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Black Women Heal Show

Black Women Heal Show

Black Women Heal

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Discussing life‘s bullsh*t; BWH aims to redefine what healing looks like for black women, by sharing unique perspectives and experiences, uncensored and uncut. Your hosts are Cheyenne, Sheena, Seleta, Ashley, and Monique-a group of black women who grew up in the same hometown. The no-holds-barred friends you need to feel less alone. Write to the ladies for ”Healer of the Week” and share what you‘re healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for ”BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies‘ two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You‘ll always stay anonymous. Connect with the Ladies: www.blackwomenhealshow.com Instagram @blackwomenhealshow
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In this episode, the ladies discuss common causes for intimate disconnect, communicating your sexual desires, and maintaining them. 

Restoring intimacy with your partner can be a difficult discussion, but it's a necessary one. It's often a taboo topic for many and an overlooked area that creates a healthy sex life. The need for emotional, mental, spiritual, and physical intimacy from your partner is sacred and shouldn't be taken lightly. Heck, even if your relationship is casual, you still need to form a connection in some way. Lack of intimacy in a relationship often feels like disconnection or distance. An invisible barrier or wall.

"Relationships don't die because of a lack of love. They die because of a lack of passion."-Tony Robbins

Article Mentioned:

MentalHelp.net https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/the-most-important-tool-for-restoring-emotional-intimacy-to-your-marriage

 Time Stamps: 

  • 00:00:00- Intro
  • 00:02:36- That thang ain't thangin no more.
  • 00:04:20- You betta communicate what you need sis!
  • 00:08:06- It's okay babe, I'm not trying to hurt you.
  • 00:09:48- It's hard to tell when your man feels disconnected.
  • 00:12:18- The act of sex is just a small percentage of what it means to have real intimacy.
  • 00:16:34- Who's teaching hetero men how to be intimate with women?
  • 00:19:50- It's a man's patience for me.
  • 00:28:33- When hetero women are more sexually driven than their men.
  • 00:30:34- Commercial break
  • 00:36:38- I need my sex and breaking the ice to difficult discussions.
  • 00:37:28- Women with low libido and cosplay.
  • 00:38:48- When your man has low libido and methods he used to make up for it.
  • 00:41:26- Let intimate conversations with your partner fuel your drive and ambition.
  • 00:46:15- Holding yourself accountable and loving your partner in the love language they understand.
  • 00:49:00- Give your partner the girlfriend or dating experience.
  • 00:50:02- Benediction

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Black Women Heal Show - Mind f*ck me; seduce me intellectually
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08/25/21 • 75 min

What's the first thing that comes to you when you read/hear the phrase: mind fuck me? Is it the idea of a love interest seducing you through intellectual conversation?

If you're tired of the club scene and local bar, you can attest to the yearning of wanting to deeply connect with a love interest. If you're married or in a long-term relationship, you were probably drawn to your partner because they bared all intellectually.

In this episode, the ladies discuss experiences with former partners and what their current husbands have done to stimulate them beyond the bedroom. They dive into whether single hetero men lack the patience or "know-how" to inspire a woman mentally. Times they've been attracted to someone who was not their usual "type," places single people can meet their intellectual match, and what it's like to be married and sexually aroused by their husbands' intellect.

 Time Stamps:

00:11:45-What comes to mind when you hear: Mind fuck me.

00:14:14-I've always been a personality person.

00:20:00-Culturally exposed men

00:24:14-If your partner is less culturally exposed; show them.

00:29:45-Become comfortable with self, first.

00:37:53-I prefer a man that's intelligent and swaggy.

00:45:29-Sapiosexuals in marriage.

00:48:47- Being equally yoked through intelligence and curiosity.

00:51:49-Lay down your ego and pick up femininity.

00:55:25-How heterosexual men/women present themselves to the world matters.

01:00:03-Sapiosexual weaponry and triggers.

01:11:03-I'm just a lil selfish, gotta check myself.

01:14:57-Nerdy dudes been in.

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-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.

 

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Black Women Heal Show - Is blood thicker than water?

Is blood thicker than water?

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04/14/21 • 73 min

Have you been "burned" by family, do you expect your family to ride or die for you, do you think people actually know when they need further healing, is healing truly attainable in the black and brown communities? The ladies answer these questions and more on this episode of BWH.

  • *00:02:15-Seleta pulls from the moonology oracle deck and a new and exciting start is coming your way. Indications of a new start, new project, or overall positive energies will enter freely and abundantly. If you have been feeling stagnant, this week's reading reminds us that life happens in cycles, and now is the time to wipe the slate clean.

The ladies admit, at some point, they've been burned by family and family will be the first to throw fire at you. Seleta states that she finds closure by telling the other person how she feels and how she was hurt and then moves forward unapologetically. Sheena says that over the years she has stopped expecting anything from family, whether that's supporting her creative projects or just calling to check on her. By now you already know that Ashley's relationships are on a case-by-case basis, lol. 

Cheyenne says that she felt like the "black sheep" of her family growing up because she was raised by her grandparents in her earlier life and her experience with her mother was entirely different from that of her siblings. Monique reminds us that the revolution of black and brown people will not be televised, because healing starts within and we cannot heal our families or this nation until we stand in the mirror and seek it in our communities, first.

Passive-aggressive behaviors seem to be a common theme in this episode and the ladies all agree that getting things out in the air, even if it means relationships being severed. Unhealed trauma is widespread in the black and brown communities; is healing generational curses truly attainable? 

  • *00:04:57- A little COVID talk and how it can affect our spiritual and mental state when there's a pandemic out in these streets.
  • *00:09:58- For our, It's a vibe segment, Seleta suggests Snoh Alegra while Monique busts into a little riff of PJ Morton and JoJo: Say So. Seleta says we all need to take a trip down memory lane & listen to Ying Yang Twins to get our day started, as well as singer Kianna Lede's song: chocolate, which is for damn sure A Vibe. 
  • *00:18:02-BDE/GPDE for the day is emotional Intelligence in intimate relationships and why you should never settle for being a concubine; aim for that "bottom wife" life. The ladies agree that it is not big d*ck energy for a man to have multiple wives and children without his wife's consent. A whole lot of men have toxic d*ck energy and leave women d*ckmatized and sprung. Fellas we hope you know your worth too and are staying away from toxic p*ussy energy.
  • *00:27:55-Is blood thicker than water ya'll?
  • *00:47:35- The Revolution will not be televised because it's in your mind.
  • *00:53:23-Stop blaming others for your unhappiness, know thyself.
  • *00:57:47-Shoutout to the Ancestors.
  • *01:03:53-Black dollars and no unity.
  • *01:06:59-It's time to get uncomfortable with family.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions, topic ideas, or anonymously with letters about your own life experiences and we'll read it on the show. 

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-We’re on YouTube as well @blackwomenhealshow

We would appreciate it if you would give this podcast a five-star rating and leave a review on Apple iTunes.

If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe/follow(it's free) and we'd appreciate you telling a friend, maybe two;)

 

 

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Black Women Heal Show - Is romance important to you?

Is romance important to you?

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04/07/21 • 73 min

Are you someone who only shows romance towards your significant other on special occasions you know; stuntin for the gram? What does a romantic gesture look like to you based on your love language or is it even important?

Communication and fertility were the cards that came up on the Spiritual Shit segment of the show today. This is the second episode that communication was pulled from the deck, which is an indication of how important it is. 

The communication card leads the ladies into a discussion about the presence of masculine energy that many modern-day women project in all areas of their lives. For the heterosexual woman seeking love; she's giving off big dick energy which is the opposite of what most men prefer in a life partner. But don't worry, the ladies offer simple and effective ways for you to tap into your divine feminine energy to create balance and heal your traumas.

*00:22:00-Sheena shares some not-so-big dick energy for the week and challenges with dating in the 21st century.

*00:35:00-After a few tangents, the ladies finally discuss what they perceive to be romantic, how often they expect romantic gestures, and holding yourself accountable when you weren't behaving at your best.

*01:04:00-The ladies ask how often should you be having sex with your partner? Sheena, Cheyenne, Ashley, and Seleta all agree that it should be daily, but Mo disagrees, #respectfully.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions, topic ideas, or anonymously with letters about your own life experiences and we'll read it on the show. 

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-We’re on YouTube as well @blackwomenhealshow

We would appreciate it if you would give this podcast a five-star rating and leave a review on Apple iTunes.

If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe/follow(it's free) and we'd appreciate you telling a friend, maybe two;)

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Have you ever been told by parents and loved ones: girl you can't do that, people will think you're ghetto and have no home training!

Black girls and boys spend their childhood learning how to behave and speak in public, school, work, and predominantly white spaces. As if who we are is tainted and not good enough. The history of America and its Black people is filled with images of promiscuous and angry Black women. For many of us, a few lessons on how NOT to be what the media portrays us is just as important as earning a college degree.

 In this episode, the ladies of BWH discuss what contributes to or causes the overly critical views of Black women and girls. How these stereotypes affected them as children and adults. Why do White people refuse to "fix" what was created by their Ancestors, how Black men and women can heal and thrive as a collective.

Articles mentioned:

A.)  The Misunderstood Schema of the Strong Black Woman: Exploring Its Mental Health Consequences and Coping Responses Among African American Women

  B.) Frankly, We Do Give a Damn: The Relationship Between Profanity and Honesty

 C.)  Jim Crow Museum of racist memorabilia

 D.) The Black Kings of Europe

Time Stamps

  • 00:00:00- Intro
  • 00:01:30- Listener Reviews and the Top Countries & States for August.
  • 00:07:51- Black girl, you know you can't do that.
  • 00:13:04-Articles and studies about profanity and Black women.
  • 00:15:38- What contributes to the negative imagery of Black women?
  • 00:19:19- Negative stereotypes Black children/young adults experience.
  • 00:25:30- Embarrassing me in front of all these white people.
  • 00:28:46- Oversexualization of Black girls and Black women.
  • 00:33:34- The Black woman is the most disrespected in America.
  • 00:39:43- The Black community is powerful; they just don't know it.
  • 00:42:55- Societal pressures and body image.
  • 00:48:20- So tired of being told what I can't do.
  • 00:51:14- Why don't white people want to fix/dismantle the racist systems that they benefit from?
  • 00:52:56- Black women do not feel protected by Black men.
  • 00:58:06- Can the Black community do better as a collective?
  • 01:03:02- Even when we fuck up, we should work together to heal and cancel culture.

Help us better serve you by taking our show survey. We promise it won't take more than five minutes! We appreciate you, family, Tap here

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Ways to support the show:

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-Leave a five-star rating and review in Apple iTunes.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions or anonymously for BWH-Two Cents with letters about your own life experiences for a possible feature on the show!!!

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Black Women Heal Show - Spiritually stuck and sh*t: pushing past spiritual stagnation
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09/01/21 • 73 min

Are you in a place spiritually where everything is okay on the surface level but, you're having difficulty tuning in spiritually? Yeah, us too! In this episode, the ladies discuss how it feels to not feel connected to God/Source/Universe for a short period or sometimes a long timeframe. What it's like when you feel like you can't tap into your spiritual gifts and you aren't receiving any messages from the other side. How they have and are currently getting through this period, imparting spiritual practices within their children, using the Universe's gift of nature, animals, and plants to get grounded again, and what they believe is happening during this period of silence or disconnection.

They also advise you, family, not to worry about your spouse's/partners spiritual journey/walk, lead by example, it's the greatest teacher. 

Time Stamps:

00:02:55-Welcome Family to the show!

00:05:51-I just need a work Lord, please.

00:07:57-Fine-tuning your spiritual shit.

00:09:27-When the numerical synchronicities be synching.

00:11:28-Animals feeling it.

00:13:55-Working in a peopley environment & the need to get grounded.

00:15:33-Spirit is trying to ground you through nature/plants.

00:18:40-Spiritual practices that keep me grounded as a mom & wife.

00:30:05-I can show my spouse better than I can tell them.

00:32:07-Everyone won't see the vision & connecting with those who. vibrate on the same frequency.

00:40:21-What people say about you, isn't your business & social media is filtered.

00:42:00-Research the roots of your spiritual practices and religion.

00:44:36-Not cutting them soul ties fuck with your spiritual shit too.

00:47:38-Don't beat yourself up, shame & guilt in religious organizations, stay grounded.

00:50:05-We don't have to be perfect at it, for it to be effective.

00:54:40-Spiritual perfectionism that social media portrays and the societal matrix.

00:58:27-Technology is not natural & clearing spiritual stagnation.

01:11:05-Do what works for you without comparison.

Help us better serve you by taking our show survey. We promise it won't take more than five minutes! We appreciate you, family, Tap here

Ways to support the show:

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.

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Black Women Heal Show - Social media killing relationships and online dating
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07/21/21 • 98 min

Have you ever caught your partner socializing inappropriately, do you use social media as a tool to meet new people and date, or linked up with an old boo?

In this episode, the Aunties discuss the days of MySpace and Black Planet, when things were still simple and we were less emotionally attached to the online world. Their experiences with people approaching them to date online. They also discuss simple and effective ways to conduct yourself online when you're married, single, or in a relationship. Studies show that social media can have lasting effects on romantic relationships in a negative way.

Rest in Eternal Peace Uncle Biz Markie

-00:16:09-Sheena's spiritual cleanse update 

-00:24:00-Is social media killing relationships studies

-00:30:00-Before social media became "deep" or emotionally invested

-00:37:00-Privacy and social media exposing people

-00:44:33-Be mindful of how you use social media

-00:45:55-Y'all ain't tired of looking at ass yet?

-00:56:00-Monetize your social media handles

-01:00:00-Online dating

-01:05:43-Stop wasting one another's time

-01:13:00- Accountability and Community

-01:16:00-Focus on the relationship

-01:30:00-In closing; get offline and be in the world

Studies on Social media and relationships:

-http://www.ibii-us.org/Journals/JESD/V2N2/Publish/V2N2_10.pdf -Institute of Business Intelligence Innovation

 -Oxford academic-https://academic.oup.com/jcmc/article/16/4/511/4067649

Ways to support the show:

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

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-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.

 

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Black Women Heal Show - Energy vultures and shoutout to the Ancestors this Juneteenth
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06/16/21 • 51 min

Have you experienced an energy vamp and if so, how did you release the grip they had on you?

Within this episode, the ladies give honor to the ancestors for Juneteenth, the late great Patrice Lumumba of Congo who was assassinated 60 years ago, and his last remaining body part; a single tooth being returned home to his family. They also discuss their experiences with energy vampires, how to identify one, what to do if it's a colleague, loved one, or romantic partner, and how to navigate severing ties with them for good.

Ways to Support the show: 

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-Leave a five-star rating and review in Apple iTunes.

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-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions or anonymously for BWH Two Cents with letters about your own life experiences, and we'll read it on the show!!!

 

 

 

 

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Black Women Heal Show - Should we fall or walk into love?
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04/28/21 • 85 min

Have you went through a bad breakup or divorce and thought to yourself, if only I had taken more time to feel out the compatibility and pay attention to the red flags? If so, then today's episode about falling or walking into love is sure to resonate with you.

The ladies of BWH discuss how healing from past relationships can help you find love again by tuning-in to a vibrational frequency that attracts an equally healed partner.  

Time Stamps:

*00:03:42-For the Spiritual Shit of the day, Seleta pulls from the Urban Tarot Deck, and the card "abundance" is pulled. Abundance speaks to us about the joy of having people around you that truly care and celebrate you. It also reminds us to manifest the desires of our hearts and take some time to refill our cup.

*00:16:02-Falling, walking, or two-steppin into love and what true healing looks like.

*00:34:04-Triggers and getting intimate with oneself through the sacral chakra.

*00:45:08-When you know the chemistry is right, corny guys vs. clown-balls.

*00:48:35-Trusting your own judgment outside of societal norms, turn-up culture, and the men 35 yrs+ who have adapted that mentality.

*00:59:54- Setting boundaries with family and friends when you're in a relationship and why the feminist movement is detrimental to relationships and marriage.

*01:04:20- The relationship is the gift, not what's between your legs.

*01:17:56- In closing: heal and don't waste their time, learn to be teachable, make a list of your top 5 attributes/must-haves in a partner.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions, topic ideas, or anonymously with letters about your own life experiences and we'll read it on the show. 

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-We’re on YouTube as well @blackwomenhealshow

We would appreciate it if you would give this podcast a five-star rating and leave a review on Apple iTunes.

If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe/follow(it's free) and we'd appreciate you telling a friend, maybe two;)

 

 

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Unfortunately, we are in the age of technology, and because of this, it's becoming increasingly difficult to get grounded spiritually. In this episode, the ladies discuss being in alignment with your spiritual and highest self. 

The ladies also share how they know when to "tap out" of societal distractions. Some of those spiritual red flags discussed are anxiety, impulsiveness, and being easily irritated. Living in a world that wants you to feed into their continual shit show makes being a spiritual person tricky.

Time Stamps:

  • 00:00:00- Intro
  • 00:05:39-Family Shoutouts
  • 00:09:28-What's the vibe catchup.
  • 00:10:48-Mercury retrograde and astrological shit.
  • 00:16:28-Pregnancy dreams and the spiritual meaning.
  • 0023:33:-You worried about how I changed, but why are you still the same?
  • 00:25:13-Unplugging from the matrix and when to tap out.
  • 00:34:08-Tap out of social media, the media, and other societal distractions.
  • 00:36:08-Introverts vs. Extroverts and the spiritual effects.
  • 00:40:48-Crystals, Geodes, and getting grounded.
  • 00:46:48-Numerical Synchronicities and angel numbers.
  • 01:01:44- Spiritual shit tarot card pull.
  • 01:05:38-Benediction & Shenanigans

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Ways to support the show:

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.

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