With Love, Ryan | Episode 18

03/11/25 • 14 min

On this episode of Courtside Forever, we’re talking about joy—the kind of joy that shouldn’t be controversial but somehow still is.

I recently watched With Love, Meghan, the new Netflix show featuring Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, as she hosts friends, cooks, and gardens in Montecito. It’s the kind of peaceful, feel-good lifestyle show we’ve seen for years with Martha Stewart, Rachael Ray, and Joanna Gaines. And yet, the backlash Meghan has received? It’s different. It’s louder. And let’s be honest—it’s rooted in something deeper.

This episode dives into why the internet seems to hate joy, how Black women—especially Black moms—are scrutinized for simply existing in peace, and why we struggle to let people enjoy life without attaching some grander meaning to it.

We’ll talk about the viral tweet from a woman who dared to enjoy morning coffee with her husband in their garden—and the absurd backlash that followed. We’ll explore the internet’s pattern of building people up just to tear them down, from everyday folks like Daisey and Michael the Librarian to someone as high-profile as Meghan Markle. And we’ll ask the real question: Why do people love wealth and celebrity culture until the person enjoying it is a Black woman?

But most importantly, this episode is about reclaiming joy. Whether it's making ice cream, watching a cozy cooking show, or tending to an arugula garden, we all deserve simple pleasures—without the internet ruining them.

So, what’s something small and joyful in your life that you refuse to let the internet take from you? Let’s talk about it.

On this episode of Courtside Forever, we’re talking about joy—the kind of joy that shouldn’t be controversial but somehow still is.

So, what’s something small and joyful in your life that you refuse to let the internet take from you? Let’s talk about it.

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Jerica Williams of HER: Power Productions | Episode 17

Basketball has always been bigger than the game, and few people embody that more than Jerica Williams. From a stellar career in high school with multiple championships to earning a full ride at UCLA, her story is already the stuff of legends. But she didn’t stop there. Last season, Jerica made history as the only active female coach in Division I Men’s College Basketball, proving once again that she’s built different.

Beyond the court, she’s a mentor, a leader, and a powerhouse in storytelling. She’s the founder of HER: Power Productions, a platform dedicated to amplifying the voices of young women, and trust me—her work is next level. If you haven’t checked out her videos yet, do yourself a favor. The storytelling? Top-tier. The production quality? Insane.

In this episode, we get into it all—her love for the game, what makes a great coach, and why positive coaching matters now more than ever. We also talk about motherhood and ambition, including the moment she walked across the stage at San Diego State with her newborn son in her arms. And of course, I had to ask about the advice she has for parents navigating their kids' athletic goals.

Jerica’s journey is all about breaking barriers, leading with authenticity, and unlocking greatness—not just in herself, but in everyone around her. Whether you’re a parent, a coach, or just love a good hoop story, you don’t want to miss this one.

Listen now and let’s get Courtside Forever—because as parents, we’ve got the best seats in the house - let's enjoy them.

Visit https://www.herpower.life to learn about Jerica's work.

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Should LeBron James Be Criticized for Helping His Son? | Episode 19

LeBron James recently had a heated exchange with ESPN’s Stephen A. Smith, telling him to “keep my son out of this.” The moment quickly went viral, sparking renewed debate about whether Bronny James deserved to be drafted by the Los Angeles Lakers or if he is simply benefiting from his father’s influence. But this conversation goes beyond basketball—it’s about nepotism, parental support, and what it really means to help the next generation succeed.

In this episode of Courtside Forever, we break down the controversy and ask the tough questions. If you had the power to open doors for your child, would you? Where is the line between providing support and giving unfair advantages? Why does nepotism seem to be accepted in industries like Hollywood, politics, and business but scrutinized in professional sports?

What you can expect in this episode:

A deep dive into the differences between nepotism and legitimate opportunity and why people react differently depending on the industry.
An honest look at Bronny James' journey to the NBA—has he truly earned his spot, or is he riding his father’s legacy?
The impact of generational success, from family businesses to sports dynasties, and why mentorship and exposure often lead to better outcomes.
A conversation about fatherhood, legacy, and the responsibilities of parents who have the power to shape their children’s futures.

Some critics believe Bronny James is only in the NBA because of his last name. Others see it as a historic moment—an all-time great paving the way for his son. No matter which side you’re on, this is a discussion worth having.

Join me in this conversation and decide for yourself.

Read my article titled "You Call It Nepotism. I Call It Fatherhood."