Lessons Learned in Caregiving and Entrepreneurship with Sam Vander Wielen

04/04/23 • 49 min

My guest today is multi-seven-figure attorney-turned-entrepreneur, Sam Vander Wielen, but trust me when I say we're diving into much more than just her impressive career accolades. I had the pleasure of chatting with Sam about her personal experience with caregiving for her parents, which opened up a discussion about the many different responsibilities we balance in our lives. We explored the challenges of putting others' needs before our own and the rewarding and fulfilling aspects of doing so.

Sam shared how she found her true calling in an unexpected way, and how she had to learn to do things herself before seeking out help. We also talked about the importance of creating evergreen offerings and the benefits they bring, as well as knowing oneself and finding your true identity outside of titles and careers.

But let me tell you a little bit about what Sam is typically known for. She's an attorney turned entrepreneur and legal educator, helping coaches and service providers legally protect and grow their online brands through her legal templates and signature programs, including the Ultimate Bundle. Sam hosts the podcast On Your Terms, where she shares valuable legal and business tips for online entrepreneurs.

Sam's down-to-earth personality and great energy make her a joy to talk to. I'm thrilled to have connected with her, and our conversation was much more than just her career achievements.

What you'll hear in this episode:

[1:55] What Sam typically is known for and how she got started in this field.

[5:30] Why you need to stop doing things you’re not good at and start doing things you are.

[10:50] Personal fulfillment from the business.

[16:35] How to find the balance between being a caregiver and finding time for yourself.

[19:45] Things you can do now to help set your child or another future caregiver up for success.

[25:00] How evergreen offerings can set you up for success.

[28:10] What to do when you think "I can't do this because _____."

[32:55] Getting clear on what you want and allowing yourself to be all of the different aspects of who you are.

[36:45] Holding space for others and expanding who you are.

[40:00] How to separate who you are as a businesswoman from who you are as a person.

[45:10] What to do if you’re ready to make a change.

CONNECT WITH SAM

Follow Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samvanderwielen/?hl=en

Check out the On Your Terms Podcast: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/podcast/

Learn more about Sam and purchase her templates: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/

Check out Sam's mindset coach: https://www.jenniferdiaz.com/

CONNECT WITH KELSEY

Follow Kelsey: https://www.instagram.com/thisiskelseysmith/

Follow Momma Has Goals: https://www.instagram.com/mommahasgoals/

Download the app for https://apps.apple.com/us/app/momma-has-goals/id1607219680 or https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mommahasgoals.android&hl=en&gl=US

Learn more at https://thisiskelseysmith.com/

Join our text list. Text "Goals" to https://my.community.com/kelseysmith?t=Goals

Sam's down-to-earth personality and great energy make her a joy to talk to. I'm thrilled to have connected with her, and our conversation was much more than just her career achievements.

What you'll hear in this episode:

[1:55] What Sam typically is known for and how she got started in this field.

[5:30] Why you need to stop doing things you’re not good at and start doing things you are.

[10:50] Personal fulfillment from the business.

[16:35] How to find the balance between being a caregiver and finding time for yourself.

[19:45] Things you can do now to help set your child or another future caregiver up for success.

[25:00] How evergreen offerings can set you up for success.

[28:10] What to do when you think "I can't do this because _____."

[32:55] Getting clear on what you want and allowing yourself to be all of the different aspects of who you are.

[36:45] Holding space for others and expanding who you are.

[40:00] How to separate who you are as a businesswoman from who you are as a person.

[45:10] What to do if you’re ready to make a change.

CONNECT WITH SAM

Follow Sam on IG: https://www.instagram.com/samvanderwielen/?hl=en

Check out the On Your Terms Podcast: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/podcast/

Learn more about Sam and purchase her templates: https://www.samvanderwielen.com/

Check out Sam's mindset coach: https://www.jenniferdiaz.com/

CONNECT WITH KELSEY

Follow Kelsey: https://www.instagram.com/thisiskelseysmith/

Follow Momma Has Goals: https://www.instagram.com/mommahasgoals/

Download the app for https://apps.apple.com/us/app/momma-has-goals/id1607219680 or https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.mommahasgoals.android&hl=en&gl=US

Learn more at https://thisiskelseysmith.com/

Join our text list. Text "Goals" to https://my.community.com/kelseysmith?t=Goals

Previous Episode

Enjoying the Process of Creating Your Own Story

I want to talk about how important it is to go after what you believe your life story is supposed to be. It's easy to get caught up in the day-to-day and forget about our long-term goals, but we need to remember why we started in the first place. We need to keep pushing towards our dreams, even if we face obstacles along the way. Each season of life and motherhood brings new challenges and opportunities, and it's up to you to find the beauty in each one. Embrace the journey and learn from your experiences.

What you'll hear in this episode:

[1:20] How important it is to go after what you believe your life story is supposed to be.

[3:35] It’s your job to always be working on what’s next for you.

[5:30] Your job right now is to just be busy living the way you believe you should be living.

[7:30] Your job isn’t to live life perfectly, your job is to live life the way that you need to in this season.

[9:10] Your lifetime job is to find beauty in each season.

CONNECT WITH KELSEY

Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

Download the app for iOS or Android

Learn more at https://thisiskelseysmith.com/

Join our text list. Text "Goals" to (707) 347-0319

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Gas or Brakes? Taking Charge of Your Career and Life

With the right tools and mindset, you can find clarity and confidence in your decision-making process. I know making a decision can be scary, but trying and doing can be even more exhilarating. You have the power to take charge of your career and create the life you deserve. I'm sharing how you can set weekly goals and make small but meaningful changes that can help you reach your desired outcome.

Finding balance is key to success, and we'll explore ways to slow down in some areas and speed up in others. By trusting your intuition and embracing your strengths, you can achieve success on your own terms!

What you'll hear in this episode:

[1:20] Knowing when you may need to quit your job or when you may need to work.

[3:45] What are you reading? What are you listening to?

[5:30] Making a decision vs. trying and doing.

[7:00] Write down what you want to change this week.

[12:40] Where can you slow down or speed up? Where can you trust yourself?

CONNECT WITH KELSEY

Follow Kelsey: @thisiskelseysmith

Follow Momma Has Goals: @mommahasgoals

Download the app for iOS or Android

Learn more at https://thisiskelseysmith.com/

Join our text list. Text "Goals" to (707) 347-0319

Momma Has Goals - Lessons Learned in Caregiving and Entrepreneurship with Sam Vander Wielen

Transcript

Sam 0:00

Sometimes I felt like I was failing and taking care of myself. And then I'd be like, Well, how am I supposed to take care of myself when like, I just spent 12 hours in a chemo room with my dad, I come home I just wanted to veg out and like, taking care of myself was like scrolling on Instagram or watching Netflix. I think sometimes the pressure of being like I should be journaling and meditating and working out and it was like, that actually wasn't what I need because it felt