who is a sex coach and intimacy expert, helping couples achieve a more fulfilling and connected sexuality and increased libido through erotic intelligence and somatic movement.

Jamie has designed a number of online courses for her clients to access their desire more successfully, with an emphasis on communication and self-awareness.

In our conversation Jamie lays out the useful concepts of her work and how they fit together to support the purpose of owning our sexuality and relating this to someone else.

We also talk about simple starting techniques in battling low libido, embodiment, foreplay, a sexual calendar and Jamie’s own Erotic MenuTM.

We finish off with some thoughts on how to share your own desires with a partner and how much this can benefit all areas on one’s life.

Key Points From This Episode:

Jamie’s background work in relationships and how she ended up working with couples.
Somatic movement reprogramming and body awareness.
Understanding the concept of erotic intelligence.
The key to erotic intelligence and the first steps to take on a path to increasing yours.
Jamie’s advice to those struggling with low libido.
Turning the body on and using embodiment to get out of your head.
The importance of foreplay and navigating different needs.
Sexy scheduling and making time for intimacy in a busy life.
Jamie’s Erotic MenuTM and how it outlines different ways we give and receive.
Creating our own ‘training manual’ and sharing it with a partner.
And much more!

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Jamie Elizabeth Thompson — https://jamieelizabeththompson.com/

Jamie Elizabeth Thompson on Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/missjamieelizabeth

The Erotic MenuTM — https://jamieelizabeththompson.com/eroticevolution/

Dr. Esther Perel — https://www.estherperel.com/

The 5 Love Languages — https://www.5lovelanguages.com/

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#24 Sex Tech: VR, Teledildonics and Deepfakes with Dr. Holly Richmond

Today on the podcast we are joined by Dr. Holly Richmond, Somatic Psychologist, Certified Sex Therapist (CST), and Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT).

Dr. Holly is one of North America’s leading sex therapists, serving women, men, couples, and gender diverse individuals for relationship and sexuality issues. She has been featured and quoted everywhere including Cosmo, CNN, Newsweek, Marie Claire, The New York Times, and more.

In the Sex Tech industry, Dr. Holly is also a sought after consultant and is seen as a pioneer in bridging the gap between sexual health education and adult entertainment.

Her work through the Next-Sex platform is an exploration of the context of emerging technology and sexuality and how to positively address both.

Today, Dr. Holly is on the show to discuss sex tech and how it can help and sometimes hinder your sex life. She also shares the benefits of Teledildonics to improve your sexual experience and the advances of using sex dolls and sex bots in the practice of psychotherapy.

Key Points From This Episode:

Dr. Holly’s background and how she got involved in sex tech.
What is sex tech, and the role it plays in Dr. Holly’s work as a somatic psychologist.
The positive roles sex tech can play in someone’s sex life.
How virtual reality can help to encourage people to experience healthy eroticism.
Defining Teledildonics; Bluetooth connected sex toys.
Why deepfakes can either be really great, or really dangerous.
The difference between a sex doll and a sex bot; are they a good influence?
The role of sex dolls and sex bots in psychotherapy.

Tweetables:

“Through my sex positive view, all sex is good sex as long as it’s consensual and pleasurable. I don’t get to make the choice about how much is too much. Every client does.” — @DrHollyRichmond [0:05:24.1]

“Virtual reality is almost a direct line to feeling and not thinking, experiencing instead of watching. It’s this embodied technology where we can become anything.” — @DrHollyRichmond [0:08:37.1]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Dr. Holly Richmond — http://drhollyrichmond.com/

Dr. Holly Richmond on Twitter — https://twitter.com/DrHollyRichmond

Next-Sex platform — http://next-sex.com/

Naughty America — https://www.naughtyamerica.com/

Fleshlight — https://www.fleshlight.com

Kiiroo — https://www.kiiroo.com/

Ella Paradis — https://www.ellaparadis.com/

Lioness — https://lioness.io/

Our Lovely Toys — https://ourlovely.com/

RealDoll — https://www.realdoll.com/

Synthetic Surrogates — https://syntheticsurrogates.com