True Masculine Power: Max Trombly on Vision, Purpose and Freedom
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08/01/24 • 99 min
"I want to land on this here, because people need to stop going 'I'm looking for a conscious man,' and they have to start going 'What is a real man, a good man, feel like? What is a real man of integrity, vitality and determination feel like?' And why are we not aware of that?" - Max Trombly
This episode brings so much clarity to what's often missing in conversations about masculinity today. Max doesn't hold back - he challenges the vague "conscious man" concept and gets specific about what makes a good man: integrity, clear vision, and the capacity to lead with both strength and heart. Whether you're wondering where all the good men are, or seeking to step more fully into your own masculine power, this conversation offers both the straight talk and the depth necessary for real transformation. I especially appreciated Max's insights on finding true freedom through commitment rather than endless options - such a powerful reframe for our times!
CHAPTERS:
0:00 What Is Toxic Masculinity?
3:33 Healthy Leadership vs. Control
7:23 The Missing Elders & Initiations
17:12 Values, Vision & Purpose For Men
27:10 What Good Men Want in Women
35:41 Responding to Masculine Leadership
43:42 Preparing for Partnership
50:59 The Body's Wisdom in Relationships
1:06:48 Creating True Relationship Freedom
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MAX TROMBLY
Max is a dedicated Embodied Life, Love, and Relationship coach from vibrant New Orleans, Louisiana. He’s committed to guiding individuals towards a brighter, empowered future. As a devoted husband and the proud father of two, his mission is to elevate our potential and empower us to live with purpose, passion and depth.
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RESOURCES:
- Previous Episode with Max: Ep. 22 - Intimacy, Conscious Dating, & Epic Sex - https://youtu.be/XA6ILVK4N70
CONNECT
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maxtrombly/
Website: https://www.ashiftinbeing.com/
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"I want to land on this here, because people need to stop going 'I'm looking for a conscious man,' and they have to start going 'What is a real man, a good man, feel like? What is a real man of integrity, vitality and determination feel like?' And why are we not aware of that?" - Max Trombly
This episode brings so much clarity to what's often missing in conversations about masculinity today. Max doesn't hold back - he challenges the vague "conscious man" concept and gets specific about what makes a good man: integrity, clear vision, and the capacity to lead with both strength and heart. Whether you're wondering where all the good men are, or seeking to step more fully into your own masculine power, this conversation offers both the straight talk and the depth necessary for real transformation. I especially appreciated Max's insights on finding true freedom through commitment rather than endless options - such a powerful reframe for our times!
CHAPTERS:
0:00 What Is Toxic Masculinity?
3:33 Healthy Leadership vs. Control
7:23 The Missing Elders & Initiations
17:12 Values, Vision & Purpose For Men
27:10 What Good Men Want in Women
35:41 Responding to Masculine Leadership
43:42 Preparing for Partnership
50:59 The Body's Wisdom in Relationships
1:06:48 Creating True Relationship Freedom
---------
MAX TROMBLY
Max is a dedicated Embodied Life, Love, and Relationship coach from vibrant New Orleans, Louisiana. He’s committed to guiding individuals towards a brighter, empowered future. As a devoted husband and the proud father of two, his mission is to elevate our potential and empower us to live with purpose, passion and depth.
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RESOURCES:
- Previous Episode with Max: Ep. 22 - Intimacy, Conscious Dating, & Epic Sex - https://youtu.be/XA6ILVK4N70
CONNECT
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maxtrombly/
Website: https://www.ashiftinbeing.com/
Jen's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.e.briggs/
TWS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thewholeshebangpodcast/
Listen to all episodes on Audio:
Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7LjpybGVa1aDdiaevRxgRq?si=6e688a5e423e434d
Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-whole-shebang/id1706085720
Support the show with your donation: https://www.support/thewholeshebangpodcast
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The Whole Shebang - True Masculine Power: Max Trombly on Vision, Purpose and Freedom
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I want to land on this here , because people need to stop going . I'm looking for a conscious man , and then they have to start going . What is a real man , a good man , feel like . What is a real man of integrity , vitality and determination feel like ? And why , why , why , why are we not aware of that ? Why is it this other thing ?
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