Time to Get the "F" Out: The Journey from Hurt Parent to Healed Parent
09/19/23 • 22 min
"What will you pursue in the middle of this mess that might somehow justify all your suffering?"
In this episode, we are opening our eyes to one of the biggest struggles we experience as parents of teenagers or young adults in crisis. Whether we are dealing with teen behavior issues, addiction, failing grades in high school, manipulation, or isolation, there is a heaviness that creeps in around us with no intention of leaving anytime soon.
Join us as we discuss how we go from hurt parents to healed parents and learn about a unique opportunity coming to you in October 2023!
Timestamps:The challenges of parenting teens in crisis [00:00:02]
Discussion on the difficulties parents face when their teens are in crisis and the importance of a supportive community.
The role of fear in parenting [00:01:26]
Exploration of how fear can dictate our actions as parents and lead to constant stress and anxiety.
The pressure to fix everything and fear of failure [00:02:53]
Discussion on the pressure parents feel to find solutions to their child's problems and the fear of failure that comes with it.
The need for a supportive community [00:15:20]
Emphasizes the importance of having a supportive community to help navigate challenges and overcome fear in parenting.
The upcoming four-week online workshop [00:17:02]
Introducing an upcoming workshop focused on four foundation principles to help parents operate from a place of calm and healing.
Shifting away from control and finding purpose in suffering [00:19:33]
Encouraging listeners to shift their mindset away from control and view their experiences as opportunities for growth and purpose in their lives and the lives of their children.
Register for the 4 Principles for Fighting Fear workshop HERE
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About Through The Hard:
"Through The Hard" is proudly presented by Pathways to Hope Network—an empathetic non-profit organization committed to providing free support and nurturing a sense of community for parents navigating the challenges of teens in crisis.
Explore Additional Support:
- Delve into our website: Pathways to Hope Network (Subscribe for weekly encouragement)
- Access local and national resources: Pathways Resources
- Read insightful articles on our blog: Pathways Blog
- Find answers to common queries: Pathways FAQ
Connect with Us:
- Join our community on Facebook: Pathways to Hope Network Facebook
- Stay connected on Instagram: Pathways to Hope Network Instagram
- For personalized support, reach out via email: [email protected]
"What will you pursue in the middle of this mess that might somehow justify all your suffering?"
In this episode, we are opening our eyes to one of the biggest struggles we experience as parents of teenagers or young adults in crisis. Whether we are dealing with teen behavior issues, addiction, failing grades in high school, manipulation, or isolation, there is a heaviness that creeps in around us with no intention of leaving anytime soon.
Join us as we discuss how we go from hurt parents to healed parents and learn about a unique opportunity coming to you in October 2023!
Timestamps:The challenges of parenting teens in crisis [00:00:02]
Discussion on the difficulties parents face when their teens are in crisis and the importance of a supportive community.
The role of fear in parenting [00:01:26]
Exploration of how fear can dictate our actions as parents and lead to constant stress and anxiety.
The pressure to fix everything and fear of failure [00:02:53]
Discussion on the pressure parents feel to find solutions to their child's problems and the fear of failure that comes with it.
The need for a supportive community [00:15:20]
Emphasizes the importance of having a supportive community to help navigate challenges and overcome fear in parenting.
The upcoming four-week online workshop [00:17:02]
Introducing an upcoming workshop focused on four foundation principles to help parents operate from a place of calm and healing.
Shifting away from control and finding purpose in suffering [00:19:33]
Encouraging listeners to shift their mindset away from control and view their experiences as opportunities for growth and purpose in their lives and the lives of their children.
Register for the 4 Principles for Fighting Fear workshop HERE
___________________________________________________________________________
About Through The Hard:
"Through The Hard" is proudly presented by Pathways to Hope Network—an empathetic non-profit organization committed to providing free support and nurturing a sense of community for parents navigating the challenges of teens in crisis.
Explore Additional Support:
- Delve into our website: Pathways to Hope Network (Subscribe for weekly encouragement)
- Access local and national resources: Pathways Resources
- Read insightful articles on our blog: Pathways Blog
- Find answers to common queries: Pathways FAQ
Connect with Us:
- Join our community on Facebook: Pathways to Hope Network Facebook
- Stay connected on Instagram: Pathways to Hope Network Instagram
- For personalized support, reach out via email: [email protected]
Previous Episode
From Seed to Harvest: Finding Peace in The Process of Parenting Teens
Hey Sis! Ever think about parenting teens like you're tending a garden? Well, that's what we're getting into in this episode – 'cause, let's face it, our kids are a bit like flowers. They bloom when they're ready, in their own sweet time.
We're just here to play the gardener, you know? Nurturing, observing, and maybe doing a bit of waiting.
This summer, as I strolled around my yard, checking out how each plant was doing, it hit me how much parenting teens can feel like tending a garden. And guess what? I had to spill the beans (or should I say seeds?) with you.
Come hang out with us as we chat about:
- Your child’s zone: Respecting their own growth timeline.
- Starting at ground level: Embracing those foundational moments.
- How to soften the seed: Creating the right conditions for growth.
- The DANGERS of overwatering: Yep, finding that sweet balance.
- Getting to the roots: Digging into what really matters for your teens.
I'm keeping it laid-back and sharing insights to help you navigate the ups and downs of parenting teens. So, grab your favorite beverage, kick back, and let's chat about growing up together, one seed at a time.
___________________________________________________________________________
About Through The Hard:
"Through The Hard" is proudly presented by Pathways to Hope Network—an empathetic non-profit organization committed to providing free support and nurturing a sense of community for parents navigating the challenges of teens in crisis.
Explore Additional Support:
- Delve into our website: Pathways to Hope Network (Subscribe for weekly encouragement)
- Access local and national resources: Pathways Resources
- Read insightful articles on our blog: Pathways Blog
- Find answers to common queries: Pathways FAQ
Connect with Us:
- Join our community on Facebook: Pathways to Hope Network Facebook
- Stay connected on Instagram: Pathways to Hope Network Instagram
- For personalized support, reach out via email: [email protected]
Next Episode
Connecting Through Conversation: Navigating the Shifting Landscape of Parent-Teen Communication
In this episode of our podcast "Parenting Teens Through the Hard," we are talking about the importance of understanding the changing dynamics of communication with our teens and how crucial it is for us to adapt.
We all know that our teens are heavily influenced by their peers, technology, and social media. However, it's essential for us to remember that our voices still hold immense value in their lives. We need to find ways to connect and communicate effectively with them.
A key aspect we focus on is modeling healthy communication and empathy. Empathy acts as the anchor line that connects us in our communication with our teens. By understanding their perspective and showing empathy, we can build a stronger bond with them.
Today's teens face numerous challenges and pressures, and it's our responsibility as parents to provide understanding and empathy. We need to create an environment where they feel safe to open up and share their thoughts and feelings.
Building trust and open communication is vital. So, let's embark on this journey together, exploring the world of communication with our teens. By adapting to the changing dynamics, understanding the generation gap, and practicing empathy, we can strengthen our relationships and guide our teens through the hard times.
Register for the 4 Principles for Fighting Fear workshop HERE
___________________________________________________________________________
About Through The Hard:
"Through The Hard" is proudly presented by Pathways to Hope Network—an empathetic non-profit organization committed to providing free support and nurturing a sense of community for parents navigating the challenges of teens in crisis.
Explore Additional Support:
- Delve into our website: Pathways to Hope Network (Subscribe for weekly encouragement)
- Access local and national resources: Pathways Resources
- Read insightful articles on our blog: Pathways Blog
- Find answers to common queries: Pathways FAQ
Connect with Us:
- Join our community on Facebook: Pathways to Hope Network Facebook
- Stay connected on Instagram: Pathways to Hope Network Instagram
- For personalized support, reach out via email: [email protected]
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