On Purpose with Jay Shetty

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Jay Shetty’s favorite author is Malcom Gladwell. On this episode of On Purpose, the teacher and author chats with fellow book lover, Shetty, about communication, the power of humanity and what freedom looks like.

Are you looking for fresh insight into events of the past or just a calm voice of wisdom for these uncertain days? Gladwell offers both. Malcolm shares deep thoughts with Jay about what it means to be human & how to listen effectively.

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Jay Shetty sits down with Gabrielle Bernstein to talk about how past trauma affects our daily life. Within us is our protector self, that part of us that takes over when we face fear, danger, sadness, longing, and feel hurt. And our protective self can sometimes stop us from taking chances, from taking risks. It can possibly hinder our growth and healing. Let’s tap into this inner version of us and make peace with our wounded self.

Gabrielle Bernstein is the #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back, Super Attractor, and has written six additional bestsellers including her latest book, Super Attractor. Gabrielle was featured on Oprah’s SuperSoul Sunday as a “next-generation thought leader,” and The Oprah Winfrey Network chose Gabby to be part of the “SuperSoul 100,” a dynamic group of 100 trailblazers whose vision and life’s work are bringing a higher level of consciousness to the world. The New York Times identified her as “a new role model.”

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What We Discuss:

• 00:00 Intro
• 02:02 What is happiness?
• 05:27 The concept of being present
• 11:54 We’re all running from trauma of some form
• 15:43 Our greatest protector part is to dissociate
• 19:25 “For my husband, Zach...”
• 22:18 How do you help someone help you?
• 29:36 Opening up something and not getting stuck in one place
• 32:40 Our physical conditions are psychosomatic
• 36:08 Carrying around shame
• 39:10 How do you fall in love with yourself again?
• 46:27 Dealing with your protector and exile parts
• 48:48 It’s not about getting out of it overnight
• 52:45 Thinking of trauma as a mother
• 55:38 Getting through postpartum depression

Episode Resources

• Gabby Bernstein | Website
• Gabby Bernstein | YouTube
• Gabby Bernstein | Instagram
• Gabby Bernstein | Twitter
• Gabby Bernstein | Facebook
• Gabby Bernstein | LinkedIn
• Gabby Bernstein | Books
• Dear Gabby Podcast
• Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace

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You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Many of us practice the habit of making a new year’s resolution, often to change something, to achieve something, or build something. Our resolutions are pointed toward starting fresh and having a productive year ahead.

But some don’t get to fulfill this list. Some don’t get to make a significant change in their life because they often don’t develop the resolve to fulfill them. The goal is clear but the path to reach that goal is undefined and the intention to create that path isn’t set.

In this episode, Jay Shetty talks about the steps to help you start these significant changes right away and achieve results that are truly life-changing.

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Key Takeaways:

• 02:00 Setting your goals doesn’t mean you’ll get there
• 05:19 Step #1: It all starts with, “What’s your goal?”
• 09:00 Step #2: Why we need to monitor obsessively
• 13:31 Step #3: There are four steps to change
• 18:42 Step #4: Difference between efficiency and effectiveness
• 22:07 Step #5: The balance between thinking and acting
• 24:29 Step #6: Growth versus goals
• 25:43 Step #7: The 3 L’s of a phenomenal year

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At 15, Susan felt like she had so many emotions swirling around her head she could hardly speak. Now a world-renowned psychologist, Susan has not only learned to navigate her emotions--she has written the book on it.

This week, Jay Shetty speaks with Harvard Psychologist Susan David and author of Emotional Agility about how to better understand and befriend your emotions, and how this emotional agility will make you a better communicator.

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Ted Talk: https://www.susandavid.com/the-talks

You can order my new book 8 RULES OF LOVE at 8rulesoflove.com or at a retail store near you. You can also get the chance to see me live on my first ever world tour. This is a 90 minute interactive show where I will take you on a journey of finding, keeping and even letting go of love. Head to jayshettytour.com and find out if I'll be in a city near you. Thank you so much for all your support - I hope to see you soon.

Do you question if your relationship is healthy? In this ON Purpose, Jay Shetty and Lily Collins identify the difference between a healthy and a toxic relationship.

Are you happy with the relationships in your life? Don’t waste your time and energy with toxic relationships. Learn to spot the characteristics of a good relationship so you can weed out bad relationships from your life.

In this ON Purpose episode, Tune to hear Lily Collins tell Jay Shetty about her past toxic relationship. Learn how she identified the red flags after she left and turned the negative experience into a roadmap of what she wanted in a healthy relationship.

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