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From Sobriety To Recovery: An Addiction Recovery Podcast - Childhood into adulthood personality archetypes

Childhood into adulthood personality archetypes

11/02/22 • 66 min

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From Sobriety To Recovery: An Addiction Recovery Podcast

Ep #186 -

The way you behave, your personality, your habits, all of these began to form in you at a young age. If you feel like you are acting in a way that no longer serves you, look no further than the way you behaved as a child for the root cause in the restlessness in your life now.

There is an eternal child in all of us. It seeks to be healed from the behaviors we took on in our youth to survive in an unknown and, more than likely, chaotic world.

Here are the archetypes we will discuss in this episode and how they are still playing out in your life today. What you do with this information will inform the rest of your life. No pressure or anything, LOL.

    • ➢Codependent – enables other people's bad behaviors
    • ➢Responsible one – brings order to a chaotic home
    • ➢Adjuster – detaches emotionally and adjusts to any situation
    • ➢Placater – tries to make others feel better
    • ➢Acting out child – bad behavior distracts attention from something, someone, etc.
    • ➢Enabler – protects others from the negative consequences of their actions
    • ➢Hero – takes on greater responsibilities, high-achiever
    • ➢Lost child – needs and wants overlooked
    • ➢Mascot – distracts from the problems of the family (funny, jester, clown)
    • ➢Scapegoat – distracts from the problems/issues by getting into trouble

With these laid out in front of you, you can decipher which ones are controlling you and which ones you have gone "anti" or sharp-corrected away from. Are any of these inherently good or bad, desirable or undesirable? It's all in the way they present themselves in your life and how you are using them. A balanced approach to all of them will benefit you at certain times. Only you will know if these behaviors are no longer serving you.

It will benefit you greatly to explore these within your childhood and current self. What you do with the information is where your power lives. Exercise that vigorously.

Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.

It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.

Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.

********************************************

Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!

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Join the Tribe through The HUB:

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Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!

The Jesse Mogle Store -

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Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!

Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -

Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!

Be a Patron on Patreon!

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I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.

If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you...please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.

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Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me:

callcoachjesse.com

Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle

Instagram: https://instagram.com/fromsobrietytorecovery

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Ep #186 -

The way you behave, your personality, your habits, all of these began to form in you at a young age. If you feel like you are acting in a way that no longer serves you, look no further than the way you behaved as a child for the root cause in the restlessness in your life now.

There is an eternal child in all of us. It seeks to be healed from the behaviors we took on in our youth to survive in an unknown and, more than likely, chaotic world.

Here are the archetypes we will discuss in this episode and how they are still playing out in your life today. What you do with this information will inform the rest of your life. No pressure or anything, LOL.

    • ➢Codependent – enables other people's bad behaviors
    • ➢Responsible one – brings order to a chaotic home
    • ➢Adjuster – detaches emotionally and adjusts to any situation
    • ➢Placater – tries to make others feel better
    • ➢Acting out child – bad behavior distracts attention from something, someone, etc.
    • ➢Enabler – protects others from the negative consequences of their actions
    • ➢Hero – takes on greater responsibilities, high-achiever
    • ➢Lost child – needs and wants overlooked
    • ➢Mascot – distracts from the problems of the family (funny, jester, clown)
    • ➢Scapegoat – distracts from the problems/issues by getting into trouble

With these laid out in front of you, you can decipher which ones are controlling you and which ones you have gone "anti" or sharp-corrected away from. Are any of these inherently good or bad, desirable or undesirable? It's all in the way they present themselves in your life and how you are using them. A balanced approach to all of them will benefit you at certain times. Only you will know if these behaviors are no longer serving you.

It will benefit you greatly to explore these within your childhood and current self. What you do with the information is where your power lives. Exercise that vigorously.

Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.

It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.

Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.

********************************************

Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!

********************************************

Join the Tribe through The HUB:

********************************************

Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!

The Jesse Mogle Store -

********************************************

Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!

Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -

Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!

Be a Patron on Patreon!

********************************************

I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.

If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you...please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.

********************************************

Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me:

callcoachjesse.com

Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle

Instagram: https://instagram.com/fromsobrietytorecovery

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undefined - STOP arguing & START loving

STOP arguing & START loving

Ep #185 - Confrontation is a natural part of the human experience. It's when the conversation turns "ugly" and the yelling starts that it all goes sideways. Fostering love and connection in a relationship is paramount to creating healthy connections with other humans - heck, yelling at your pet isn't a great idea either, since, ya know, they can't understand a word you are saying.

In this episode I am going to introduce you to a system I think will get you off the old habit of tempers flaring and into a more productive and desirable response pattern.

****Friendly reminder: scoop up your free copy of this episode's ebook HERE****

Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.

It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.

Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.

********************************************

Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!

********************************************

Join the Tribe through The HUB: https://www.jessemogle.com/thehub/

********************************************

Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!

The Jesse Mogle Store

********************************************

Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!

Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -

Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!

Be a Patron on Patreon!

********************************************

I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.

If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you...please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.

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undefined - Experiencing an emotional conversation

Experiencing an emotional conversation

Ep #187 - Emotions are a joy. Without them life is a malaise, its just plain dull, and most of use spent an inordinate amount of time running from emotions, pushing them down, away, and bottling them up - BUT not now!! NO, now we're in a state of exploration of sobriety and recovery so swimming in the emotions, immersing ourselves in them, working our way out of the fog and into the light - that is who we are now, right? Yes, we are, are we not?

In today's show I am going to discuss with you how I recently went through a very tough conversation and what I did well and where I can grow. Having vulnerable, intimate conversations with those we love and desire to be closer to is imperative to moving ourselves from a state of 'emotions are shameful' toward 'emotions are majestic.'

Here are some key tips:

Ask if this is a good time to have a deep talk

Be open to hearing things that go against how you think and feel

Set a location in your home where you don't do other things

Look them in the eye and definitely do not look at your phone

Use a lot of "I" and as few "You's" as possible

Accept personal responsibility for your role in this. Meaning you release blaming, complaining, and making excuses

Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.

It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.

Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.

********************************************

Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!

********************************************

Join the Tribe through The HUB:

********************************************

Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!

The Jesse Mogle Store -

********************************************

Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!

Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -

Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!

Be a Patron on Patreon!

********************************************

I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.

If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you...please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.

********************************************

Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me: callcoachjesse.com

Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle

Instagram: https://instagram.com/fromsobrietytorecovery

Facebook: https://facebook.com/fromsobrietytorecovery

Twitter: https://twitter.com/jessemogle

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/

Email: [email protected]

Website: https://www.jessemogle.com

From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/

College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/

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