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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only

Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only

Laura Danger & Crystal Britt

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conversations on care work, culture and equity.
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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - What if he says this isn't fair?

What if he says this isn't fair?

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07/12/23 • 44 min

In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss a listener-submitted question: She wonders if, after being the default partner for 20 years, her husband is justified in complaining that their proposed housework split isn't 50/50? What do you think?

Resources/Sources Mentioned in this episode:

Laura's Free Home Cleaning Checklist

Gottman Institute (Couples Tips!)

Time To Lean's Bookship.org List (Find Emotional Labor and Set Boundaries Find Peace here!)

Emotion Sensation Wheel Pillow

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠

Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)

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Ash Brandin, @thegamereducator, joins Laura and Crystal to talk about the nuances surrounding screens. A video recently went viral on Tiktok where a creator made some serious claims about the harms of screens. Ash chats with us about how you can set boundaries around screens, how screens can be tools and who's really to blame for the significant role they play in our lives. Ash creates amazing content on their IG page. Go check their website out here!

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠

⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠

Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠book here⁠ or check out this ⁠youtube ⁠video!

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)

--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Get bonus content on Patreon

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - Is it funny to joke about domestic violence?

Is it funny to joke about domestic violence?

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12/07/23 • 33 min

**TW: Domestic violence and sexual assault

In this week's episode, Crystal and Laura talk about Matt Rife's now-famous domestic violence joke from his Netflix special and provide an example of an how a comedian can make a joke about something challenging and do it well. We also discuss the phenomenon of the missing stair!

STICK AROUND UNTIL THE END TO HEAR THE MISSING STAIR!

You can see Matt Rife's joke here!

You can see Daniel Sloss's joke here!

You can watch Daniel Sloss's comedy here!

You can listen to "The Missing Stair" by Phoebe Hunt, Melody Walker and Bonnie Sims here!

Check out RAINN for resources for victims of DV and sexual assault.

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - Are you hiding out in the bathroom right now?

Are you hiding out in the bathroom right now?

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10/11/23 • 32 min

Laura and Crystal talk about hiding out in the bathroom! They do a bit of over-sharing but in the name of discussing the old trope that dads are always hiding out in the bathroom. They also talk about the value of equal autonomous time and the benefits of identity outside of your roles.

"While Daddy Was Pooping" book

Research from Pebble Grey

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠video!

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. ̮̈

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - Can I Use Fair Play With My Kids?

Can I Use Fair Play With My Kids?

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06/07/23 • 34 min

A listener asks if she's being unreasonable, and a DM we were sent by a single mom asks if/how she can use Fair Play with her kids!

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠Grab a Fair Play Deck⁠⁠

Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - how can we build a village in a nuclear-family-obsessed culture?
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10/09/24 • 58 min

In this episode, we interview Jessica Daylover, polyamorous storyteller, educator, mother of two and so much more - including Chief Executive Officer of the Nuclear Fusion App! Jessica shares her journey through motherhood, the challenges of raising a medically complex child, and her vision for community building through the Nuclear Fusion network. The conversation explores the importance of chosen families, the struggles of modern parenting, and the need for vulnerability and emotional intelligence in building connections. It's time to rethink traditional family structures and the value of community support in raising children.


Join us as we discuss the question that's constantly on our minds - how do we connect with people and build the community connections we so desperately want?


Check out the Nuclear Fusion App here!


For AD FREE episodes, resources and SO MUCH MORE; Join our Patreon!⁠⁠⁠⁠


Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Time to Lean on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)


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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - what if he's gone half the time?

what if he's gone half the time?

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04/24/24 • 49 min

In this conversation, Laura and Crystal discuss the importance of communication and collaboration in a relationship where one partner has a demanding job. They emphasize the need for shared lists, being informed and curious about each other's lives, and offering support and validation. They also highlight the importance of renegotiating roles and responsibilities as circumstances change, and the need for ongoing conversations and self-reflection. The conversation concludes with a discussion of the value of practical considerations and seeking advice from others in similar situations.

⁠⁠Join our Patreon!⁠⁠

Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Time to Lean on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Please note: This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes. We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy.

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - what if they're trying but i need MORE?

what if they're trying but i need MORE?

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02/05/25 • 74 min

Ever wonder if your standard for your partner is too high? Too low? Just right? In this episode, Laura and Crystal explore relationship dynamics when special circumstances like chronic illness and mental health are involved. How can a partnership like this be equitable in the domestic labor arena? Can it? Listen and tell us what you think!


Get the "Check Yourself: Guide to Understanding & Supporting Your Own Behavior" resource here!


Join our Patreon!⁠⁠⁠⁠

Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Time to Lean on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - am i the a-hole for not helping when my partner says they're overwhelmed?
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11/20/24 • 51 min

This week's episode has us grappled with some conflicted feelings. We discuss an AITA where someone asks if they're being a jerk by not helping their partner who says they're overwhelmed by the holiday tasks - the same tasks the original poster handled on their own for years. Scratch your head and spiral out along with us.


You can find the resources we mention here: On our Patreon!


For AD FREE episodes, resources and SO MUCH MORE; Join our Patreon!⁠⁠⁠⁠


Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod

Follow Time to Lean on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only - is it time to focus on men's health?

is it time to focus on men's health?

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02/26/25 • 66 min

Laura and Crystal discuss an NPR article that caused quite a stir this week by focusing on men's health while women's rights and freedoms continue to be a target of the current presidential administration. Is it fair? Let's get into it!


Mentioned in this Episode:

New Economy Coalition

Man Box Study

NPR: Men Die Younger Than Women

Miss Diagnosis: A Systemic Review of ADHD in Women


Want to discuss this week's episode with us? Join our Patreon!⁠⁠⁠⁠

Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod


Follow Time to Lean on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@timetoleanpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)

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Time to Lean - AD FREE Subs Only currently has 110 episodes available.

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