What if he says this isn't fair?
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07/12/23 • 44 min
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In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss a listener-submitted question: She wonders if, after being the default partner for 20 years, her husband is justified in complaining that their proposed housework split isn't 50/50? What do you think?
Resources/Sources Mentioned in this episode:
Laura's Free Home Cleaning Checklist
Gottman Institute (Couples Tips!)
Time To Lean's Bookship.org List (Find Emotional Labor and Set Boundaries Find Peace here!)
Emotion Sensation Wheel Pillow
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
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In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss a listener-submitted question: She wonders if, after being the default partner for 20 years, her husband is justified in complaining that their proposed housework split isn't 50/50? What do you think?
Resources/Sources Mentioned in this episode:
Laura's Free Home Cleaning Checklist
Gottman Institute (Couples Tips!)
Time To Lean's Bookship.org List (Find Emotional Labor and Set Boundaries Find Peace here!)
Emotion Sensation Wheel Pillow
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Resources/Sources Mentioned in this episode:
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Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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