The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice - #29 Squirting Orgasms, Getting Turned On, and Real Foreplay for Women with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius

#29 Squirting Orgasms, Getting Turned On, and Real Foreplay for Women with Female Orgasm Expert, Jason Julius

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01/07/19 • 61 min

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The Bad Girls Bible - Sex, Relationships, Dating, Love & Marriage Advice

Jason Julius is a world renowned sex coach and female orgasm expert and his goal is to help as many men, women, and couples achieve the amazing sex lives they deserve. In this episode we are going to discuss everything a man can do to give his partner more intense and satisfying pleasure inside and outside the bedroom. We also dive into how to really get your female partner aroused by communicating with her throughout the day, and building on the fantasy for her ultimate sexual readiness. Jason is very candid and shares all his tips and advice on stimulating your female partner’s G-spot and A-spot, ways to encourage her to let go towards ejaculation, and the real culprits behind premature and delayed ejaculation for men. So if you’re listening and have a male partner, you may want to get him to listen to this episode too!

Key Points From This Episode

Jason’s background and how he got to where he is today.
Advice for getting your female partner aroused.
Breaking down the arousal process for men and women.
Understanding the concept of “sexy context”.
What makes for good foreplay from a guy.
The importance of quieting down your female partners’ mind.
Simplicity and the general rules of dirty talk.
Why it is critical to get to know yourself sexually.
Advice for providing clitoral stimulation, manually and orally.
How to find the G-spot, and why many people struggle to find it.
Why using a lubricant is sometimes a must.
Strategy for helping your partner achieve female ejaculation.
The dangers of too much porn, and forming the wrong paths in your brain.
And much more!

Tweetables

“I think that there’s a huge misunderstanding about female desire and how female desire actually works.” — @jasonjulius [0:05:37.1]

“For guys, we need to understand that we need to be constantly flirting with our woman to create the fantasy that she desires to get her mind engaged.” — @jasonjulius [0:09:10.1]

“The purpose of foreplay is to build up the fantasy.” — @jasonjulius [0:13:35.1]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Jason’s Squirting Tutorial Video - http://www.orgasmarts.com/

Jason Julius — https://www.jasonjulius.com/

Jason’s website — http://www.orgasmarts.com/

Jason on Twitter — https://twitter.com/jasonjulius

Jason on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnJ25wY59ezVT3CXFunkuQQ

Come As You Are — https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090

Key Points From This Episode

Jason’s background and how he got to where he is today.
Advice for getting your female partner aroused.
Breaking down the arousal process for men and women.
Understanding the concept of “sexy context”.
What makes for good foreplay from a guy.
The importance of quieting down your female partners’ mind.
Simplicity and the general rules of dirty talk.
Why it is critical to get to know yourself sexually.
Advice for providing clitoral stimulation, manually and orally.
How to find the G-spot, and why many people struggle to find it.
Why using a lubricant is sometimes a must.
Strategy for helping your partner achieve female ejaculation.
The dangers of too much porn, and forming the wrong paths in your brain.
And much more!

Tweetables

“I think that there’s a huge misunderstanding about female desire and how female desire actually works.” — @jasonjulius [0:05:37.1]

“For guys, we need to understand that we need to be constantly flirting with our woman to create the fantasy that she desires to get her mind engaged.” — @jasonjulius [0:09:10.1]

“The purpose of foreplay is to build up the fantasy.” — @jasonjulius [0:13:35.1]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Jason’s Squirting Tutorial Video - http://www.orgasmarts.com/

Jason Julius — https://www.jasonjulius.com/

Jason’s website — http://www.orgasmarts.com/

Jason on Twitter — https://twitter.com/jasonjulius

Jason on YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnJ25wY59ezVT3CXFunkuQQ

Come As You Are — https://www.amazon.com/Come-You-Are-Surprising-Transform/dp/1476762090

Previous Episode

#28 Introduction to Polyamory and Non-monogamy with Poly Anna

Today on the podcast we welcome Poly Anna from the Sexploration with Poly Anna Podcast! In this episode we will be chatting about all things polyamory and getting Poly Anna’s personal and professional ideas, experiences and views on the subject. After a more traditional upbringing and early parts of her adult life, Poly Anna eventually found the strong desire for polyamory within herself and chose to pursue this urge. We get into the social aspects, catching feelings, intimacy and a host of other factors in this largely uncharted world of love. Poly Anna also gives us some great definitions and differentiations between various forms of ethical non-monogamy as well as sharing some positive and negative experiences of her own, navigating multiple partners and relationships. It promises to be a great episode with loads of helpful and juicy information for all of you.

Key Points From This Episode

Poly Anna’s own experiences and history with monogamy and polyamory.
Social expectations of polyamory and taboo acts.
How Poly Anna found her kinks and deeper desires.
Defining polyamory more clearly.
Some other versions of ethical non-monogamy.
Catching feelings and managing these in multiple relationships.
Is polyamory just an excuse to cheat without getting caught?
The initial steps to take in exploring polyamory.
Reaching out for help, support and information regarding this.
Maintaining intimacy with a primary partner.
Some of Poly Anna’s own experiences in polyamorous relationships.
Common stumbling blocks for different models of relationships.
Lessons for monogamy from polyamory!
Should everyone try polyamory?
Communication and coming out as polyamorous.
And much more!

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Poly Anna: https://sexplorationwithpo.wixsite.com/website

Poly Anna Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/instawithpolyanna/

Poly Anna Twitter: https://twitter.com/polyannatweets

Poly Anna Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/instawithpolyanna/

Poly Anna Email: [email protected]

Polyamory: Married and Dating — https://www.imdb.com/title/tt2227610/

Next Episode

#30 Incredible Sex Techniques & Tips from High Earning Sex Worker, Alice Little

Today on the podcast we are joined by a very special guest, none other than Alice Little from the Bunny Ranch and the Wing Woman Podcast. Alice is one of the most prominent sex workers in America and she is here to give our listeners expert advice and all round insider scoop on great sex and easy tips for increased pleasure and intimacy. In our discussion we cover Alice’s personal history and thoughts on sex work and perceptions around the subject. From there we cover dirty talk, orgasms, oral sex, BDSM and a lot more. Alice also gives some practical advice for body positivity and managing a partner of a different height in the bedroom. For all this amazing information and more from a truly wonderful ambassador for better sex, join us for today’s episode!

Show Highlights

How Alice found herself at The Bunny Ranch.
Why do people visit sex workers?
Some of the common misconceptions around sex work.
Alice’s advice for those listeners wanting to work on their dirty talk.
Closing the orgasm gap and finding ways to share pleasure.
Alice’s advice to listener’s wanting to improve their fellatio skills.
The reciprocal advice for cunnilingus.
How to go about getting more acquainted with BDSM and sensation play.
Use of safe words and aftercare and why they are so important.
Clearly defining the BDSM acronym.
Some of Alice’s tips for overcoming height difference between partners.
Getting over self doubt and getting on top of your partner.
And much more!

Tweetables

“I believe so strongly in the good that legal sex workers can do for society and I believe so much so that it’s the perfect job for me that I plan to continue to do so.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:05:27.3]

“If you can’t talk about sex and intimacy outside of the bedroom, you’re never going to get to the point where you can express yourself openly and comfortably while actually in the bedroom.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:06:51.9]

“It’s the biggest sexual mistake that America is making right now, we’re failing to ask what our partner actually likes.” — @TheAliceLittle [0:10:26.9]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode

Alice Little — https://thealicelittle.com

Wing Woman Podcast — https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/wing-woman-podcast/id1434992925

Alice Little Twitter — https://twitter.com/TheAliceLittle

Alice Little Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/thealicelittleofficial/

Moonlite Bunny Ranch — https://www.bunnyranch.com

Alice Little Email — [email protected]

Dennis Hof — https://www.dennishof.com/about-dennis/

Ron Jeremy — https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000465/

Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy — https://www.tandfonline.com/toc/usmt20/current

Sephora — https://www.sephora.com

Ulta — https://www.ulta.com