
Resets, Grief Recovery & Coming Home with Terry Stout
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10/19/21 • 24 min
In this episode you’ll get introduced to a dear friend of Simon’s Terry Stout. Terry comes to the conversation with a wealth of experiences and is a true student of life. Throughout his time as a pilot and a counsellor, and much more Terry is a bridger of worlds and he has a huge heart and a quick mind.
You’ll hear how the Vietnam War and the death of Terry’s daughter caused him to really Pause Stop Reset and led to his greater understanding and moving beyond grief counselling towards Grief Recovery and what really matters.
Don’t miss the important lessons, recommendations and more from this wise and gentle soul who has a great mischievous sense of humour and always comes from a place of deep compassion for people.
You can learn more about Terry at www.Hokseda.com
This host and creator of this podcast is Simon Hedley. Building on his strong background in banking, business & strategy he’s passionate about learning, sharing, and making the difference to people and projects. As “Strategic Alchemist” he’sbeen the secret weapon of many well-known leaders, founders and thought leaders for over two decades.
You can learn more about Simon at www.SimonHedley.com , connect and follow him on LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/mrsimonhedley , Twitter.com/simonhedley or www.Instagram.com/thesimonhedley, and you can book a consulting call with him at book.simonhedley.com
Remember at www.PauseStopReset.com you can find out more about Pause Stop Reset, how to access The Podcast Portal and get more resources to help you on your journey including the Journal and Book.
Pause Stop Reset is published by www.TheSimpleIdea.com and for any queries, questions, opportunities or suggestions get in with the team via [email protected].
In this episode you’ll get introduced to a dear friend of Simon’s Terry Stout. Terry comes to the conversation with a wealth of experiences and is a true student of life. Throughout his time as a pilot and a counsellor, and much more Terry is a bridger of worlds and he has a huge heart and a quick mind.
You’ll hear how the Vietnam War and the death of Terry’s daughter caused him to really Pause Stop Reset and led to his greater understanding and moving beyond grief counselling towards Grief Recovery and what really matters.
Don’t miss the important lessons, recommendations and more from this wise and gentle soul who has a great mischievous sense of humour and always comes from a place of deep compassion for people.
You can learn more about Terry at www.Hokseda.com
This host and creator of this podcast is Simon Hedley. Building on his strong background in banking, business & strategy he’s passionate about learning, sharing, and making the difference to people and projects. As “Strategic Alchemist” he’sbeen the secret weapon of many well-known leaders, founders and thought leaders for over two decades.
You can learn more about Simon at www.SimonHedley.com , connect and follow him on LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/mrsimonhedley , Twitter.com/simonhedley or www.Instagram.com/thesimonhedley, and you can book a consulting call with him at book.simonhedley.com
Remember at www.PauseStopReset.com you can find out more about Pause Stop Reset, how to access The Podcast Portal and get more resources to help you on your journey including the Journal and Book.
Pause Stop Reset is published by www.TheSimpleIdea.com and for any queries, questions, opportunities or suggestions get in with the team via [email protected].
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How Humility Creates Opportunity with Carlos Anaya
In this episode you get a glimpse into the human being that is Carlos Anaya. From his strong journalism background to exploring spirituality and connection and now helping some of the most innovative brands and thought leaders connect with the Hispanic markets.
Carlos is someone with a really different perspective to most who has been a stand for so many people over the years. You’ll also hear how cultural diversity plays such a strong part in creativity and the potential resets to come.
You’ll hear how staying humble and grateful helped on his journey from his time as a waiter to getting his first TV gig, and from there his incredible career. Taking each leap as they came.
Don’t miss the important lessons about learning to balance our emotions and the insights he’s forged after decades of working on himself and what being successful really means.
This host and creator of this podcast is Simon Hedley. Building on his strong background in banking, business & strategy he’s passionate about learning, sharing, and making the difference to people and projects. As “Strategic Alchemist” he’sbeen the secret weapon of many well-known leaders, founders and thought leaders for over two decades.
You can learn more about Carlos at www.CafecitoEspiritual.com
This host and creator of this podcast is Simon Hedley. Building on his strong background in banking, business & strategy he’s passionate about learning, sharing, and making the difference to people and projects. As “Strategic Alchemist” he’sbeen the secret weapon of many well-known leaders, founders and thought leaders for over two decades.
You can learn more about Simon at www.SimonHedley.com , connect and follow him on LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/mrsimonhedley , Twitter.com/simonhedley or www.Instagram.com/thesimonhedley, and you can book a consulting call with him at book.simonhedley.com
Remember at www.PauseStopReset.com you can find out more about Pause Stop Reset, how to access The Podcast Portal and get more resources to help you on your journey including the Journal and Book.
Pause Stop Reset is published by www.TheSimpleIdea.com and for any queries, questions, opportunities or suggestions get in with the team via [email protected].
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Be Bold, Reframing The Resets with Persuasion Master Rintu Basu
In this episode you’ll get introduced to Rintu Basu, author of the acclaimed Persuasion Skills Black Book – now over 10 years old - and much more updates to come, and so much more. He’s got a diverse background that includes music, engineering, serving in the Police, being an author and trainer and so much more.
You’ll hear how stepping into being the primary carer for his parents in their twilight years has caused him to pause and stop everything for the last few years. As we grow older this is something we all need to face and is such a cause of “reset”. You’ll hear this caring and wise soul sharing transparently about the challenge and struggle it’s been. Also, the reminder that we aren’t the circumstances and to see the humour, bitter sweet and light in dark times. I think massive lessons we can all learn from. Especially as he deep dives into the nature of identify and how it plays out.
Don’t miss the important lessons, recommendations and more to be bold, and lean in and commit to what you’re doing. Not even conforming to the identity’s we chose for ourselves. Vital when we need to really Pause Stop Reset. Also, a vital reminder about how all the interesting things are outside our comfort zones and how we can recognise that and do things for the experience not the result, and the value of keeping a journal during the journey.
You’ll also get a chance to hear his story - of the policeman, the pub and the fluffy kittens.
You can learn more about Rintu at www.RintuBasu.com
This host and creator of this podcast is Simon Hedley. Building on his strong background in banking, business & strategy he’s passionate about learning, sharing, and making the difference to people and projects. As “Strategic Alchemist” he’s been the secret weapon of many well-known leaders, founders and thought leaders for over two decades.
You can learn more about Simon at www.SimonHedley.com , connect and follow him on LinkedIn at www.linkedin.com/in/mrsimonhedley , Twitter.com/simonhedley or www.Instagram.com/thesimonhedley, and you can book a consulting call with him at book.simonhedley.com
Remember at www.PauseStopReset.com you can find out more about Pause Stop Reset, how to access The Podcast Portal and get more resources to help you on your journey including the Journal and Book.
Pause Stop Reset is published by www.TheSimpleIdea.com and for any queries, questions, opportunities or suggestions get in with the team via [email protected].
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