971: How Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors Impact You
10/22/23 • 20 min
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In today's episode, Gina discusses the importance of the subconscious for our overall mental wellness. We can discount stress and other things in such a way that we are oblivious to the causes of anxiety symptoms emerging in our lives. Denial, normalization, avoidance and other adverse coping mechanisms can contribute to this state of overburdened subconscious mind and unaware conscious mind. Listen in to better understand causes of this situation, how to avoid it and how to heal from it.
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Quote:
Your body hears everything your mind says.
-Naomi Judd
Chapters
0:00:24 Welcoming Back and Introducing the Topic of Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors
0:01:11 Exploring the Depth of the Subconscious Mind and Its Impact
0:01:18 Unconscious Anxiety Behaviors: Bubbling up and Wanting to be Released
0:02:11 Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors: Living a More Stressful Life Than Realized
0:08:40 Stigma and Self-Perception: Hiding Stress and Denial
0:15:36 Recognizing Anxiety as the Last Resort
0:16:37 Working on Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors
Summary
In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, we delve into the unseen world of subconscious anxiety behaviors and their impact on our daily lives. Research indicates that a significant portion of our thoughts and actions, up to 95%, are influenced by our subconscious. These hidden anxieties can manifest as physical symptoms and sensations that may baffle healthcare providers.
I urge listeners to examine their routines and thought patterns to uncover any underlying signs of anxiety. Often, we engage in anxious behaviors without even realizing they are driven by anxiety. Examples include excessive planning, overthinking, and avoidance. We may deny or downplay our stress levels, normalizing them as part of everyday life. It's vital to recognize that stress is experienced differently by each individual and can have a profound impact on our well-being.
Many individuals shy away from acknowledging their stress due to the fear of the implications it may have on their responsibilities and commitments. This avoidance can lead to a dangerous "head-in-the-sand" mentality, where we pretend everything is fine while our stress levels continue to rise. Stigma surrounding stress admission, especially among professionals, further compounds these feelings of denial.
We explore the consequences of hiding our stress and presenting a facade of having it all together. The fear of appearing weak or incapable of handling challenges can contribute to anxiety and bury our emotions deeper into our subconscious. It is crucial to recognize that our perceived "normal" level of stress may actually be unhealthy, and anxiety can manifest in various ways.
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In today's episode, Gina discusses the importance of the subconscious for our overall mental wellness. We can discount stress and other things in such a way that we are oblivious to the causes of anxiety symptoms emerging in our lives. Denial, normalization, avoidance and other adverse coping mechanisms can contribute to this state of overburdened subconscious mind and unaware conscious mind. Listen in to better understand causes of this situation, how to avoid it and how to heal from it.
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❤ New Ad-Free episodes every Sunday and Wednesday
❤ Access to the entire Ad-free back-catalog with over 600 episodes
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❤ And more fun surprises along the way!
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Learn more about our One-on-One Coaching
Quote:
Your body hears everything your mind says.
-Naomi Judd
Chapters
0:00:24 Welcoming Back and Introducing the Topic of Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors
0:01:11 Exploring the Depth of the Subconscious Mind and Its Impact
0:01:18 Unconscious Anxiety Behaviors: Bubbling up and Wanting to be Released
0:02:11 Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors: Living a More Stressful Life Than Realized
0:08:40 Stigma and Self-Perception: Hiding Stress and Denial
0:15:36 Recognizing Anxiety as the Last Resort
0:16:37 Working on Subconscious Anxiety Behaviors
Summary
In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, we delve into the unseen world of subconscious anxiety behaviors and their impact on our daily lives. Research indicates that a significant portion of our thoughts and actions, up to 95%, are influenced by our subconscious. These hidden anxieties can manifest as physical symptoms and sensations that may baffle healthcare providers.
I urge listeners to examine their routines and thought patterns to uncover any underlying signs of anxiety. Often, we engage in anxious behaviors without even realizing they are driven by anxiety. Examples include excessive planning, overthinking, and avoidance. We may deny or downplay our stress levels, normalizing them as part of everyday life. It's vital to recognize that stress is experienced differently by each individual and can have a profound impact on our well-being.
Many individuals shy away from acknowledging their stress due to the fear of the implications it may have on their responsibilities and commitments. This avoidance can lead to a dangerous "head-in-the-sand" mentality, where we pretend everything is fine while our stress levels continue to rise. Stigma surrounding stress admission, especially among professionals, further compounds these feelings of denial.
We explore the consequences of hiding our stress and presenting a facade of having it all together. The fear of appearing weak or incapable of handling challenges can contribute to anxiety and bury our emotions deeper into our subconscious. It is crucial to recognize that our perceived "normal" level of stress may actually be unhealthy, and anxiety can manifest in various ways.
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970: Sanctuary Trauma and Anxiety: When Safe Spaces Turn Distressing
In today's episode, Gina discusses the concept of sanctuary trauma, a form of trauma that occurs when an individual's safe space becomes a location of further trauma. Trauma is often involved in the development of mental health problems, including anxiety. Listen in for details about sanctuary trauma, including its affects on the psyche as well as ways to heal from this unique form of anxiety provoking experience.
Book from today's show:
Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma
by Peter A. Levine
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Quote:
Trauma is perhaps the most avoided, ignored, belittled, denied, misunderstood, and untreated cause of human suffering.
– Peter Levine
Chapters
0:00:24 Introduction and the concept of sanctuary trauma
0:02:16 Peter Levine's perspective on trauma
0:13:57 Recognizing the Effects of Sanctuary Trauma
0:15:23 Seeking Help and Support for Healing Sanctuary Trauma
0:17:18 Strategies for Healing Sanctuary Trauma
Long Summary
In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, we delve into the concept of sanctuary trauma and its relationship to anxiety. As Peter Levine once said, it is imperative to understand and heal trauma. That's exactly what we aim to explore in this episode.
We begin by introducing the term "sanctuary trauma," coined by Dr. Steven Silver. Sanctuary trauma occurs when individuals seek solace and support in what they believe to be a safe environment, only to encounter more trauma. We acknowledge that many of our listeners may have experienced this type of trauma themselves, and we want to validate their experiences.
Trauma is subjective and varies from person to person. We provide a psychological definition of trauma and sanctuary, emphasizing the importance of creating a safe and supportive environment for individuals who have experienced trauma. Unfortunately, betrayal often goes hand in hand with sanctuary trauma and can shatter a person's sense of safety and security.
Throughout the episode, we provide examples of situations where sanctuary trauma can arise, such as mistreatment or dismissal by healthcare providers. We highlight the profound emotional distress that sanctuary trauma can cause, including feelings of hurt, anger, and confusion. This type of trauma can have long-lasting effects, leading to issues such as anxiety, depression, and even post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
We dive deeper into the connection between sanctuary trauma and its impact on individuals' ability to form healthy relationships and connections. This perpetuates anxiety and trauma, leading some individuals to turn to drugs and alcohol as coping mechanisms, which can escalate into addiction, causing further harm. Sanctuary trauma can also manifest in physical health problems, such as headaches, sleep disturbances, and chronic pain.
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972: Finding Peace in the Present Moment: A Listener's Journey
1 RecommendationsIn today's episode, Gina discusses a listener's email commenting on a previous episode about living in the present moment. This previous episode was in response to a listener question about aging and uncertainty, particularly in regard to medical care. Becoming more comfortable with uncertainty can make living in the present moment much easier and can help reduce and eliminate chronic anxiety. Listen in for tips on how to live peacefully in the present moment even with unresolvable issues.
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Quote:
Chapters
0:00:24 Finding Peace in the Present Moment
0:01:30 Listener Dee's Insights on Feeling Safe and Deserving Help
0:04:43 Living in the Present and Fostering Resilience
0:13:50 Building Resilience and Prioritizing Self-Care
0:14:41 Setting Realistic Expectations and Finding Meaning and Purpose
0:16:46 Practicing Gratitude and Living Peacefully with Unresolvable Issues
Summary
In this episode of the Anxiety Coaches Podcast, the host Gina Ryan shares an email from a listener named Dee who discusses finding peace in the present moment. Dee expresses her appreciation for the podcast's inclusive approach towards listeners of all ages, highlighting that emotions can affect anyone regardless of age. She finds hope and comfort in the idea of being able to handle whatever comes her way by staying present. Dee also opens up about feeling dismissed by medical professionals and the fear of an uncertain future.
Gina responds by emphasizing the importance of embracing the present moment and finding inner peace despite unresolved issues. She expresses gratitude for Dee's feedback and emphasizes the value of sharing experiences and wisdom among listeners. Gina now moves on to discussing strategies that can help individuals deal with unresolvable issues.
To begin, it is crucial to accept that not all problems can be completely resolved. Letting go of the need to fix everything is necessary for personal growth and peace of mind. Embracing uncertainty is a significant aspect of life, as not everything can be neatly resolved. Instead, individuals should focus on what they can control and take proactive steps to improve those areas. Seeking support from loved ones or a therapist can be beneficial in finding relief and gaining perspective.
Mindfulness and meditation are powerful tools that can help individuals stay in the present moment and reduce anxiety related to the future. Cultivating resilience through positive thinking, problem-solving skills, and emotional intelligence is essential. Prioritizing self-care, setting realistic expectations, and finding meaning and purpose in life can contribute to overall fulfillment. Additionally, practicing gratitude and acknowledging the positive aspects of life can shift focus away from unresolvable problems.
Gina concludes by emphasizing that living peacefully with unresolvable issues is an ongoing process. Through the incorporation of these strategies, individuals can better navigate the challenges that arise. She extends her gratitude to Dee for sharing her email and highlights the positive impact her meditation practice can have.
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