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Gay Men Going Deeper

Gay Men Going Deeper

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Gay Men Going Deeper is a weekly podcast that showcases raw and real conversations about personal development, mental health, and sexuality - from an unapologetically gay perspective. Hosted by Matt Landsiedel and Michael DiIorio, and featuring a wide range of special guests, you can expect to be inspired, entertained, and even a little triggered from time to time. This provocative podcast is for anyone who craves deeper conversations on topics ranging from spirituality to sexuality - and everything in between. Visit us at www.GayMenGoingDeeper.com Support the show: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=LT55M79CMH5FN
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Goodpods has curated a list of the 10 best Gay Men Going Deeper episodes, ranked by the number of listens and likes each episode have garnered from our listeners. If you are listening to Gay Men Going Deeper for the first time, there's no better place to start than with one of these standout episodes. If you are a fan of the show, vote for your favorite Gay Men Going Deeper episode by adding your comments to the episode page.

Gay Men Going Deeper - Commitment and Connection in Open Relationships
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11/07/24 • 43 min

Are open relationships really about avoiding commitment, or is there more to the story? In today’s episode, Michael is joined by Dr. Israel Martinez to unpack the common misconceptions around consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and explore how commitment and connection can flourish in open relationships.

We’ll be discussing:

  • Common misconceptions about CNM and monogamy
  • How to determine your ideal relationship style
  • What is a relationship anchor and how to find it
  • The role of trust, communication, and emotional intimacy in CNM
  • Social conditioning around monogamy as the only valid type of relationship

Dr. Martinez also offers self-reflection questions and takes Michael through an exercise to determine his own relationship style and anchor, giving you a practical tool to use in your own exploration.

Whether you’re curious about exploring CNM or already practicing it, this episode will give you the tools and insights to foster strong, lasting connections outside of monogamy.

Today's Guest: Dr. Israel Martinez

Today's Host: Michael DiIorio

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Gay Men Going Deeper - What We Love About Being Gay

What We Love About Being Gay

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08/15/24 • 59 min

Join us for a very special milestone as "Gay Men Going Deeper" celebrates our 200th episode! In this celebratory episode, we're raising our voices and our spirits high as we discuss what it truly means to embrace our gayness.

From the early days of fear and isolation to the empowering present, we're sharing why we love being gay and how we got here. We’re sharing personal anecdotes and heartfelt reflections that highlight the evolution of our relationship with our gayness. Some of the topics we’ll be covering today are:

  • Being in the closet
  • Coming out
  • Finding space in the gay community
  • What it means to be gay
  • Stereotypes we identify with and those we don’t
  • The pivotal moments that shaped our identities

This episode isn't just about celebrating who we are; it's about recognizing the resilience, strength, and beauty within the entire LGBTQ+ community.

Join us as we raise a glass to 200 episodes. Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally standing proudly by our side, this episode is a testament to the power of authenticity, solidarity, and love.

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Red Flags in Dating

Red Flags in Dating

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11/14/24 • 51 min

In this episode, we’re talking about those warning signs and signals to look out for in potential partners and how to manage these warning signs with care and confidence. We’ll reveal our red flags, both in others and in ourselves, and how we respond to them when they show up in our dating lives.

Some of the topics we cover in this episode are:

  • Common red flags to look out for and why they matter
  • Red flags we might bring into dating and how they affect relationships
  • Strategies for dealing with red flags constructively
  • Setting boundaries and knowing when to walk away
  • Balancing awareness with compassion and curiosity in dating

By sharing our own red flags and experiences, this episode equips listeners with practical approaches to navigate red flags, fostering stronger self-awareness, boundaries, and a healthy perspective on dating.

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Healing Shame

Healing Shame

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05/18/23 • 67 min

Shame is that terrible feeling that arises when you get the sense that something is fundamentally wrong about you. It is often accompanied by inadequacy and self-doubt. Shame convinces you that you are not enough.

Like it or not, shame plays a key role in the gay man’s life. Born into a straight world, we must contend with the fact that we are different. While we all have a unique way of dealing with shame, healing it is necessary if we want to develop an authentic sense of self and truly connect in our most intimate relationships.

We’ll be exploring 3 key questions:

  1. How shame affect us as gay men, specifically
  2. How do we identify shame
  3. What are some ways we can start healing shame?

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Navigating Depression

Navigating Depression

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10/24/24 • 53 min

In this episode, Matt and Reno come together for their first duo episode to talk about their experiences with depression. They share openly about what causes depression in their lives and what they have done to deal with it. If you are someone who struggles with depression, we want you to know you are not alone. It is so important to normalize conversations about aspects of mental health that are still stigmatized. We hope this episode leaves you feeling seen, and offers you some ways to support yourself, and also ways to feel supported by others as you navigate your own depression.

The questions we explore in this episode are:

  • What is depression?
  • What is your relationship to depression?
  • How have you dealt with your depression?
  • What advice do you have for someone who is dealing with depression?

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Gay Men Going Deeper - The Challenges of Being a Gay Man
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08/29/24 • 59 min

In this insightful episode, we turn our focus to the often unspoken challenges that come with being a gay man. The reality for many queer folks is that our lives are met with unique hurdles that impact our mental, emotional, and social well-being.

Through candid discussions and personal experiences, we are looking at these challenges from the gay male perspective. Some of the topics we’ll be covering are:

  • Learning to hide who you are
  • Social discrimination
  • External and internalized homophobia
  • Dealing with rejection
  • Loneliness and isolation
  • Our relationship to masculinity
  • Sexual shame
  • Impacts to self-worth and self-esteem
  • Finding acceptance within our families and communities

This episode aims to foster a deeper understanding and empathy for the challenges gay men face, providing a platform for open dialogue and support. Whether you're a member of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally seeking to learn more, this conversation will help foster awareness and solidarity.

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Behind the Scenes of the Gay Men’s Brotherhood
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09/15/22 • 70 min

In this very special 💯 100th episode 💯, we are taking you behind the scenes of the idea that started it all, The Gay Men's Brotherhood.

Today, we represent a group of thousands of men who share a vision to create a community where people feel more authentically connected to one another and feel comfortable showing up vulnerably so deeper intimacy can be established within our community.

We have invited our moderators to the podcast to join us as we share our personal experiences as a leadership team.

In this episode we talk about:

► The origin story of the Gay Men's Brotherhood ► How this community has impacted our lives ► What it's like to be a leader in the group ► The challenges that come with being part of a community ► Our fondest memories

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Our Social Media Dilemma

Our Social Media Dilemma

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10/08/20 • 57 min

About Today’s Show

In today’s episode, we jump into the social media dilemma of the gay community. Why do those guys with the perfect abs get so many likes? Why do we sometimes get left feeling more empty than full after scrolling for hours? Is social media using us, or are we using social media? Find out more in today’s episode!

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Your Questions Answered

Your Questions Answered

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09/22/22 • 54 min

You asked and we answered!

In this episode, we're answering some of the juiciest questions from our community such as...

  • How to let go of the past?
  • Why can’t gay men find love?
  • How to get unstuck and move forward?

Join us as we cover topics such as shame, gay dating, self-confidence, and trust in this Q & A style discussion.

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Gay Men Going Deeper - Green Flags in Dating

Green Flags in Dating

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11/21/24 • 50 min

In this episode, we’re shifting the focus from red flags to the positive signs that show up when dating—green flags. Join us as we reveal the positive traits and behaviors that indicate someone would be a compatible long-term partner. We’ll discuss:

  • What green flags we look for and why they matter
  • The green flags that we bring to the table
  • What green flags we see in each other
  • How to tell if those green flags are genuine or just part of “the honeymoon phase”

Whether you’re new to the dating game or a seasoned pro, this episode is all about finding the good stuff that leads to real, fulfilling connections and healthier relationships.

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FAQ

How many episodes does Gay Men Going Deeper have?

Gay Men Going Deeper currently has 227 episodes available.

What topics does Gay Men Going Deeper cover?

The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Podcasts and Sexuality.

What is the most popular episode on Gay Men Going Deeper?

The episode title 'Commitment and Connection in Open Relationships' is the most popular.

What is the average episode length on Gay Men Going Deeper?

The average episode length on Gay Men Going Deeper is 59 minutes.

How often are episodes of Gay Men Going Deeper released?

Episodes of Gay Men Going Deeper are typically released every 7 days.

When was the first episode of Gay Men Going Deeper?

The first episode of Gay Men Going Deeper was released on Jul 16, 2020.

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