106: Reading Festival tips - straight from the mouths of teenagers.

09/04/24 • 42 min

Parenting teenagers untangled. 🏆 The audio hug for parents of teens and tweens.

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Music festivals are a rite of passage for many teens. Whilst some love the music, the lack of restriction and opportunities to mingle in a way that they could have only dreamt of during Covid, others decide to give them a miss or go and positively hate the experience.
I was never a festival kid growing up. I didn't have the money, or the opportunity. As an adult, I've found them to be joyous events, but will always refuse to stay the night.
My girls have now both been to one of the key UK festivals, Reading, so I thought you might be interested to hear more about what to expect if your kids are keen to go, how best to plan ahead, and what the key issues turned out to be.

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105: Grades. Our obsession with them fails everyone. An interview with Exam Nation author Sammy Wright

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What is school for, and are exam grades a good measure of a human? Does someone's grades tell us what we should know, or are we being misled? Do grades help children grow and engage with learning, or do they simply destroy interest and entrench social divisions? These are the sort of questions that perplex many of us who are parenting teenagers.
It’s coming to the end of summer in the UK which means there’s been a wave of exam results and the beautifully timed release of a terrific book called Exam Nation; why our obsession with grades fails everyone.

Written by Sammy Wright, Headteacher of a secondary school in the North of England and part of the UK government’s Social Mobility Commission for several years it was chosen by the BBC as book of the week, and applauded by reviewers across the serious newspapers in the UK, and I even found it laugh out loud funny at times.
In this interview we talk about what school is for, the difficult transition from junior to secondary education, the need for tests and the way in which we view grades. Sammy offers up thought about other ways of looking at schooling which he thinks has become too transactional and would serve us better if it were more focused on the whole person.
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107: Teen weight and body image: Mother and daughter explore the issues.

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As your child turns from a tween to a teen it's obvious to everyone that their body and mind are undergoing massive changes. It's destablising for our kids and can be very uncomfortable for us parents watching as the changes take place.
Some of our discomfort can come from our own fears about how to guide them through the changes and what sort of person will come out the other side of the transformation.
Some of it will be down to our own memories of the problems we faced when we hit puberty and some of the biggest difficulties can stem from our own unresolved body issues and the different attitudes to body image when we were growing up.
It's a messy, imperfect, process so we thought it might help listeners to hear Phoebe and I talk about our own experience as a way to help you unpick the process for yourself.
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Inventing Ourselves: The Secret Life of the Teenage Brain by Sarah-Jayne Blakemore

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Parenting teenagers untangled. 🏆 The audio hug for parents of teens and tweens. - 106: Reading Festival tips - straight from the mouths of teenagers.

Transcript

Rachel Richards00:00:02.640

Rachel, hello and welcome to teenagers. Untangled the audio hug for parents going through the teenagers. I'm Rachel Richards, parenting coach, journalist, mother of two teenagers and two bonus daughters. It's the end of summer in the UK, and my two teenagers are getting ready to go back to school, but fresh in their minds is the reading music festival. It's become the big get together in the UK for kids who finished their GCSEs. So we're ta