Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting - 18-- Why Traditional Parenting Methods Don’t Work for Emotionally Intense Kids (And What Does)

18-- Why Traditional Parenting Methods Don’t Work for Emotionally Intense Kids (And What Does)

02/21/25 • 27 min

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

If you’ve ever thought, "Why does NOTHING work with my child?!"—you’re not alone. I used to think I had this whole parenting thing figured out, but then life threw me a curveball: a child with ADHD, mood disorder, big emotions, and challenging behaviors.

And let me tell you... the traditional advice? It failed us completely. But when I made one simple shift, EVERYTHING changed. Today, I’m sharing exactly what that shift was and how you can make it too—because parenting your emotionally intense child doesn’t have to feel this hard.

In this episode, you will learn:

Your child’s behavior is telling you something—are you listening?
Why timeouts, consequences, and ‘being consistent’ may not be the answer.
The powerful shift that changes everything (and makes parenting easier).
How your response can either escalate or calm intense emotions.
The first step to creating a home that feels calmer and more connected.

➡️ Ready to shift from overwhelm to understanding? Let's connect!

Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource
Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program.
Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group
Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com
Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store

*** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs.

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In this episode, you will learn:

Your child’s behavior is telling you something—are you listening?
Why timeouts, consequences, and ‘being consistent’ may not be the answer.
The powerful shift that changes everything (and makes parenting easier).
How your response can either escalate or calm intense emotions.
The first step to creating a home that feels calmer and more connected.

➡️ Ready to shift from overwhelm to understanding? Let's connect!

Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource
Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program.
Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group
Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com
Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store

Previous Episode

17-- Four Tips for Effective Self-Care That Strengthen You as Your Child’s Advocate

Moms, we get it—parenting can feel like a never-ending juggling act, especially when you’re also trying to advocate for your child’s needs. But what if the secret to being the best advocate for your child starts with taking care of you first? In this episode, Elyse Scheeler joins us to share her powerful PRAY acronym, a simple reminder to help you prioritize self-care, find the support you need, and confidently speak up for your child. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, drained, or unsure about how to balance it all, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover how small shifts can lead to big changes in your parenting journey. You’ve got this, and we’re here to help you along the way!

In this episode, you will learn:

• Why self-care is essential for moms, especially when advocating for your child.

• The acronym PRAY for balancing self-care and effective advocacy.

• How to find support and resources without feeling guilty or overwhelmed.

• Get actionable tips for moms feeling stuck in the self-care and advocacy path.

Links Mentioned In Episode;

Podcast: Speaking Life Into Motherhood with Elyse Scheeler
Website: Speakinglife.co

Resource Mentioned: Speakinglife.co/peace

Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource
Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program.
Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group
Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com
Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store

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19-- Three Most Common Triggers for Emotionally Intense Kids and What You Can Do to Help

Have you ever had parenting whiplash? You know, when your child goes from laughing to losing it in a matter of seconds? Maybe it’s because you picked the wrong-colored cup, said ‘no’ to a snack, or asked them to turn off their game—suddenly, you’re dealing with a full-on emotional eruption, and you have no idea how you got here.

But what if I told you there are actually patterns behind these emotional explosions? And once you see them, you can’t unsee them! Today, we’re breaking down three of the most common hidden triggers behind emotional outbursts—and, most importantly, what you can do in the moment to keep the peace and help your child regulate their emotions. Let’s jump in!

In this episode, you will learn:

· There’s more to emotional outbursts than meets the eye. What if your child isn’t just overreacting—but reacting to something deeper?

· Sometimes, the world feels too big, too loud, and too much. One common trigger might be hiding in plain sight.

· Changes and transitions can be harder than you think. The way you move your child from one thing to the next could be making things worse—or much easier.

· Even small surprises can lead to big emotions. A simple shift in how you approach the unexpected can make all the difference.

· Your response matters more than you realize. Once you see these triggers, you can’t unsee them—and you’ll have new tools to help.

Want to know how to recognize these triggers and prevent meltdowns before they start? Then tune in!