Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

Jami Kirkbride LPC, Parenting Coach, Special Focus on ADHD, DMDD. Sensory, and Child Anxiety

Hello and welcome to Calm Connection Parenting! I’m your host, Jami Kirkbride—mom of seven, parenting coach, professional counselor, and wrangler of big emotions.
If you’re raising a highly sensitive child with intense emotions, challenging behaviors, or a "spicy" personality, and wondering if you’ll make it through without losing your mind, you’re not alone!
Around here, we’re all about real-life parenting, sprinkled with a little humor and a whole lot of patience. So, grab your coffee (trust me, you’ll need it), and join me as we explore tips, stories, and faith-based strategies to help you bring more calm and confidence into your chaotic days.
Ready to learn some practical tips and effective strategies to move from overwhelmed and stressed to calm, confident and blessed! Let’s do this!
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25-- Intentional Parenting: Key to Managing Intense Emotions and Meltdowns-- Kids ARE the Instruction Manual

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

04/10/25 • 38 min

Today we welcome Debbie Simmonds, author, founder of Anchor Point, and adoptive mom of nine. After her own pain of losing quadruplets, she turned her sorrow into something incredible. She shares profound insights into parenting, resilience, and building lasting family connections. Through powerful stories from her own journey, Debbie reveals how to turn parenting struggles into powerful opportunities for growth. This episode might just change how you see your parenting struggles forever!

In this episode, you'll learn:

How Debbie transformed personal tragedy into purposeful parenting.
Why kids themselves are your best parenting guide.
The real reason parenting can feel hard—and why that's okay.
Practical wisdom on building resilience in your children.

Find Debbie’s book, The Heart of Legacy, Living a Focused, Faithful and Fearless Life on Amazon, or visit her website www.thedebbiesimmons.com.

Explore Anchor Point’s transformative Pathway to Hope Camp and register today at www.anchorpoint.us/pathway-to-hope-camp.

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*** This podcast and host will not offer medical advice, nor is it intended to take the place of counseling, medical intervention, or treatment. Jami Kirkbride is hereby operating as a parenting coach and will not diagnose or treat clients. Please consult a doctor, medical professional, or mental health provider to meet your immediate and ongoing needs.

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10--When Holidays Hurt: Managing Feelings Amid the Festivities

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

11/21/24 • 29 min

Does the holiday hustle make you feel more ‘bah humbug’ than ‘ho, ho, ho’? If so, you’re not alone! Holidays can be as full of emotions as they are with festive lights. So, if you’re looking for a holiday season that balances joy and the real feels, you’re in the right place. Let’s talk about how to navigate holiday gatherings, embrace your own pace, and find little sparks of joy—even when holidays feel a little heavy.

In this episode, we’re diving into the emotions that often surface during the holiday season. While the world around us seems merry and bright, many of us feel the weight of stress, loss, parenting challenges, or unmet expectations. If the holidays feel more overwhelming than joyful, this conversation is for you. Learn how to prepare your heart with H-E-A-R-T!

Together, we’ll explore:

Why the holidays can feel heavier than they look—and how to lighten the load
Simple strategies to manage stress and emotional overwhelm this season
The secret to finding joy even when the festivities feel hard
A gentle reminder of what truly matters during the holidays

Tune in for heartfelt insights, practical tips, and encouragement to embrace the season with peace and purpose—even when holidays hurt.

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13-- What You Need to Know: Symptoms, Diagnosis, and Support for Parenting DMDD

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

12/11/24 • 34 min

Does your child seem to experience emotions on overdrive—outbursts that can be shocking, irritability that feels constant, and meltdowns that leave everyone drained? Parenting a child with these challenges can feel overwhelming and isolating, but you’re not alone. In this episode, we’re shedding light on Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD), a condition that might explain these intense behaviors. Together, we’ll uncover how you can better understand your child’s struggles and begin taking steps toward calm and connection in your family.

In this episode, you will learn:

What is DMDD? A closer look at this often-misunderstood childhood condition and how it impacts behavior and emotions.
Spot the Signs: Learn to recognize the patterns of emotional dysregulation and meltdowns that might point to DMDD.
Understanding the Diagnosis: We’ll talk about how DMDD is diagnosed, the criteria used, and why it’s important to differentiate it from other conditions.
Finding Support: Discover the tools, resources, and strategies that can help your child thrive—and support you as their parent on this challenging journey.

This episode is here to provide the clarity, encouragement, and practical insights you need to better navigate your child’s emotions and behaviors. Let’s walk this path together!

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27- Why Is My Child So Aggressive? Insights and Solutions for Parents of Angry or Emotionally Intense Kids

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

04/24/25 • 23 min

Are you struggling with a child whose anger seems to erupt out of nowhere, leaving you feeling helpless and overwhelmed? If you're wondering, Why is my child so aggressive?—you're not alone. Today’s episode dives deep into the challenging and often heartbreaking behaviors that many parents face: aggression, meltdowns, and emotional intensity. I’m here to help you understand why these behaviors are happening and, more importantly, what you can do to manage them.

If your child’s aggression is leaving you drained and uncertain about how to help them, this episode is for you. I'll share practical insights, expert advice, and actionable solutions that can help you create a calmer, more connected relationship with your child.

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What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

The Root Causes of Aggression in Kids
Discover why children, especially those with emotional intensity, act out and what might be driving these behaviors.
How to Identify Triggers and Sensory Needs
Learn how to pinpoint specific triggers in your child's environment or routine that may be contributing to their outbursts.
Practical Strategies to Address Aggression
Understand effective, step-by-step approaches that will help you guide your child through their big emotions in healthier ways.
Why Emotional Regulation is Key
Learn how building emotional awareness and teaching coping skills can make a world of difference in managing aggression.
Creating a Supportive Environment for Growth
Find out how consistency, structure, and self-care for you as a parent can transform your child’s behavior over time.

Tune in for an eye-opening conversation on why your child might be acting out, and learn how you can help them navigate their emotions with confidence. Whether you're dealing with occasional outbursts or constant aggression, the strategies in this episode will empower you to create lasting change.

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2--Tough Lessons Learned About Parenting Meltdowns and Challenging Behaviors

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

10/01/24 • 27 min

Have you ever felt like no matter what you try, your child’s meltdowns and big emotions just don’t seem to get better? I’ve been there—confused, frustrated, and desperate for answers. In this episode, I’m sharing our story, the struggles we faced, and the strategies that helped us build a calm connection with our child. Stick with me—because by the end of this episode, you’ll see that there’s real hope ahead.

Real strategies for managing meltdowns and big emotions in uniquely wired children.
Encouragement to let go of shame, judgment, and fear while advocating for your child.
Insights into understanding your child’s changing diagnoses and unique needs.
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12-- Parenting Through the Holidays: When Families Don't Understand the Struggle

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

12/05/24 • 30 min

As the holidays approach, many parents of uniquely wired children feel the weight of family expectations and the pressure of navigating family gatherings. You want to enjoy the holidays and make memories, but instead, you’re dreading the judgment and misunderstandings from family members who just don’t get it.

If your child struggles with behaviors that others don’t understand — meltdowns, emotional outbursts, or intense reactions — it can feel isolating and overwhelming. You might find yourself constantly explaining, defending, or even avoiding certain situations to keep the peace.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing tools to help you navigate these challenging moments with confidence. You’ll learn a 4-step strategy that will help you:

✨ Feel — Acknowledge your emotions and gain clarity
✨ Accept — Embrace your child’s unique needs without shame
✨ Clarify — Communicate your child’s needs to your family
✨ Express — Set healthy boundaries and advocate for your child

These steps will help you approach family gatherings with confidence, reduce stress, and create understanding among family members. While you can’t change how others may view your child, you can control how you advocate and set boundaries.

If you’ve been dreading the holidays because you feel misunderstood, this episode is for you! Tune in for practical strategies to navigate this season with more peace, understanding, and confidence.

Listen now to gain the tools you need to make this holiday season smoother for both you and your child!
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17-- Four Tips for Effective Self-Care That Strengthen You as Your Child’s Advocate

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

02/12/25 • 31 min

Moms, we get it—parenting can feel like a never-ending juggling act, especially when you’re also trying to advocate for your child’s needs. But what if the secret to being the best advocate for your child starts with taking care of you first? In this episode, Elyse Scheeler joins us to share her powerful PRAY acronym, a simple reminder to help you prioritize self-care, find the support you need, and confidently speak up for your child. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, drained, or unsure about how to balance it all, this episode is for you. Tune in and discover how small shifts can lead to big changes in your parenting journey. You’ve got this, and we’re here to help you along the way!

In this episode, you will learn:

• Why self-care is essential for moms, especially when advocating for your child.

• The acronym PRAY for balancing self-care and effective advocacy.

• How to find support and resources without feeling guilty or overwhelmed.

• Get actionable tips for moms feeling stuck in the self-care and advocacy path.

Links Mentioned In Episode;

Podcast: Speaking Life Into Motherhood with Elyse Scheeler
Website: Speakinglife.co

Resource Mentioned: Speakinglife.co/peace

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11-- Taking the Chaos Out of Christmas: 3 Practical Tips for Parents

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

11/27/24 • 29 min

Are you dreaming of a calm and joyful Christmas, but feeling frazzled rather than festive? Between juggling gift lists, family gatherings, and managing your child's emotions and behaviors, the holidays can quickly turn into Christmas chaos. But it doesn’t have to be that way!
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 practical tips to take the chaos out of Christmas and help you reclaim the joy and connection you’re longing for. Whether you’re managing meltdowns and challenging behaviors, balancing busy schedules, or just trying to create a meaningful season, these tips will help you approach the holidays with calm and intention.

✨ Here’s a sneak peek at what we’ll cover:

How to align your holiday plans with your family’s unique wiring, personalities, and needs.
The magic of a “Family Holiday Huddle” to simplify, connect, and plan.
Why the smallest joys (like hot cocoa nights!) often matter the most.
How to use the “Powerful Pause” and the “Necessary No” to avoid holiday overwhelm.

🎁 Let’s trade the stress for more joy, connection, and a season that feels just right for your family’s needs. Tune in and make this Christmas the calmest one yet!
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18-- Why Traditional Parenting Methods Don’t Work for Emotionally Intense Kids (And What Does)

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

02/21/25 • 27 min

If you’ve ever thought, "Why does NOTHING work with my child?!"—you’re not alone. I used to think I had this whole parenting thing figured out, but then life threw me a curveball: a child with ADHD, mood disorder, big emotions, and challenging behaviors.

And let me tell you... the traditional advice? It failed us completely. But when I made one simple shift, EVERYTHING changed. Today, I’m sharing exactly what that shift was and how you can make it too—because parenting your emotionally intense child doesn’t have to feel this hard.

In this episode, you will learn:

Your child’s behavior is telling you something—are you listening?
Why timeouts, consequences, and ‘being consistent’ may not be the answer.
The powerful shift that changes everything (and makes parenting easier).
How your response can either escalate or calm intense emotions.
The first step to creating a home that feels calmer and more connected.

➡️ Ready to shift from overwhelm to understanding? Let's connect!

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Why Play Is Essential for Parenting Emotionally Intense Children (Emotional Regulation… Bonus!)

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

05/12/25 • 38 min

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If your child melts down, shuts down, or struggles to find the words to explain what’s wrong—you’re not alone. And you’re not failing. In this episode, we’re joined by play expert and counselor Deborah Woods to explore how play can become one of the most powerful tools for connection—especially when your child’s emotions feel too big for words.

You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be present—and a little playful.

🔑 In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why play is a powerful connector for emotionally intense children
How play helps kids feel safe, seen, and soothed
Simple ways to build connection without adding stress
What to do if play feels awkward or unnatural as a parent
How just 30 minutes a week can begin to transform your relationship

🎧 Listen now and discover how playful presence can bring peace back into your home.

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Deborah's FREE Resource: Resources for Parents | Moms & Dads & Kids | Play Therapy

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