Unapologetically Sensitive

Welcoming Your Own Humanness with Self-Compassion

Guest host Jen Perry shares her gremlins about recording for me this week and being unapologetic about it. She talks about valuing self-compassion over self-esteem. Jen talks about how to slow the process down and create peace in the moment to help you soften. She talks about why curiosity and kindness support self-compassion. Jen talks about the perils of perfectionism as well as conflict. Jen quotes Kristin Neff by asking if you can “soften, soothe and allow.” Jen also talks about parenting.

GUEST HOST

Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC

GUEST BIO

Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.

PODCAST HOST

Patricia is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Coach. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other HSPs know that they aren’t alone, and that being an HSP has amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors us

LINKS

Jen’s links

Kristin Neff--https://self-compassion.org/

Kristin Neff—self-compassion exercises: https://self-compassion.org/category/exercises/#exercises

Mindset by Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D

[email protected]

Phone: 215-292-5056

Website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/

Facebook.com/Heartfulnessconsulting

Patricia’s links

HSP Online Course--https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/hsp-online-groups/

Unapologetically Sensitive Merchandise-- https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/merchandise/

Online HSP Course Materials (no group included) https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/hsp-classes/

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Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Softening, Surrendering, Accepting & Allowing

This episode focuses on being with whatever is going on to ease suffering when you want things to be different than they are. How can you accept things when it sucks? Jen and I talk about how we practice softening when things are hard. Jen talks about how she drops into her body to get information. How can you use noticing to ease tension and control? Jen also talks about how she has power with her children vs. power over her children.

GUEST

Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC

GUEST BIO

Jen Perry, MSEd, MA, LPC has been a psychotherapist for 20 years. She specializes in helping Highly Sensitive People thrive in love, work, and parenting Highly Sensitive Children. Jen is passionate about using mindfulness and compassion-based approaches to ameliorate human suffering.

PODCAST HOST

Patricia is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Coach. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other HSPs know that they aren’t alone, and that being an HSP has amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors us

LINKS

Jen’s links

[email protected]

Phone: 215-292-5056

Website: https://heartfulnessconsulting.com/

Facebook.com/Heartfulnessconsulting

Patricia’s Links

Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller

HSP Online Course--https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/hsp-online-groups/

Unapologetically Sensitive Merchandise-- https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/merchandise/

Online HSP Course Materials (no group included) https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/hsp-classes/

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Podcast editing by The Podcast Distillery Co https://thepodcastdistillery.co

Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

We (HSPs) are Not Too Much, with Susan Kraker - Best of the Podcast

Susan is a therapist who specializes in relationships, and she works with the Highly Sensitive Person. She decided to take the Online HSP Course because she didn’t have many friends who were also Highly Sensitive. We had a rupture during one of the groups, and we talk about this. Susan has some astute observations. We both talk about some common wounds we both have, and the conversation goes deep and is very vulnerable.

GUEST

Susan Kraker

GUEST BIO

Susan Kraker is a therapist who specializes in relationships, mid-life dating and HSP courtship.

Education: New York University (NYU), Gallaudet University and the Doctoral Program in Counseling Psychology at University of Southern California (USC). Susan is originally from NY but currently resides with her husband, Pi, and two munchkin cats in Los Angeles.

PODCAST HOST

Patricia is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Coach. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other HSPs know that they aren’t alone, and that being an HSP has amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors us

LINKS

HSP Online Course--https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/hsp-online-groups/

Unapologetically Sensitive Merchandise-- https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/merchandise/

Online HSP Course Materials (no group included) https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/hsp-classes/

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Podcast editing by The Podcast Distillery Co https://thepodcastdistillery.co

Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Dr. Lindsay Gibson, author of Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, and Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents talks about self-care in regards to self-confidence, security, self-connection, self-awareness and emotional self-protection. She talks about how being an adult child impacts a person’s choices and behaviors in relationships. She also talks about how sensitivity can affect a person’s functioning in these areas.

GUEST

Lindsay Gibson, PsyD.

HIGHLIGHTS

Here are some of the questions Dr. Gibson responds to:

Tell us about your most recent book Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents . Why did you write this book?

The book has three main sections: what are they, and what can readers expect to get from each topic? Why might adult children of emotionally immature parents (ACEIPs )find these topics especially meaningful?

How do you see sensitivity as a trait possibly affecting a person's functioning in these areas?

Do you see a connection between sensitivity and an ACEIPs feelings of security and self-confidence?

You've mentioned that ACEIPs have been taught not to trust themselves or their self-awareness. Could you talk about this a bit more?

In the book you've talked about the importance of emotional self-protection. Can you explain what that means exactly?

You talk about the crucial importance of a person's inner self-connection. Why do you make that idea such a central focus?

How do these issues affect a person's choices and behaviors in relationship?

GUEST BIO

Lindsay Gibson, PsyD. has been a licensed clinical psychologist for over thirty years and specializes in individual adult psychotherapy with adult children of emotionally immature parents. She is the author of four books. Her book Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents remains a #1 Amazon Best Seller. The follow up to this book is Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents, and the 2nd edition of her first book Who You Were Meant To Be has been recently released on Amazon. Her latest book, Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, was just released in September 2021. In the past Dr. Gibson has served as an adjunct assistant professor teaching doctoral psychology students, and she writes a monthly Well-Being column for Tidewater Women magazine in Virginia Beach, VA.

PODCAST HOST

Patricia Young hosts the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive, and works with Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) helping them to understand their HSP traits, and turning their perceived shortcomings into superpowers. Patricia is passionate about providing education to help HSPs and non-HSPs understand and truly appreciate the amazing gifts they have to offer. Patricia works globally online with HSPs providing coaching. Patricia also facilitates online groups for HSPs that focus on building community and developing skills (identifying your superpowers, boundaries, perfectionism, dealing with conflict, mindfulness, embracing emotions, creating a lifestyle that supports the HSP, communication and more).

LINKS

Dr. Gibson’s links:

Website— http://www.drlindsaygibson.com/

Patricia’s links:

Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com

Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/

Facebook group Unapologetically Sensitive-- https://www.facebook.com/groups/2099705880047619/

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e-mail-- [email protected]

Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive

Podcast editing by The Podcast Distillery Co https://thepodcastdistillery.co

Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com

Practicing Self Trust as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)

GUEST

Solo episode

EPISODE OVERVIEW

Learning to listen to yourself as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) can be challenging. When do you push and when do you rest? Your perception of yourself may be different than how others see you. I talk about feeling stuck, needing support, asking for help, and having someone remind me that I do better than I think I do when my husband goes out of town. It’s ok to have human responses to things. I talk about learning to thrive as a Highly Sensitive Person.

PODCAST HOST

Patricia is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and Coach. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other HSPs know that they aren’t alone, and that being an HSP has amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for HSPs that focus on understanding what it means to be an HSP, self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors us

LINKS

HSP Online Course--https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/hsp-online-groups/

Unapologetically Sensitive Merchandise-- https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/merchandise/

Online HSP Course Materials (no group included) https://patriciayounglcsw.com/product-category/hsp-classes/

Receive the top 10 most downloaded episodes of the podcast-- https://www.subscribepage.com/e6z6e6

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6. click “write a review”

Website--www.unapologeticallysensitive.com

Facebook-- https://www.facebook.com/Unapologetically-Sensitive-2296688923985657/

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Instagram-- https://www.instagram.com/unapologeticallysensitive/

Youtube-- https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOE6fodj7RBdO3Iw0NrAllg/videos?view_as=subscriber

Tik Tok-- https://www.tiktok.com/@hsppodcast

e-mail-- [email protected]

Show hashtag--#unapologeticallysensitive

Editing by The Podcast Distillery Co.

Music-- Gravel Dance by Andy Robinson www.andyrobinson.com