Time to Lean
Laura Danger and Crystal Britt
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On the Time to Lean podcast with Laura Danger and Crystal Britt, we dig into the often-overlooked realities of domestic labor, care work, and household inequity. Through sharp cultural critiques and discussions on trending topics, we explore the systemic issues that shape our homes and lives. In each weekly episode, we tackle the topics that impact our lives, challenge the status quo, and uncover the hidden dynamics that influence how we live and work. Join us as we make time to lean into these crucial conversations and advocate for the value of the work that truly keeps the world turning.
Laura, @thatdarnchat, is an educator and advocate. Crystal Britt, @itscrystalbritt, is a coach and licensed therapist in California. Find us on IG or join us on Patreon @ timetoleanpod for Ad-Free episodes, resources, book clubs, weekly virtual meet-ups and so much more!
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What if he says this isn't fair?
Time to Lean
07/12/23 • 44 min
In this episode, Crystal and Laura discuss a listener-submitted question: She wonders if, after being the default partner for 20 years, her husband is justified in complaining that their proposed housework split isn't 50/50? What do you think?
Resources/Sources Mentioned in this episode:
Laura's Free Home Cleaning Checklist
Gottman Institute (Couples Tips!)
Time To Lean's Bookship.org List (Find Emotional Labor and Set Boundaries Find Peace here!)
Emotion Sensation Wheel Pillow
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
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06/14/23 • 50 min
Ash Brandin, @thegamereducator, joins Laura and Crystal to talk about the nuances surrounding screens. A video recently went viral on Tiktok where a creator made some serious claims about the harms of screens. Ash chats with us about how you can set boundaries around screens, how screens can be tools and who's really to blame for the significant role they play in our lives. Ash creates amazing content on their IG page. Go check their website out here!
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Is it funny to joke about domestic violence?
Time to Lean
12/07/23 • 33 min
**TW: Domestic violence and sexual assault
In this week's episode, Crystal and Laura talk about Matt Rife's now-famous domestic violence joke from his Netflix special and provide an example of an how a comedian can make a joke about something challenging and do it well. We also discuss the phenomenon of the missing stair!
STICK AROUND UNTIL THE END TO HEAR THE MISSING STAIR!
You can see Matt Rife's joke here!
You can see Daniel Sloss's joke here!
You can watch Daniel Sloss's comedy here!
You can listen to "The Missing Stair" by Phoebe Hunt, Melody Walker and Bonnie Sims here!
Check out RAINN for resources for victims of DV and sexual assault.
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Are you hiding out in the bathroom right now?
Time to Lean
10/11/23 • 32 min
Laura and Crystal talk about hiding out in the bathroom! They do a bit of over-sharing but in the name of discussing the old trope that dads are always hiding out in the bathroom. They also talk about the value of equal autonomous time and the benefits of identity outside of your roles.
"While Daddy Was Pooping" book
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. ̮̈
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Can I Use Fair Play With My Kids?
Time to Lean
06/07/23 • 34 min
A listener asks if she's being unreasonable, and a DM we were sent by a single mom asks if/how she can use Fair Play with her kids!
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the book here or check out this youtube video!
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message10/09/24 • 58 min
In this episode, we interview Jessica Daylover, polyamorous storyteller, educator, mother of two and so much more - including Chief Executive Officer of the Nuclear Fusion App! Jessica shares her journey through motherhood, the challenges of raising a medically complex child, and her vision for community building through the Nuclear Fusion network. The conversation explores the importance of chosen families, the struggles of modern parenting, and the need for vulnerability and emotional intelligence in building connections. It's time to rethink traditional family structures and the value of community support in raising children.
Join us as we discuss the question that's constantly on our minds - how do we connect with people and build the community connections we so desperately want?
Check out the Nuclear Fusion App here!
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Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
Get bonus content on Patreon
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
what if he's gone half the time?
Time to Lean
04/24/24 • 49 min
In this conversation, Laura and Crystal discuss the importance of communication and collaboration in a relationship where one partner has a demanding job. They emphasize the need for shared lists, being informed and curious about each other's lives, and offering support and validation. They also highlight the importance of renegotiating roles and responsibilities as circumstances change, and the need for ongoing conversations and self-reflection. The conversation concludes with a discussion of the value of practical considerations and seeking advice from others in similar situations.
Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura here!
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: This podcast is for entertainment and educational purposes. We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy.
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/messagewhat if they're trying but i need MORE?
Time to Lean
02/05/25 • 74 min
Ever wonder if your standard for your partner is too high? Too low? Just right? In this episode, Laura and Crystal explore relationship dynamics when special circumstances like chronic illness and mental health are involved. How can a partnership like this be equitable in the domestic labor arena? Can it? Listen and tell us what you think!
Get the "Check Yourself: Guide to Understanding & Supporting Your Own Behavior" resource here!
Download resources and read more from Crystal and Laura here!
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
11/20/24 • 51 min
This week's episode has us grappled with some conflicted feelings. We discuss an AITA where someone asks if they're being a jerk by not helping their partner who says they're overwhelmed by the holiday tasks - the same tasks the original poster handled on their own for years. Scratch your head and spiral out along with us.
You can find the resources we mention here: On our Patreon!
For AD FREE episodes, resources and SO MUCH MORE; Join our Patreon!
Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
is it time to focus on men's health?
Time to Lean
02/26/25 • 66 min
Laura and Crystal discuss an NPR article that caused quite a stir this week by focusing on men's health while women's rights and freedoms continue to be a target of the current presidential administration. Is it fair? Let's get into it!
Mentioned in this Episode:
NPR: Men Die Younger Than Women
Miss Diagnosis: A Systemic Review of ADHD in Women
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Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpod
Follow Time to Lean on social media @timetoleanpod
Follow Laura on social media @thatdarnchat
Follow Crystal on social media @itscrystalbritt
Domestic Violence Resources
Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)
Get bonus content on PatreonHosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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FAQ
How many episodes does Time to Lean have?
Time to Lean currently has 106 episodes available.
What topics does Time to Lean cover?
The podcast is about Society & Culture, Feminism, Podcasts, Self-Improvement, Education, Relationships, Parenthood and Couples.
What is the most popular episode on Time to Lean?
The episode title 'Someone on the internet said screens are BAD. Is that true? with The Gamer Educator!' is the most popular.
What is the average episode length on Time to Lean?
The average episode length on Time to Lean is 45 minutes.
How often are episodes of Time to Lean released?
Episodes of Time to Lean are typically released every 7 days.
When was the first episode of Time to Lean?
The first episode of Time to Lean was released on Feb 15, 2023.
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