
Green Flags in Dating
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11/21/24 • 50 min
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In this episode, we’re shifting the focus from red flags to the positive signs that show up when dating—green flags. Join us as we reveal the positive traits and behaviors that indicate someone would be a compatible long-term partner. We’ll discuss:
- What green flags we look for and why they matter
- The green flags that we bring to the table
- What green flags we see in each other
- How to tell if those green flags are genuine or just part of “the honeymoon phase”
Whether you’re new to the dating game or a seasoned pro, this episode is all about finding the good stuff that leads to real, fulfilling connections and healthier relationships.
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- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
In this episode, we’re shifting the focus from red flags to the positive signs that show up when dating—green flags. Join us as we reveal the positive traits and behaviors that indicate someone would be a compatible long-term partner. We’ll discuss:
- What green flags we look for and why they matter
- The green flags that we bring to the table
- What green flags we see in each other
- How to tell if those green flags are genuine or just part of “the honeymoon phase”
Whether you’re new to the dating game or a seasoned pro, this episode is all about finding the good stuff that leads to real, fulfilling connections and healthier relationships.
Today's Hosts:
Support the Show - viewer and listener support helps us to continue making episodes
- CONNECT WITH US -
- Watch podcast episodes on YouTube
- Join the Gay Men's Brotherhood Facebook community
- Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls
- Follow us on Instagram | TikTok
- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
- LEARN WITH US -
- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
Previous Episode

Red Flags in Dating
In this episode, we’re talking about those warning signs and signals to look out for in potential partners and how to manage these warning signs with care and confidence. We’ll reveal our red flags, both in others and in ourselves, and how we respond to them when they show up in our dating lives.
Some of the topics we cover in this episode are:
- Common red flags to look out for and why they matter
- Red flags we might bring into dating and how they affect relationships
- Strategies for dealing with red flags constructively
- Setting boundaries and knowing when to walk away
- Balancing awareness with compassion and curiosity in dating
By sharing our own red flags and experiences, this episode equips listeners with practical approaches to navigate red flags, fostering stronger self-awareness, boundaries, and a healthy perspective on dating.
Today's Hosts:
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- Watch podcast episodes on YouTube
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- Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls
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- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
- LEARN WITH US -
- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
Next Episode

Building Trust in Relationships
On this week’s episode of Gay Men Going Deeper, we're diving into how to build trust in relationships. Many gay men report having trust issues in their relationships due to growing up in a world that felt unsafe and unaccepting of our authentic selves If you struggle with trust issues in your relationships then this episode is a must. Come gain more clarity around any barriers you have to trusting people, as well as what may be required for you to build trust with someone. Also what you can do to start to repair when trust has been broken in a relationship.
Some of the questions we’ll be discussing are:
- What is the relationship attachment model?
- What is important for you to get to know someone?
- What makes it hard for you to build trust in relationships?
- What is required for you to build trust with someone?
- Have you ever had your trust broken? What did it take for you to rebuild trust?
Come spend an hour with Matt and Michael as they share their raw and real stories of distrust and how they have learned to trust again after betrayal.
Today's Hosts:
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- Watch podcast episodes on YouTube
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- Get on our email list to get access to our monthly Zoom calls
- Follow us on Instagram | TikTok
- Learn more about our community at GayMenGoingDeeper.com
- LEARN WITH US -
- Building Better Relationships online course: Learn how to nurture more meaningful and authentic connections with yourself and others.
- Healing Your Shame online course: Begin the journey toward greater confidence and self-worth by learning how to recognize and deal with toxic shame.
- Gay Men Going Deeper Coaching Collection: Lifetime access to BOTH courses + 45 coaching videos and 2 workshop series.
- Take the Attachment Style Quiz to determine your attachment style and get a free report.
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