Widowed AF: Real stories of love, grief and beyond - With Rosie Gill-Moss

When we lost our spouses, my guest David Kanifogel and I found solace and strength in a widowhood support group. We never imagined that it would become a crucial part of our healing journey, providing a safe space for discussing topics we couldn't share elsewhere. Join us as we dive into our experiences with the Hot Young Widows Club spin-off group and the impact it had on our lives.
David's world was turned upside down when his wife, Hindi, passed away, leaving him to care for their five children. He had to learn to navigate single parenthood, manage the household, and provide emotional support to his grieving kids. We explore how he handled these challenges, as well as how our group helped him process his own emotions and tackle the societal expectations placed upon grieving fathers.
But life has a way of surprising us, even in the midst of grief. David's decision to take his children on an adventure to Israel ultimately led to a new chapter in their lives—blending families with his partner, Bacheva, and building a new life together. We discuss the joys and challenges of step-parenting, maintaining a connection to our late spouses, and the hope that exists even as we carry our grief with us. This is a conversation that will resonate with anyone who has experienced loss and is looking for support, understanding, and connection.

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Today, I share a profound conversation with the incredible Jimmy Wild. He tells us his poignant story of love, loss, and a journey of resilience that is sure to leave an indelible mark on your heart. We journey through the joys of Jimmy's relationship, the unique challenges he faced as an unmarried partner, and the morning that turned his world upside down.
Let's face it; life is full of unpredictable turns, and sometimes the path we get thrust on can be a lonely one. Jimmy and I dive headfirst into the harsh realities of his world post-Tom. We unpack the gut-wrenching decisions, the tidal waves of grief, and the strength it takes to say goodbye, navigate loss, and redefine your identity. But grief, while merciless, can also be a powerful teacher. And Jimmy's story serves as a potent lesson in self-care, the importance of support networks, and dealing with societal stigma.
As we round up our conversation, Jimmy sheds light on his life now, how he's picked up the pieces, and is slowly but surely honoring Tom's legacy. From the financial security Tom left behind, to Jimmy's first car and home, it's a testament to their shared dreams and Tom's lasting impact. We also talk about his housemate, Eason, a beacon of support in these tumultuous times. Remember, while the journey might be tough, there's a whole world of compassion and connection waiting for you at the other end, and Jimmy's story is a shining example of that very resilience. So tune in, and let's heal together.

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In this episode of Widowed AF , Rosie warmly welcomes her latest guest, Lisa Aldridge. Lisa's story, woven with threads of love, loss, and newfound happiness, unfolds like a novel you can't put down.

Our story begins with Lisa, a vibrant volunteer at St John Ambulance, where fate brings Gavin into her life. Their connection is instant and profound, leading them down the aisle and into a life filled with shared dreams and the laughter of three beautiful daughters.

But life, as it often does, turns a new page. One ordinary day, while working in his unit, Gavin suffers a tragic accident. The details are heart-wrenching as Lisa recalls the aftermath, painting a vivid picture of a world turned upside down.

As the chapters of grief and coping unfold, Lisa's narrative takes a hopeful turn. She dips her toes into the world of online dating, where Chris, her now-husband, emerges as a character brimming with understanding and love. Together, they embark on the challenging yet rewarding journey of blending two families, each with its unique past and shared future.

Rosie and Lisa delve into the delicate art of balancing memories and moving forward. They discuss how maintaining Gavin's legacy coexists with embracing the joy Chris brings into their lives.

Lisa's journey, beautifully narrated in this episode, is a tale of resilience. It's about finding love in unexpected places, the complexities of blending a new family, and the endless capacity of the heart to embrace both past and present.

As the episode draws to a close, Rosie reflects on the universal themes of love, loss, and the courage to find happiness again. Lisa's story is not just her own but a beacon of hope for anyone navigating the waters of grief and love.

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In this episode of Widowed AF, host Rosie Gill-Moss catches up with listeners She shares updates from her busy life, discussing kids finishing school, primary school proms, and the usual juggling act of parenthood.

Rosie talks about her recent chat with Dan Clark from MindJam. If your kids spend a lot of time gaming, Dan's insights on the benefits of gaming for neurodivergent and bereaved children are worth hearing. It helped put some concerns about screen time into perspective.

Rosie also updates listeners on the upcoming Widstock event. Expect a cocktail bar, posh coffee van, inflatables, and a glitter wall. Rosie will be performing on stage, so grab your tickets for a fun day out.

She also shares an update about a former guest, Sarah. After sharing her story about losing her husband to a drug overdose, Sarah reconnected with an estranged family member who heard her episode. This highlights the impact of sharing personal stories on the podcast.

Rosie introduces her new podcast, Rosie FM. This new venture allows her to dig deeper into various topics, with interesting guests like Dr. Louise Newson, a specialist in menopause. Check it out and leave a review if you enjoy it.

If you have any questions or topics you'd like her to cover, please get in touch. Keep on keeping on out there.

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Hello lovelies! Welcome back to another episode of Widowed AF, where Jon and Rosie, deep dive (terrible) into a chatty catch-up about our week. It's been a rollercoaster, as always!

This week, we brought you an incredibly special chat with Claire, a lesbian widow, who shared her story about her partner Rupa's battle with Hodgkin's Lymphoma, and the complexities of raising children in the shadow of grief.

As usual, we get real about our personal struggles with mental health, therapy (because, let's face it, we all need a bit of that!), and the whirlwind of managing a big, neurodiverse family. We also have a good natter about our hobbies, how fitness routines help our mental health (cold baths, anyone?), and some exciting news about the upcoming Widowed AF merchandise line. Plus, I share my musings on perimenopause and the wonders of hormone replacement therapy - trust me, it's a game changer!

Join us for a heartfelt, sometimes hilarious, and always honest conversation. We're all about keeping it real and providing a sense of community for anyone walking through the maze of widowhood and life's unexpected twists.

Key Topics:

Claire's Inspiring Story: Discussing lesbian widowhood, coping with a partner's illness, and facing the future bravely.

Mental Health Chats: The importance of therapy, especially for men (looking at you, Jonathan), and dealing with life's stressors.

Family Dynamics: The challenges and joys of raising neurodiverse children, and why support and understanding are everything.

Life & Hobbies: From fitness routines to hobbies that never quite stuck (like my candle making kit!), and our excitement for Widowed AF merch.

Community Love: Remembering that we're all in this together, so don't be shy to reach out or share. Whether you're a long-time listener or new to our podcast family, we hope you enjoy feeling less alone out there ♥️

Next Episode Tease: Don't miss our next episode, where we'll share Maria's unique and compelling story - it's one you won't want to miss.

Reminder: Tune in every Monday for new episodes and be part of our ever-growing Widowed AF community. We're here for the chats, the laughs, and all the support.

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