Mind f*ck me; seduce me intellectually
08/25/21 • 75 min
What's the first thing that comes to you when you read/hear the phrase: mind fuck me? Is it the idea of a love interest seducing you through intellectual conversation?
If you're tired of the club scene and local bar, you can attest to the yearning of wanting to deeply connect with a love interest. If you're married or in a long-term relationship, you were probably drawn to your partner because they bared all intellectually.
In this episode, the ladies discuss experiences with former partners and what their current husbands have done to stimulate them beyond the bedroom. They dive into whether single hetero men lack the patience or "know-how" to inspire a woman mentally. Times they've been attracted to someone who was not their usual "type," places single people can meet their intellectual match, and what it's like to be married and sexually aroused by their husbands' intellect.
Time Stamps:
00:11:45-What comes to mind when you hear: Mind fuck me.
00:14:14-I've always been a personality person.
00:20:00-Culturally exposed men
00:24:14-If your partner is less culturally exposed; show them.
00:29:45-Become comfortable with self, first.
00:37:53-I prefer a man that's intelligent and swaggy.
00:45:29-Sapiosexuals in marriage.
00:48:47- Being equally yoked through intelligence and curiosity.
00:51:49-Lay down your ego and pick up femininity.
00:55:25-How heterosexual men/women present themselves to the world matters.
01:00:03-Sapiosexual weaponry and triggers.
01:11:03-I'm just a lil selfish, gotta check myself.
01:14:57-Nerdy dudes been in.
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What's the first thing that comes to you when you read/hear the phrase: mind fuck me? Is it the idea of a love interest seducing you through intellectual conversation?
If you're tired of the club scene and local bar, you can attest to the yearning of wanting to deeply connect with a love interest. If you're married or in a long-term relationship, you were probably drawn to your partner because they bared all intellectually.
In this episode, the ladies discuss experiences with former partners and what their current husbands have done to stimulate them beyond the bedroom. They dive into whether single hetero men lack the patience or "know-how" to inspire a woman mentally. Times they've been attracted to someone who was not their usual "type," places single people can meet their intellectual match, and what it's like to be married and sexually aroused by their husbands' intellect.
Time Stamps:
00:11:45-What comes to mind when you hear: Mind fuck me.
00:14:14-I've always been a personality person.
00:20:00-Culturally exposed men
00:24:14-If your partner is less culturally exposed; show them.
00:29:45-Become comfortable with self, first.
00:37:53-I prefer a man that's intelligent and swaggy.
00:45:29-Sapiosexuals in marriage.
00:48:47- Being equally yoked through intelligence and curiosity.
00:51:49-Lay down your ego and pick up femininity.
00:55:25-How heterosexual men/women present themselves to the world matters.
01:00:03-Sapiosexual weaponry and triggers.
01:11:03-I'm just a lil selfish, gotta check myself.
01:14:57-Nerdy dudes been in.
______________________________________________________________________________________________
Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
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Toxic parents and emotionally unavailable men BWH-Two Cents
In this episode of BWH-Two Cents,
The ladies read and respond to TWO letters from listener-family whose identity we'll keep anonymous. In the first letter, a niece has a strenuous relationship with her dad and asks the question, how do you know when to cut off your parent or a loved one? What do I do? Do I wait for change and keep going through this toxic cycle? Or do I do what's best for me?
The second letter is about a woman who recently dated an emotionally unavailable man for a year. She states: he flipped everything on me. I just thought I could be the woman he wanted to change for...
Tune in as we unpack and Stay Busy Healing
*The ladies of BWH are not licensed, mental health therapists or counselors.*
Time Stamps:
00:01:38-The toxic father
00:25:00-The narcissistic lover
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Ways to support the show:
-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
Next Episode
Spiritually stuck and sh*t: pushing past spiritual stagnation
Are you in a place spiritually where everything is okay on the surface level but, you're having difficulty tuning in spiritually? Yeah, us too! In this episode, the ladies discuss how it feels to not feel connected to God/Source/Universe for a short period or sometimes a long timeframe. What it's like when you feel like you can't tap into your spiritual gifts and you aren't receiving any messages from the other side. How they have and are currently getting through this period, imparting spiritual practices within their children, using the Universe's gift of nature, animals, and plants to get grounded again, and what they believe is happening during this period of silence or disconnection.
They also advise you, family, not to worry about your spouse's/partners spiritual journey/walk, lead by example, it's the greatest teacher.
Time Stamps:
00:02:55-Welcome Family to the show!
00:05:51-I just need a work Lord, please.
00:07:57-Fine-tuning your spiritual shit.
00:09:27-When the numerical synchronicities be synching.
00:11:28-Animals feeling it.
00:13:55-Working in a peopley environment & the need to get grounded.
00:15:33-Spirit is trying to ground you through nature/plants.
00:18:40-Spiritual practices that keep me grounded as a mom & wife.
00:30:05-I can show my spouse better than I can tell them.
00:32:07-Everyone won't see the vision & connecting with those who. vibrate on the same frequency.
00:40:21-What people say about you, isn't your business & social media is filtered.
00:42:00-Research the roots of your spiritual practices and religion.
00:44:36-Not cutting them soul ties fuck with your spiritual shit too.
00:47:38-Don't beat yourself up, shame & guilt in religious organizations, stay grounded.
00:50:05-We don't have to be perfect at it, for it to be effective.
00:54:40-Spiritual perfectionism that social media portrays and the societal matrix.
00:58:27-Technology is not natural & clearing spiritual stagnation.
01:11:05-Do what works for you without comparison.
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-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!
Important Shit:
-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.
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