Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting - 11-- Taking the Chaos Out of Christmas: 3 Practical Tips for Parents

11-- Taking the Chaos Out of Christmas: 3 Practical Tips for Parents

11/27/24 • 29 min

Calm Connection Parenting- Meltdowns, Challenging Behaviors, Parenting Struggles, Connected Parenting

Are you dreaming of a calm and joyful Christmas, but feeling frazzled rather than festive? Between juggling gift lists, family gatherings, and managing your child's emotions and behaviors, the holidays can quickly turn into Christmas chaos. But it doesn’t have to be that way!
In this episode, I’m sharing 3 practical tips to take the chaos out of Christmas and help you reclaim the joy and connection you’re longing for. Whether you’re managing meltdowns and challenging behaviors, balancing busy schedules, or just trying to create a meaningful season, these tips will help you approach the holidays with calm and intention.

✨ Here’s a sneak peek at what we’ll cover:

How to align your holiday plans with your family’s unique wiring, personalities, and needs.
The magic of a “Family Holiday Huddle” to simplify, connect, and plan.
Why the smallest joys (like hot cocoa nights!) often matter the most.
How to use the “Powerful Pause” and the “Necessary No” to avoid holiday overwhelm.

🎁 Let’s trade the stress for more joy, connection, and a season that feels just right for your family’s needs. Tune in and make this Christmas the calmest one yet!
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✨ Here’s a sneak peek at what we’ll cover:

How to align your holiday plans with your family’s unique wiring, personalities, and needs.
The magic of a “Family Holiday Huddle” to simplify, connect, and plan.
Why the smallest joys (like hot cocoa nights!) often matter the most.
How to use the “Powerful Pause” and the “Necessary No” to avoid holiday overwhelm.

Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource
Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program.
Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group
Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com
Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store

Previous Episode

10--When Holidays Hurt: Managing Feelings Amid the Festivities

Does the holiday hustle make you feel more ‘bah humbug’ than ‘ho, ho, ho’? If so, you’re not alone! Holidays can be as full of emotions as they are with festive lights. So, if you’re looking for a holiday season that balances joy and the real feels, you’re in the right place. Let’s talk about how to navigate holiday gatherings, embrace your own pace, and find little sparks of joy—even when holidays feel a little heavy.

In this episode, we’re diving into the emotions that often surface during the holiday season. While the world around us seems merry and bright, many of us feel the weight of stress, loss, parenting challenges, or unmet expectations. If the holidays feel more overwhelming than joyful, this conversation is for you. Learn how to prepare your heart with H-E-A-R-T!

Together, we’ll explore:

Why the holidays can feel heavier than they look—and how to lighten the load
Simple strategies to manage stress and emotional overwhelm this season
The secret to finding joy even when the festivities feel hard
A gentle reminder of what truly matters during the holidays

Tune in for heartfelt insights, practical tips, and encouragement to embrace the season with peace and purpose—even when holidays hurt.

Get the resources mentioned at: CalmConnectionParent.com/resource
Book a call to find out more about Calm Connection Coaching Program.
Join our online Facebook support group: Parenting With Personality Group
Find out more: ParentingWithPersonality.com
Download the Parenting With Personality APP on Google Play or Apple Store

Next Episode

12-- Parenting Through the Holidays: When Families Don't Understand the Struggle

As the holidays approach, many parents of uniquely wired children feel the weight of family expectations and the pressure of navigating family gatherings. You want to enjoy the holidays and make memories, but instead, you’re dreading the judgment and misunderstandings from family members who just don’t get it.

If your child struggles with behaviors that others don’t understand — meltdowns, emotional outbursts, or intense reactions — it can feel isolating and overwhelming. You might find yourself constantly explaining, defending, or even avoiding certain situations to keep the peace.

In today’s episode, I’m sharing tools to help you navigate these challenging moments with confidence. You’ll learn a 4-step strategy that will help you:

✨ Feel — Acknowledge your emotions and gain clarity
✨ Accept — Embrace your child’s unique needs without shame
✨ Clarify — Communicate your child’s needs to your family
✨ Express — Set healthy boundaries and advocate for your child

These steps will help you approach family gatherings with confidence, reduce stress, and create understanding among family members. While you can’t change how others may view your child, you can control how you advocate and set boundaries.

If you’ve been dreading the holidays because you feel misunderstood, this episode is for you! Tune in for practical strategies to navigate this season with more peace, understanding, and confidence.

Listen now to gain the tools you need to make this holiday season smoother for both you and your child!
For the Behind the Behavior Guide mentioned in this episode: CalmConnectionParent.com/behindthebehaviors