
I Struggle Having Orgasms | You’re Not Alone
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09/16/24 • 50 min
I am sick of us being ashamed to talk about Sex and our struggles with each other. I am simply “oversharing” in some peoples eyes so that we can stop feeling so alone & start normalizing being able to talk about sex and what is normal or not. I also share some things I am doing to help myself with my struggles in the bedroom in this episode!
Referenced in this Episode:
A video that Helped me Learn How to do a Yoni Massage with a Cervix Wand
https://youtu.be/f3RvY0kxsYg?si=jX37byc0SJP2SKrG
The Cervix Wand & Egg I have to do these
https://theempoweredwoman.ca/shop
My Favorite Sex Toy - It Blows Air but feels like it's sucking!
https://www.womanizer.com/us/bestseller?_gl=1*8rsif7*_up*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQjw28W2BhC7ARIsAPerrcIaReM5ZRzOpIy2-NAN5j-L9w0a90G-Aw1WQYTBVxouE-xKSqV0i-4aApSMEALw_wcB
People I follow that Talk About Sex:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/?hl=en
Podcasts I've Listened to:
Better In Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast
Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami
I know that I've had more in the past I just can't find peoples accounts and podcasts but I would search "Women sex coach" or "Yoni Massage Coach" or something along those lines and there's a lot of accounts on podcast/ig/youtube that can be very helpful and you can find the right person that is the safe container for you to learn from!!!!
Hope this episode helps! <3
To connect with us on a deeper level, follow and message us at:
@girldoyoufirst (Podcast IG): https://www.instagram.com/girldoyoufirst/
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@mysticmoon22 (Kylie’s IG): https://www.instagram.com/mysticmoon22/
If this episode inspired you we would love to hear via the review section, and are so grateful if you share this podcast with your community!
The best is yet to come, make sure you subscribe to this podcast! We are so excited you are here for this journey called life with us!
Reminder:
This Podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered professional or medical advice. We are not licensed therapists or medical professionals and are only sharing our personal journeys. We appreciate you tuning in with an open mind, and taking action in your own life through professional advice or own self. We hope you have a beautiful day, and don’t forget, YOU deserve to LOVE & put YOURSELF FIRST!
I am sick of us being ashamed to talk about Sex and our struggles with each other. I am simply “oversharing” in some peoples eyes so that we can stop feeling so alone & start normalizing being able to talk about sex and what is normal or not. I also share some things I am doing to help myself with my struggles in the bedroom in this episode!
Referenced in this Episode:
A video that Helped me Learn How to do a Yoni Massage with a Cervix Wand
https://youtu.be/f3RvY0kxsYg?si=jX37byc0SJP2SKrG
The Cervix Wand & Egg I have to do these
https://theempoweredwoman.ca/shop
My Favorite Sex Toy - It Blows Air but feels like it's sucking!
https://www.womanizer.com/us/bestseller?_gl=1*8rsif7*_up*MQ..&gclid=Cj0KCQjw28W2BhC7ARIsAPerrcIaReM5ZRzOpIy2-NAN5j-L9w0a90G-Aw1WQYTBVxouE-xKSqV0i-4aApSMEALw_wcB
People I follow that Talk About Sex:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vanessaandxander/?hl=en
Podcasts I've Listened to:
Better In Bed | A Sex & Sexuality Podcast
Orgasmic Enlightenment with Kim Anami
I know that I've had more in the past I just can't find peoples accounts and podcasts but I would search "Women sex coach" or "Yoni Massage Coach" or something along those lines and there's a lot of accounts on podcast/ig/youtube that can be very helpful and you can find the right person that is the safe container for you to learn from!!!!
Hope this episode helps! <3
To connect with us on a deeper level, follow and message us at:
@girldoyoufirst (Podcast IG): https://www.instagram.com/girldoyoufirst/
@countryfit (Ashlynn’s IG): https://www.instagram.com/countryfit/
@mysticmoon22 (Kylie’s IG): https://www.instagram.com/mysticmoon22/
If this episode inspired you we would love to hear via the review section, and are so grateful if you share this podcast with your community!
The best is yet to come, make sure you subscribe to this podcast! We are so excited you are here for this journey called life with us!
Reminder:
This Podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered professional or medical advice. We are not licensed therapists or medical professionals and are only sharing our personal journeys. We appreciate you tuning in with an open mind, and taking action in your own life through professional advice or own self. We hope you have a beautiful day, and don’t forget, YOU deserve to LOVE & put YOURSELF FIRST!
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The best is yet to come, make sure you subscribe to this podcast! We are so excited you are here for this journey called life with us!
Reminder:
This Podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered professional or medical advice. We are not licensed therapists or medical professionals and are only sharing our personal journeys. We appreciate you tuning in with an open mind, and taking action in your own life through professional advice or own self. We hope you have a beautiful day, and don’t forget, YOU deserve to LOVE & put YOURSELF FIRST!
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If this episode inspired you we would love to hear via the review section, and are so grateful if you share this podcast with your community!
The best is yet to come, make sure you subscribe to this podcast! We are so excited you are here for this journey called life with us!
Reminder:
This Podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and should not be considered professional or medical advice. We are not licensed therapists or medical professionals and are only sharing our personal journeys. We appreciate you tuning in with an open mind, and taking action in your own life through professional advice or own self. We hope you have a beautiful day, and don’t forget, YOU deserve to LOVE & put YOURSELF FIRST!
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