#51 - Jimmy Wild
07/10/23 • 36 min
Today, I share a profound conversation with the incredible Jimmy Wild. He tells us his poignant story of love, loss, and a journey of resilience that is sure to leave an indelible mark on your heart. We journey through the joys of Jimmy's relationship, the unique challenges he faced as an unmarried partner, and the morning that turned his world upside down.
Let's face it; life is full of unpredictable turns, and sometimes the path we get thrust on can be a lonely one. Jimmy and I dive headfirst into the harsh realities of his world post-Tom. We unpack the gut-wrenching decisions, the tidal waves of grief, and the strength it takes to say goodbye, navigate loss, and redefine your identity. But grief, while merciless, can also be a powerful teacher. And Jimmy's story serves as a potent lesson in self-care, the importance of support networks, and dealing with societal stigma.
As we round up our conversation, Jimmy sheds light on his life now, how he's picked up the pieces, and is slowly but surely honoring Tom's legacy. From the financial security Tom left behind, to Jimmy's first car and home, it's a testament to their shared dreams and Tom's lasting impact. We also talk about his housemate, Eason, a beacon of support in these tumultuous times. Remember, while the journey might be tough, there's a whole world of compassion and connection waiting for you at the other end, and Jimmy's story is a shining example of that very resilience. So tune in, and let's heal together.
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Today, I share a profound conversation with the incredible Jimmy Wild. He tells us his poignant story of love, loss, and a journey of resilience that is sure to leave an indelible mark on your heart. We journey through the joys of Jimmy's relationship, the unique challenges he faced as an unmarried partner, and the morning that turned his world upside down.
Let's face it; life is full of unpredictable turns, and sometimes the path we get thrust on can be a lonely one. Jimmy and I dive headfirst into the harsh realities of his world post-Tom. We unpack the gut-wrenching decisions, the tidal waves of grief, and the strength it takes to say goodbye, navigate loss, and redefine your identity. But grief, while merciless, can also be a powerful teacher. And Jimmy's story serves as a potent lesson in self-care, the importance of support networks, and dealing with societal stigma.
As we round up our conversation, Jimmy sheds light on his life now, how he's picked up the pieces, and is slowly but surely honoring Tom's legacy. From the financial security Tom left behind, to Jimmy's first car and home, it's a testament to their shared dreams and Tom's lasting impact. We also talk about his housemate, Eason, a beacon of support in these tumultuous times. Remember, while the journey might be tough, there's a whole world of compassion and connection waiting for you at the other end, and Jimmy's story is a shining example of that very resilience. So tune in, and let's heal together.
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- Follow us on Instagram @widowedAF
- Email: theshow at widowedAF.com
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#52 - Chatty
Imagine a scenario where your partner's last words to you were "Shut the fu*k up" and it was still funny? That's the kind of story our guest Jimmy Wild brings to the table.
When Jimmy lost his soulmate, Tom, at just 30, he was plunged into a whirlpool of grief. But in his darkest hours, he found unexpected moments of joy and humour. He shares this journey with us, illuminating the importance of cherishing the present and the power of last words.
Rosie bares her soul about a recent Mental Health wobble and the experience of asking for help and finding more closed doors.
As we wrap up this episode, we reflect on the idea of recording our stories to preserve our legacies and staying resilient in the face of unpredictable endings. So, tune in as we navigate the bittersweet nuances of life, love, and loss.
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Widowed AF: Real stories of love, grief and beyond - With Rosie Gill-Moss - #51 - Jimmy Wild
Transcript
Welcome back to Widowed AF . You're here with Rosie Gilmoss and I have the spectacularly named Jimmy Wild joining me today . Hello Jimmy , How are you ?
Jimmy WildI'm okay . Thank you , Rosie . How are you ?
Rosie Gill-MossYes , I'm very well . We just had a little bit of a pre-show chat and I think Ji
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