Discovering Tranquility: A Journey in Embracing Surrender and Overcoming Challenges

12/07/23 • 48 min

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Have you ever felt the profound peace that comes from surrendering control? This episode is a heart-to-heart conversation between myself, your host Candace Fleming, and my mother, Janet Hale, as we shed light on our journeys to discovering tranquility in letting go. We unmask the beauty of embracing surrender and the freedom it bestows, demonstrating how it has played out in our lives, from giving up cable to learning to release control as parents.
There's transformative power in facing the raging storm of loss and challenges, and still finding peace within the chaos. Janet and I share our deeply personal journeys through grief, struggle, and the aftermath of divorce, underscoring the pivotal role of love in these challenging times. As we talk about the heart-rending loss of my brother, we highlight the potential of a peaceful mindset and problem-solving approach in navigating through such tumultuous periods.
We then dive into a profound exploration of love's influence—particularly self-love—in finding and sustaining inner peace. With love as a common denominator for achieving tranquility, we reflect on its biblical significance and the role of non-judgmental, supportive individuals in our lives who aid in refilling our cup of peace. We also shed light on overcoming the heavy burden of shame through honesty and non-judgmental listening, emphasizing the value of trusting our journey. Lastly, we offer guidance on not just surviving but thriving on life's arduous journey, underscoring the importance of love, forgiveness, and purposeful living.

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Exploring the Complexity of ADHD: Dyslexia, Trauma and the Promise of Neurofeedback with Dr. Connie McReynolds

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What if everything you thought you knew about ADHD was just the tip of the iceberg? Join us as we explore this question with Dr. Connie McReynolds, a seasoned expert in rehabilitation psychology. The deep dive into the complex world of ADHD diagnosis and treatment starts with a riveting discussion on dyslexia and its fascinating link to ADHD. We then touch upon the critical connection between auditory and visual processing problems and various learning disabilities, laying the groundwork for an enlightening discussion on neurofeedback.
We further tackle the increasing trend of ADHD diagnosis in children, and the role trauma triggers may play in their behavior. We share our experiences working with veterans and children who have undergone trauma, emphasizing the importance of addressing underlying issues rather than hastily labeling them as ADHD. The discussion then takes a turn towards the challenges parents face when deciding between medication and alternate methods like neurofeedback for their child's ADHD treatment.
As we wrap up this eye-opening conversation with Dr. McReynolds, we delve into her pioneering work in neurofeedback and the impressive long-term cognitive improvements it can bring about. We highlight the significance of understanding and addressing adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), trauma, and their connection to ADHD. Ultimately, we advocate for a personalized and comprehensive approach to healing and strengthening the brain. Tune in for an engaging and insightful discussion that aims to change the narrative surrounding ADHD and promote a more understanding and compassionate approach to this complex condition.
Dr. Connie is a Licensed Psychologist & Certified Rehabilitation Counselor with more than 30 years of experience in the field of rehabilitation counseling and psychology. She is the founder of neurofeedback clinics in southern California working with children and adults to reduce or eliminate conditions of ADHD, anxiety, anger, depression, chronic pain, learning problems, and trauma.
She earned her Ph.D. in Rehabilitation Psychology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison gaining valuable experiences in the Outpatient Substance Abuse Treatment Program at the Middleton VA Hospital, at the Physical Medicine and Rehabilitation Neuropsychological Clinic at Meriter Hospital, and the Mendota Mental Health Institute.
Dr. Connie’s whole-hearted mission is to bring hope and resolution to those who are struggling with the symptoms of ADHD, their parents, and teachers.
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Strengthening Bonds: Love, Friendship, and Resilience in Marriage with Scott and Shate Hayes

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When you think of marriage, do you picture a best friend by your side through thick and thin? Scott and Shate from the Love Haze podcast join us to unravel the threads of love, friendship, and healing in relationships. As we wade through the seasonal stress and the pursuit of personal and professional growth, their insights shine a light on the importance of a strong relational foundation and the resilience required when life tosses challenges our way.
Having someone to laugh with and lean on is more than a mere comfort; it's a necessity in the dance of marriage. Our conversation takes a deep dive into the evolution of family roles, the art of maintaining personal growth within the partnership, and the power that lies in approaching your spouse as your best buddy. With personal stories, the transformative journey from past relationships to present understandings, and how that shapes our shared path forward is revealed.
This episode isn't just about the love-struck highs; we confront the sobering realities of pursuing parenthood, the boundaries needed for personal development, and the toil of unmet expectations. While we navigate these complexities, we also celebrate the Love Haze community, a beacon of support for Black men facing life's hurdles, and offer a resource for anyone grappling with darker moments. Join us as we honor the strength found in unity and companionship, and remember, adversity doesn't have to be faced alone.
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