How to Date After 40, 50, 60+ (Repel Mr. Wrong and Attract Mr. Right)

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5 Key Lessons:

1. Inner Work and Self-Representation: Junie Moon highlights the importance of engaging in inner work to present the best, most authentic version of yourself in online dating.

2. Must-Haves and Deal-Breakers: I discuss the advantage of creating a clear list of must-haves and deal-breakers in a potential partner to filter out matches effectively.

3. Trusting Your Instincts: Always rely on your gut feelings when assessing a potential partner's intentions and behavior.

4. Safe and Secure Dating: Take essential precautions like using Google Voice for privacy, meeting in public places, and conducting background checks for safety.

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Dive deep, trust your instincts, and never stop betting on love! Tune in, and let’s create the best version of you.

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Stay tuned for next week's video on challenging negative thoughts and boosting self-confidence.

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Finding Support in Midlife: The Journey to Your Best Life

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In this episode, I, Carmen Hecox, sit down with my best friend and life coach, Janet Zavala, to discuss the power of support systems during midlife. From overcoming obstacles to finding fulfillment and cultivating meaningful relationships, this episode is packed with insights and heartfelt moments. We talk about how important it is to be consistent with small steps, not to shy away from being vulnerable, and how having a tribe can be life-changing.

5 Key Lessons:

1. The Power of Consistency:

Small daily steps, done consistently, can lead to substantial progress. Janet emphasizes the importance of finding what works for you and sticking with it.

2. Overcoming Obstacles:

Janet shares her journey of trying various self-improvement modalities and stresses the importance of leaving no stone unturned in the quest for a better life.

3. Importance of Support Systems:

Having a tribe, whether it’s one person or a community, can empower you during tough times. It’s crucial to have people who lift you up and support you.

4. Cultivating Vulnerability:

Building strong connections starts with being vulnerable and open. It’s okay to reach out and ask how others are doing, even when you might not feel great yourself.

5. Finding Your Tribe:

Whether you're an introvert or extrovert, finding people with common interests can make a huge difference. Practice small acts of kindness and start conversations to build meaningful relationships.

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Sneak Peek for Next Week:

Tune in next week as we sit down with Junie Moon, the midlife coach and host of "Midlife Out Loud Podcast," to explore transformative self-love journeys and creating fulfilling relationships you’ve always dreamed about.

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Eye Health Scare: Finding Strength in Midlife

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In this episode, I recount my recent scare with blurred vision and the subsequent diagnosis of a posterior vitreous detachment (PVD). This eye condition, while frightening, provided me with invaluable lessons about self-care, patience, and the importance of listening to our bodies. Join me as I share how this health scare became a moment of true grace and reinforced the need to respect our limits during midlife.

5 Key Lessons:

1. Acknowledge Every Sign: Health issues demand immediate attention, especially when they can escalate quickly. Don't ignore what your body is telling you.

2. Pace Yourself: Midlife is a time to balance reflection with mindful action, giving ourselves permission to slow down when needed.

3. Embrace Uncertainty: Life doesn't always come with clear answers. Sometimes, we have to accept uncertainties and trust the process.

4. Redefine Success: Success in midlife isn't about keeping up with past paces but about adjusting our definitions and expectations to fit our evolving selves.

5. Self-Compassion as Strength: Being kind to ourselves, especially during challenges, is not just beneficial but essential. It helps us grow and find peace amidst unpredictability.

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📅 Tune in next week for an inspiring talk with Annie Gaudreault, a nutritionist and women's health coach, who will share her midlife career change and tips on living a healthier, more active life.

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