Should we fall or walk into love?

04/28/21 • 85 min

Have you went through a bad breakup or divorce and thought to yourself, if only I had taken more time to feel out the compatibility and pay attention to the red flags? If so, then today's episode about falling or walking into love is sure to resonate with you.

The ladies of BWH discuss how healing from past relationships can help you find love again by tuning-in to a vibrational frequency that attracts an equally healed partner.

Time Stamps:

*00:03:42-For the Spiritual Shit of the day, Seleta pulls from the Urban Tarot Deck, and the card "abundance" is pulled. Abundance speaks to us about the joy of having people around you that truly care and celebrate you. It also reminds us to manifest the desires of our hearts and take some time to refill our cup.

*00:16:02-Falling, walking, or two-steppin into love and what true healing looks like.

*00:34:04-Triggers and getting intimate with oneself through the sacral chakra.

*00:45:08-When you know the chemistry is right, corny guys vs. clown-balls.

*00:48:35-Trusting your own judgment outside of societal norms, turn-up culture, and the men 35 yrs+ who have adapted that mentality.

*00:59:54- Setting boundaries with family and friends when you're in a relationship and why the feminist movement is detrimental to relationships and marriage.

*01:04:20- The relationship is the gift, not what's between your legs.

*01:17:56- In closing: heal and don't waste their time, learn to be teachable, make a list of your top 5 attributes/must-haves in a partner.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions, topic ideas, or anonymously with letters about your own life experiences and we'll read it on the show.

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The ladies of BWH discuss how healing from past relationships can help you find love again by tuning-in to a vibrational frequency that attracts an equally healed partner.

Time Stamps:

*00:16:02-Falling, walking, or two-steppin into love and what true healing looks like.

*00:34:04-Triggers and getting intimate with oneself through the sacral chakra.

*00:45:08-When you know the chemistry is right, corny guys vs. clown-balls.

*00:48:35-Trusting your own judgment outside of societal norms, turn-up culture, and the men 35 yrs+ who have adapted that mentality.

*00:59:54- Setting boundaries with family and friends when you're in a relationship and why the feminist movement is detrimental to relationships and marriage.

*01:04:20- The relationship is the gift, not what's between your legs.

*01:17:56- In closing: heal and don't waste their time, learn to be teachable, make a list of your top 5 attributes/must-haves in a partner.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions, topic ideas, or anonymously with letters about your own life experiences and we'll read it on the show.

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-We’re on YouTube as well @blackwomenhealshow

We would appreciate it if you would give this podcast a five-star rating and leave a review on Apple iTunes.

If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe/follow(it's free) and we'd appreciate you telling a friend, maybe two;)

and we'd appreciate you telling a friend, maybe two!

Previous Episode

Are modern women too masculine?

Has the feminist movement destroyed the feminine power of the modern-day woman, do women operate with too much masculine energy, can women learn to be submissive to attract their ideal life-partner?

The ladies take a deep-dive into examining how cultural, moral, and societal beliefs play a major role in how women operate in their feminine energy. Can today's educated, successful, and independent woman learn to be vulnerable to attract her ideal mate?

Learning to be grounded and self-aware is a lifetime journey that takes time and unlearning. The ladies all agree that they do not have an issue with being submissive and feeling safe with a man who knows how to lead.

Time Stamps:

*00:03:55-For the Spiritual Shit of the day, Seleta pulls from the Urban Tarot Deck, and the card is the "5 of wands" and the word "strife." The number five represents change and strife is often a sign of change coming to uproot you from complacency. Take small actionable and attainable goals to reach your full potential.

*00:16:29-Personal experiences of balance between feminine and masculine energy as an A-type woman in workplaces and personal life.

*00:44:29-Society's superficial beliefs about what's feminine.

*00:47:45-Learning to switch between feminine and masculine for personal and work life.

*00:57:04-Is being vulnerable worth it, are we scared of rejection, and F*ck societal norms.

*01:10:18- Be vulnerable without expectations.

Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] with your questions, topic ideas, or anonymously with letters about your own life experiences and we'll read it on the show.

-Follow on IG and tag us to let us know if you enjoyed today's episode!

-We’re on YouTube as well @blackwomenhealshow

We would appreciate it if you would give this podcast a five-star rating and leave a review on Apple iTunes.

If you enjoyed this episode, don't forget to subscribe/follow(it's free) and we'd appreciate you telling a friend, maybe two;)

Next Episode

Healing from low self-esteem

Have you ever found yourself in the thick of low self-esteem due to trauma, societal expectations, or moral beliefs?

The ladies delve deep into the topic of overcoming low self-esteem, their experiences, how they overcame it, and the tools they are currently using to attain further healing.

Time Stamps:

*00:01:33-Spiritual Shit Moonology deck and affirmation card for the week

*00:08:00-More spiritual shit

*00:13:29-Not so big di*k energy of the week.

*00:19:41-Low self-esteem and body image.

*00:36:24-Self confidence despite.

*00:42:01-Feeling unworthy.

*00:48:00-Childhood struggles with body image.

*00:50:20-Recognizing negative self-talk.

*01:00:00-Getting help

Ways to support the show:

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Important Shit:

-Write to us at [email protected] for "Healer of the Week" and share what you're healing from or have healed. It will be read on the show so that we can celebrate with you! You can also send a letter for "BWH Two-Cents” to get the ladies' two-cents and advice about the tea in your life. You'll always stay anonymous.

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