
What to Do When You Don't Feel Heard in Your Relationship
08/22/22 • 37 min
When you don't feel heard, it's hard to explain. In fact, it can seem confusing and ambigous for those who are trying to understand and make sense of this problem. The truth is, this is one of the most common problems when it comes to communication in relationships. But what does it really mean to "not feel heard". In this episode, Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by relationship therapist Eboni Harris as they explore the subject of communication and how to hear your spouse in a way that is meaningful.
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About Guest Eboni Harris
Eboni Harris is a licensed relationship therapist, keynote speaker, podcaster, and educator. She has been helping couples and individuals explore and heal their relationship patterns, childhood trauma, and unhealthy habits. Eboni helps her clients/audience understand and love the parts of them that create undesirable outcomes so they can transform those parts into extensions of who they know they are to their core.
For over 10 years brands like Essence, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, and Self Magazine have considered Eboni an expert in relationships and sex. Although this is true, Eboni has found that she is truly an expert on love. Whether the topic self-love, romantic love, platonic love, or loving your life, Eboni is able to speak to how love is able to transform/motivate individuals to live the life they desire and create the relationships they deserve.
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When you don't feel heard, it's hard to explain. In fact, it can seem confusing and ambigous for those who are trying to understand and make sense of this problem. The truth is, this is one of the most common problems when it comes to communication in relationships. But what does it really mean to "not feel heard". In this episode, Dr. Nic Hardy is joined by relationship therapist Eboni Harris as they explore the subject of communication and how to hear your spouse in a way that is meaningful.
Untherapeutic the Podcast
Don't forget to subscribe on your favorite streaming platform and like this podcast if you find it valuable. Also, feel free to send any questions or comments to Dr. Nic Hardy or follow online at @nichardy_ or at Untherapeutic.com
About Guest Eboni Harris
Eboni Harris is a licensed relationship therapist, keynote speaker, podcaster, and educator. She has been helping couples and individuals explore and heal their relationship patterns, childhood trauma, and unhealthy habits. Eboni helps her clients/audience understand and love the parts of them that create undesirable outcomes so they can transform those parts into extensions of who they know they are to their core.
For over 10 years brands like Essence, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, and Self Magazine have considered Eboni an expert in relationships and sex. Although this is true, Eboni has found that she is truly an expert on love. Whether the topic self-love, romantic love, platonic love, or loving your life, Eboni is able to speak to how love is able to transform/motivate individuals to live the life they desire and create the relationships they deserve.
Social Media
http://www.facebook.com/eboniharrisma
http://www.twitter.com/eboniharrisma
http://www.instagram.com/eboniharrisma
http://www.youtube.com/user/EboniHarrisMA
Melanin & Mental Health
http://www.melaninandmentalhealth.com
http://www.facebook.com/melaninandmentalhealth
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