Social media killing relationships and online dating
07/21/21 • 98 min
Have you ever caught your partner socializing inappropriately, do you use social media as a tool to meet new people and date, or linked up with an old boo?
In this episode, the Aunties discuss the days of MySpace and Black Planet, when things were still simple and we were less emotionally attached to the online world. Their experiences with people approaching them to date online. They also discuss simple and effective ways to conduct yourself online when you're married, single, or in a relationship. Studies show that social media can have lasting effects on romantic relationships in a negative way.
Rest in Eternal Peace Uncle Biz Markie
-00:16:09-Sheena's spiritual cleanse update
-00:24:00-Is social media killing relationships studies
-00:30:00-Before social media became "deep" or emotionally invested
-00:37:00-Privacy and social media exposing people
-00:44:33-Be mindful of how you use social media
-00:45:55-Y'all ain't tired of looking at ass yet?
-00:56:00-Monetize your social media handles
-01:00:00-Online dating
-01:05:43-Stop wasting one another's time
-01:13:00- Accountability and Community
-01:16:00-Focus on the relationship
-01:30:00-In closing; get offline and be in the world
Studies on Social media and relationships:
-http://www.ibii-us.org/Journals/JESD/V2N2/Publish/V2N2_10.pdf -Institute of Business Intelligence Innovation
-Oxford academic-https://academic.oup.com/jcmc/article/16/4/511/4067649
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-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
Have you ever caught your partner socializing inappropriately, do you use social media as a tool to meet new people and date, or linked up with an old boo?
In this episode, the Aunties discuss the days of MySpace and Black Planet, when things were still simple and we were less emotionally attached to the online world. Their experiences with people approaching them to date online. They also discuss simple and effective ways to conduct yourself online when you're married, single, or in a relationship. Studies show that social media can have lasting effects on romantic relationships in a negative way.
Rest in Eternal Peace Uncle Biz Markie
-00:16:09-Sheena's spiritual cleanse update
-00:24:00-Is social media killing relationships studies
-00:30:00-Before social media became "deep" or emotionally invested
-00:37:00-Privacy and social media exposing people
-00:44:33-Be mindful of how you use social media
-00:45:55-Y'all ain't tired of looking at ass yet?
-00:56:00-Monetize your social media handles
-01:00:00-Online dating
-01:05:43-Stop wasting one another's time
-01:13:00- Accountability and Community
-01:16:00-Focus on the relationship
-01:30:00-In closing; get offline and be in the world
Studies on Social media and relationships:
-http://www.ibii-us.org/Journals/JESD/V2N2/Publish/V2N2_10.pdf -Institute of Business Intelligence Innovation
-Oxford academic-https://academic.oup.com/jcmc/article/16/4/511/4067649
Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
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Should I date while finishing school?
In this episode of BWH-Two Cents, The ladies read and respond to a letter from a niece whose identity we'll keep anonymous. She states in the letter that she is 26, currently finishing her associate's degree, and will pursue her bachelor's immediately. Niece wants to know if she should be dating while completing her education, starting a new job, and saving for a new vehicle???
*The ladies of BWH are not licensed, mental health therapists or counselors.*
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Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
Next Episode
Securing the marital bag
Are you single and wondering how you will handle finances in a relationship or marriage? Are you the financial saver in your relationship, but your partner likes to spend? Do you and your spouse keep your finances separate? Do you maintain a "rainy day" fund?
If you said yes to any of the above, then this episode will surely resonate. The Aunties discuss one of the top reasons couples divorce in America, finances. They delve into ways single people that live with their partner can manage household bills and feeling secure not being the breadwinner in your marriage. Ultimately it's up to you and your partner to figure out what works best for the two of you. Communication and honesty is the key to being equally yoked financially and sustaining a healthy relationship.
-00:06:00-Spiritual Shit
-00:22:00-Topic Begins
Financial Literacy Companies mentioned in the episode:
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Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
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