280. Habits for a Sacred Home (with Jennifer Pepito)
10/16/24 • 33 min
I'm welcoming back a repeat guest this episode - Jennifer Pepito! Jennifer is the author of Habits for a Sacred Home: 9 Practices From History to Anchor and Restore Modern Families, and I have had the privilege of reading her insightful book which really resonated with me and challenged me to set up better habits and rhythms in our life!
Jennifer brings a wealth of experience, having homeschooled her seven children for 27 years! In this episode, we talk about the joys and challenges of motherhood she's experienced and what it's been like as her children have transitioned into adulthood.
We explore the significance of establishing habits that create a peaceful home environment and the importance of being present with our kids, even as they grow independent. Jennifer shares her thoughts on finding balance, letting go of perfectionism, and nurturing our children's development in a world that can feel chaotic at times. She emphasizes the need for mothers to have a solid sense of identity in Christ which allows them to stress less about things that don't matter and not try to find their identity in their children's behavior or choices.
Throughout the conversation, Jennifer also offers practical advice on creating daily routines that encourage connection and joy within the family. Plus, we touch on the delicate balance between guiding our children and allowing them the freedom to learn from their experiences!
Whether you’re navigating the early years of parenting, raising teens, and sending your kids into adulthood, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement, so please join Jennifer and me as we discover how small, intentional changes can lead to significant growth for both moms and their families!
In This Episode
[0:35] - I welcome back repeat guest Jennifer Pepito!
[1:24] - Jennifer shares a little about her family and her new book, Habits for a Sacred Home.
[4:26] - It's important to recognize both losses and gains when transitioning through life stages.
[5:36] - Jennifer advises young moms to focus on their identity in Christ and being present with their children.
[8:19] - Parenting teens requires maintaining values and visualizing positive outcomes for them.
[11:21] - Jennifer talks about showing grace without compromising values when children make choices we disagree with.
[14:48] - Younger moms: accept imperfection and focus on consistency and joy in parenting.
[17:59] - After experiencing a gap between older and younger kids, I have recognized the need for intentional routines.
[19:33] - Jennifer reflects on older kids caring for younger ones and emphasizes the importance of being committed to faithfulness.
[22:12] - I highlight the benefits of having a morning routine that starts the day positively and intentionally.
[24:48] - Jennifer's book connects Saint Benedict's rules to impactful historical women such as Edith Schaeffer and their ordinary lives.
[27:29] - I recall a lesson from a book about creating beauty in small ways to bring stability to chaotic lives.
[29:32] - Jennifer finds peace amidst chaos by reflecting on Psalm 37 and trusting God for better times ahead.
Links & Resources
The Crystal Paine Show - 180. Why You Should Read Aloud with Your Kids
Books
I'm welcoming back a repeat guest this episode - Jennifer Pepito! Jennifer is the author of Habits for a Sacred Home: 9 Practices From History to Anchor and Restore Modern Families, and I have had the privilege of reading her insightful book which really resonated with me and challenged me to set up better habits and rhythms in our life!
Jennifer brings a wealth of experience, having homeschooled her seven children for 27 years! In this episode, we talk about the joys and challenges of motherhood she's experienced and what it's been like as her children have transitioned into adulthood.
We explore the significance of establishing habits that create a peaceful home environment and the importance of being present with our kids, even as they grow independent. Jennifer shares her thoughts on finding balance, letting go of perfectionism, and nurturing our children's development in a world that can feel chaotic at times. She emphasizes the need for mothers to have a solid sense of identity in Christ which allows them to stress less about things that don't matter and not try to find their identity in their children's behavior or choices.
Throughout the conversation, Jennifer also offers practical advice on creating daily routines that encourage connection and joy within the family. Plus, we touch on the delicate balance between guiding our children and allowing them the freedom to learn from their experiences!
Whether you’re navigating the early years of parenting, raising teens, and sending your kids into adulthood, this episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement, so please join Jennifer and me as we discover how small, intentional changes can lead to significant growth for both moms and their families!
In This Episode
[0:35] - I welcome back repeat guest Jennifer Pepito!
[1:24] - Jennifer shares a little about her family and her new book, Habits for a Sacred Home.
[4:26] - It's important to recognize both losses and gains when transitioning through life stages.
[5:36] - Jennifer advises young moms to focus on their identity in Christ and being present with their children.
[8:19] - Parenting teens requires maintaining values and visualizing positive outcomes for them.
[11:21] - Jennifer talks about showing grace without compromising values when children make choices we disagree with.
[14:48] - Younger moms: accept imperfection and focus on consistency and joy in parenting.
[17:59] - After experiencing a gap between older and younger kids, I have recognized the need for intentional routines.
[19:33] - Jennifer reflects on older kids caring for younger ones and emphasizes the importance of being committed to faithfulness.
[22:12] - I highlight the benefits of having a morning routine that starts the day positively and intentionally.
[24:48] - Jennifer's book connects Saint Benedict's rules to impactful historical women such as Edith Schaeffer and their ordinary lives.
[27:29] - I recall a lesson from a book about creating beauty in small ways to bring stability to chaotic lives.
[29:32] - Jennifer finds peace amidst chaos by reflecting on Psalm 37 and trusting God for better times ahead.
Links & Resources
The Crystal Paine Show - 180. Why You Should Read Aloud with Your Kids
Books
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279. An embarrassing story, emergency preparedness, my 43rd birthday and goals for my next year
Join us this week as I discuss my recent 43rd birthday! In this week’s episode, I’m diving into my recent birthday reflections, the wisdom I've gained from embracing my wrinkles, and the unexpected lessons from our recent freezer incident. After celebrating turning 43, I've been contemplating the importance of aging and how every wrinkle tells a unique story about my journey, family, and faith.
While our freezer mishap felt like a significant inconvenience, it pales in comparison to the challenges faced by those affected by Hurricane Helene. I share insights from my sister’s harrowing experience during the flood, where her neighborhood was cut off from the outside world for days. It highlighted the importance of emergency preparedness and community support in times of crisis, prompting me to rethink what it truly means to be prepared for unexpected events.
We also discuss the value of having emergency supplies, such as non-perishable food, water, and cash on hand. These practical tips are vital, especially when local services are disrupted. Amidst this serious conversation, I share some lighter moments, including a humorous driving mishap that served as a reminder of my tendency to handle challenges alone.
Tune in as we navigate through both the significant and the trivial, weaving in heartfelt stories and valuable lessons that encourage us to embrace life’s uncertainties with grace and preparedness. Join me on this journey of self-reflection and community resilience!
In This Episode
[0:54] - Reflecting on birthday goals, I compare personal challenges with greater ones like Hurricane Helene.
[2:57] - Hear how my sister's neighborhood's struggles with isolation and resourcefulness during a flood.
[5:14] - I emphasize the importance of emergency preparedness, including having cash and non-perishable food.
[7:33] - I share community resilience stories after crises and listener responses to our freezer incident.
[11:21] - We once lost milk due to a freezer cleanout, and I discuss insurance for food spoilage.
[13:26] - Listen as I share a funny story about struggling with parking and reflect on self-reliance lessons.
[16:24] - I recount having scratched my car in the garage and learning about asking for help when needed.
[19:20] - I reflect on lessons learned from mishaps and encourage seeking help and being spiritually open.
[21:45] - I turned 43 recently, and I embrace aging as a gift.
[23:39] - I have set ambitious goals for reading and unplugged hours as part of my focus on health.
[25:23] - In addition, I strive to limit phone use and read more, aiming for better bedtime habits.
[27:28] - I am so excited about my goals for the coming year and invite you to share your stories!
Links & Resources
Books
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281. How We Went to NYC on a Budget
One of our big goals for 2024 was to go on an overnighter just the two of us (Jesse and me) — something we hadn’t done in 5ish years!! We weren’t sure if we were going to be able to make it work with all the moving parts it would require, but WE DID IT a few weeks ago.
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We discuss why this trip was so special, from navigating the city’s public transportation to making use of loyalty points for our hotel right in the heart of Times Square. The city was bustling, the weather was perfect, and Central Park on a Sunday afternoon was such a fun experience!
We packed so much into 36 hours, from exploring Fifth Avenue to enjoying a meal at the boathouse overlooking a beautiful pond, and for the first time in years, we truly and fully relaxed. It was so good for our souls!
This trip wasn’t just a getaway; it was a reminder of how important it is to prioritize our marriage and ourselves, so join us as we look back on this unforgettable trip and share some tips for anyone planning a quick yet meaningful escape to the Big Apple!
In This Episode
[0:35] - I am excited for Jesse and I to be talking about our recent trip to NYC!
[1:32] - Jesse discusses a nonfiction book called The Pledge to America by Drago Dzieran, which details the author's experiences with socialism and immigration.
[4:33] - I discuss the book From Strength to Strength by Arthur C. Brooks, which focuses on success and happiness in later life.
[9:09] - Inspired by an airport meal, I share how I discovered I enjoy fresh beets.
[12:17] - We also laugh about me wanting to have chickens -- only they need to be noiseless and invisible and not need any care! :)
[15:06] - All about our trip to NYC.
[18:29] - Jesse describes previous short trips to NYC and navigating public transportation with family.
[20:19] - I share NYC's cost-effective options for couples and advise against using public transportation if you're alone at night.
[22:28] - How we got our hotel for free -- right in the heart of Times Square.
[25:26] - We really appreciated uninterrupted time together!
[27:26] - I express gratitude and reflect on the smooth return trip amidst a busy Prime Week and hurricane concerns.
[30:01] - The kids successfully managing at home during our trip was also incredibly reassuring!
[31:58] - Jesse experiences relaxation and health benefits from the New York City trip.
Links & Resources
Books
The Pledge to America: One Man’s Journey from Political Prisoner to U.S. Navy SEAL by Drago Dzieran
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