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Commitment and Connection in Open Relationships
Gay Men Going Deeper
11/07/24 • 43 min
Are open relationships really about avoiding commitment, or is there more to the story? In today’s episode, Michael is joined by Dr. Israel Martinez to unpack the common misconceptions around consensual non-monogamy (CNM) and explore how commitment and connection can flourish in open relationships.
We’ll be discussing:
- Common misconceptions about CNM and monogamy
- How to determine your ideal relationship style
- What is a relationship anchor and how to find it
- The role of trust, communication, and emotional intimacy in CNM
- Social conditioning around monogamy as the only valid type of relationship
Dr. Martinez also offers self-reflection questions and takes Michael through an exercise to determine his own relationship style and anchor, giving you a practical tool to use in your own exploration.
Whether you’re curious about exploring CNM or already practicing it, this episode will give you the tools and insights to foster strong, lasting connections outside of monogamy.
Today's Guest: Dr. Israel Martinez
Today's Host: Michael DiIorio
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine
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Building Trust in Relationships
Gay Men Going Deeper
11/28/24 • 45 min
On this week’s episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we're diving into how to build trust in relationships. Many gay men report having trust issues in their relationships due to growing up in a world that felt unsafe and unaccepting of our authentic selves If you struggle with trust issues in your relationships then this episode is a must. Come gain more clarity around any barriers you have to trusting people, as well as what may be required for you to build trust with someone. Also what you can do to start to repair when trust has been broken in a relationship.
Some of the questions we’ll be discussing are:
- What is the relationship attachment model?
- What is important for you to get to know someone?
- What makes it hard for you to build trust in relationships?
- What is required for you to build trust with someone?
- Have you ever had your trust broken? What did it take for you to rebuild trust?
Come spend an hour with Matt and Michael as they share their raw and real stories of distrust and how they have learned to trust again after betrayal.
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- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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Compare and Despair
Gay Men Going Deeper
09/19/24 • 42 min
Today we’re tackling the universal struggle of comparing ourselves to others. Whether it’s about body image, social status, or relationships, comparison can have a negative impact on our mental health, leading to a cycle of insecurity and self-doubt.
In this episode, we’re looking at how to break the cycle and actually re-frame it for your personal development. Join us as we dive into how to compare consciously and mindfully, transforming it into a tool that actually serves you instead of tearing you down. Some of the topics covered today are:
- Knowing who we compare ourselves to and why
- Instagram, TikTok, and social media - and its impact on your self-esteem
- Self-worth and self-confidence
- Mindfulness and deliberate thought work
- Stories we tell ourselves about other people’s success
- How to break the cycle of compare and despair
- Tearing others down as an attempt to find comfort
Join us for an informative episode where we’ll break down practical strategies for breaking free from the compare-and-despair cycle so you can find more peace and self-assuredness.
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
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Gaydar
Gay Men Going Deeper
08/01/24 • 57 min
How can you tell if someone is gay? It’s an age-old mystery that often turns into a discussion about “gaydar” – the ability to perceive or intuit someone's sexual orientation. In this episode, we are unraveling the intricacies of this phenomenon in how we navigate the subtle cues and signals that hint at our ‘gayness’.
Some of the topics we’re covering today are:
- The science behind gaydar
- Criteria we use to detect someone’s sexual orientation
- Unconscious bias
- Code switching (adjusting your behavior to fit the social context)
- Challenging assumptions and stereotypes about being gay
- The ability to “turn on” or “turn off” your gayness
- Being closeted vs. being out
- Minority stress
At the core of this discussion, we confront the issue of unconscious bias and its impact on our perceptions of others. How can we challenge these biases to foster a more inclusive and accepting society?
Tune in to this intriguing episode as we uncover the mysteries of gaydar and explore human identity and connection.
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What We Love About Being Gay
Gay Men Going Deeper
08/15/24 • 59 min
Join us for a very special milestone as "Gay Men Going Deeper" celebrates our 200th episode! In this celebratory episode, we're raising our voices and our spirits high as we discuss what it truly means to embrace our gayness.
From the early days of fear and isolation to the empowering present, we're sharing why we love being gay and how we got here. We’re sharing personal anecdotes and heartfelt reflections that highlight the evolution of our relationship with our gayness. Some of the topics we’ll be covering today are:
- Being in the closet
- Coming out
- Finding space in the gay community
- What it means to be gay
- Stereotypes we identify with and those we don’t
- The pivotal moments that shaped our identities
This episode isn't just about celebrating who we are; it's about recognizing the resilience, strength, and beauty within the entire LGBTQ+ community.
Join us as we raise a glass to 200 episodes. Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally standing proudly by our side, this episode is a testament to the power of authenticity, solidarity, and love.
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- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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First Dates
Gay Men Going Deeper
07/04/24 • 57 min
First dates can be exhilarating, nerve-wracking, and everything in between. But fear not! On this episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we're here to guide you through having a successful first date.
Join us as we share expert tips, personal stories, and practical advice for making a lasting impression and setting the stage for a potential connection. Some of the topics we’re covering in this episode:
- What exactly makes a first date ‘successful’
- What to talk about on a first date
- Techniques for active listening and showing genuine interest
- Chemistry and attraction
- The art of having an engaging conversation
- How to handle awkward moments
- Communication after your date
Whether you're a seasoned dater or stepping into dating for the first time, grab your notepad, pour yourself a drink, and learn how to make your next first date an unforgettable experience.
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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Green Flags in Dating
Gay Men Going Deeper
11/21/24 • 50 min
In this episode, we’re shifting the focus from red flags to the positive signs that show up when dating—green flags. Join us as we reveal the positive traits and behaviors that indicate someone would be a compatible long-term partner. We’ll discuss:
- What green flags we look for and why they matter
- The green flags that we bring to the table
- What green flags we see in each other
- How to tell if those green flags are genuine or just part of “the honeymoon phase”
Whether you’re new to the dating game or a seasoned pro, this episode is all about finding the good stuff that leads to real, fulfilling connections and healthier relationships.
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- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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Hookup Culture and Self-Discovery
Gay Men Going Deeper
12/26/24 • 51 min
Whether you love it or hate it, hookup culture is a part of gay culture—and if you look a little closer, it just might be a powerful tool for self-discovery. In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life lessons our casual hookups taught us about confidence, boundaries, and self-love. We’re going beyond the benefits and drawbacks of hookup culture, and sharing how these experiences have shaped who we are
This episode is for anyone curious about navigating hookup culture with more clarity and intentionality. Some of the topics we’ll be covering:
- The benefits and drawbacks of casual sex
- Practicing self-care before and after sexy encounters
- 3 questions you can use to check in with yourself
- Setting healthy boundaries
- Ways to discover what needs are motivating your hook ups
- Practical tips for making casual encounters align with your values
Join us as we break down the skills that casual sex can build (yes, they’re easily transferable to other areas of life!) and how you can approach hookups in a way that feels empowered, intentional, and true to yourself.
Reflection Questions in the Show: Michael’s 3 Questions (listen to the episode to learn when and how to use these!)
- Why am I seeking this experience?
- As I imagine moving forward, how do I feel?
- Tomorrow when I look back on this, how will I feel about it?
Today's Hosts:
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
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Navigating Depression
Gay Men Going Deeper
10/24/24 • 53 min
In this episode, Matt and Reno come together for their first duo episode to talk about their experiences with depression. They share openly about what causes depression in their lives and what they have done to deal with it. If you are someone who struggles with depression, we want you to know you are not alone. It is so important to normalize conversations about aspects of mental health that are still stigmatized. We hope this episode leaves you feeling seen, and offers you some ways to support yourself, and also ways to feel supported by others as you navigate your own depression.
The questions we explore in this episode are:
- What is depression?
- What is your relationship to depression?
- How have you dealt with your depression?
- What advice do you have for someone who is dealing with depression?
Today's Hosts:
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- Watch podcast episodes on YouTube
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- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
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- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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The Challenges of Being a Gay Man
Gay Men Going Deeper
08/29/24 • 59 min
In this insightful episode, we turn our focus to the often unspoken challenges that come with being a gay man. The reality for many queer folks is that our lives are met with unique hurdles that impact our mental, emotional, and social well-being.
Through candid discussions and personal experiences, we are looking at these challenges from the gay male perspective. Some of the topics we’ll be covering are:
- Learning to hide who you are
- Social discrimination
- External and internalized homophobia
- Dealing with rejection
- Loneliness and isolation
- Our relationship to masculinity
- Sexual shame
- Impacts to self-worth and self-esteem
- Finding acceptance within our families and communities
This episode aims to foster a deeper understanding and empathy for the challenges gay men face, providing a platform for open dialogue and support. Whether you're a member of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally seeking to learn more, this conversation will help foster awareness and solidarity.
Today's Hosts:
Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes
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- Watch podcast episodes on YouTube
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- Follow us on Instagram | TikTok
- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
- LEARN WITH US -
- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Gay Men Going Deeper have?
Gay Men Going Deeper currently has 242 episodes available.
What topics does Gay Men Going Deeper cover?
The podcast is about Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Podcasts and Sexuality.
What is the most popular episode on Gay Men Going Deeper?
The episode title 'Commitment and Connection in Open Relationships' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Gay Men Going Deeper?
The average episode length on Gay Men Going Deeper is 59 minutes.
How often are episodes of Gay Men Going Deeper released?
Episodes of Gay Men Going Deeper are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Gay Men Going Deeper?
The first episode of Gay Men Going Deeper was released on Jul 16, 2020.
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