Returning to You™: A Conversation on Betrayal Trauma with Stacey Sadler, Cheryl Rogers, Kathy Reynolds, and Dr. Jake Porter
05/04/23 • 53 min
Over the last two decades, the way mental health professionals understand and treat the experience of betrayal has radically shifted from an emphasis on co-addiction and codependency to an embrace of the traumatic nature of intimate betrayal. In this conversation with Stacey Sadler, Cheryl Rogers, and Kathy Reynolds, they reflect both personally and professionally on this evolution and discuss how neglecting the treatment of betrayal trauma has consequences not only for the betrayed partner, but also the entire family system. Modalities for treating this trauma are discusses, as well as a paradigm for seeing betrayal trauma treatment as a matter of justice. Stacey, Cheryl, and Kathy are teaming up to provide a brand new program for betrayed partnered, Returning to YouTM. They give a preview of this unique therapeutic retreat designed from the ground up for betrayed partners to address their trauma.
If you are interested in the Returning to YouTM Partner Program, use the link below. Mention that you heard about the program on APSATS Betrayal Recovery Radio to receive a 5% discount on the cost of the retreat.
Over the last two decades, the way mental health professionals understand and treat the experience of betrayal has radically shifted from an emphasis on co-addiction and codependency to an embrace of the traumatic nature of intimate betrayal. In this conversation with Stacey Sadler, Cheryl Rogers, and Kathy Reynolds, they reflect both personally and professionally on this evolution and discuss how neglecting the treatment of betrayal trauma has consequences not only for the betrayed partner, but also the entire family system. Modalities for treating this trauma are discusses, as well as a paradigm for seeing betrayal trauma treatment as a matter of justice. Stacey, Cheryl, and Kathy are teaming up to provide a brand new program for betrayed partnered, Returning to YouTM. They give a preview of this unique therapeutic retreat designed from the ground up for betrayed partners to address their trauma.
If you are interested in the Returning to YouTM Partner Program, use the link below. Mention that you heard about the program on APSATS Betrayal Recovery Radio to receive a 5% discount on the cost of the retreat.
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Grief and Mourning as a Collective Experience, with Cat Etherington and Dr. Jake Porter
Grief: The sticky middle piece of the betrayal recovery experience and the place many partners and couples get stuck. It seems that many in Western culture have lost the intuitive communal mourning processes that are still so common in other cultures. We have individualized and privatized our grief and mourning into a strictly personal affair. But there is so much value in the shared and collective experience of mourning, the knowing and being known of letting it be seen. Join Cat and Jake as they explore the value of communal mourning and discuss ways to share the grief experience between couples and communities.
Links in this episode:
https://www.nakedtruth.training/wholehearted-retreat-Texas
https://www.nakedtruth.training/wholehearted-grief-retreat-Australia
https://www.nakedtruth.training/couples-retreat-texas
http://www.nakedtruthproject.com
Discount codes for retreats:
$100 USD off US grief retreat using code - RET100USD
$100 AUD off Australian grief retreat using code - RET100AUD
$200 USD off couples retreat using code - RETREAT200USD
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Taking on the Hard Questions, with Lyschel Burkett, Bonnie Burns, Pam Blizzard, and Dr. Jake Porter
"What if my husband won't see a therapist?"
"When should we start having sex again?"
"Why is he sober but still not connecting?"
In this episode, Dr. Jake interviews the hostesses of the Hope for Wives podcast — Lyschel Burkett, Bonnie Burns, and Pam Blizzard. The three women are able to balance a plain-spoken, no-nonsense telling of the truth with compassion, support, and wisdom. Drawing from both their personal experience and professional expertise, Lyschel, Bonnie, and Pam take on hard questions Dr. Jake has received from betrayed partners of sex addict. You won't want to miss this informative and hope-giving episode!
Links in this episode:
http://apsats.org
http://drjakeporter.com
https://hopeforwives.com/
http://hoperedefined.org
http://strongwives.com
http://recoveredpeace.com
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