225. A Conversation About When You're "Confused" About How "He Feels"

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11/02/23 • 23 min

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If you’re hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you’re “talking to” wants to be in a relationship with you...

He doesn’t.

I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren’t actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn’t interested in having a relationship...you just don’t like that answer.

Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn’t dither in the background waiting its turn.

When a man desires you, you’ll know. So let’s talk about what it actually means when you’re “confused” about what “he wants.”

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He doesn’t.

Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn’t dither in the background waiting its turn.

When a man desires you, you’ll know. So let’s talk about what it actually means when you’re “confused” about what “he wants.”

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Listen to OFF THE RECORD, a deep-dive into some of the most intimate parts of my own relationship: https://beatricekamau.com/otr

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Want to get to know the woman behind the podcast? Find me in these TikTok streets: https://www.tiktok.com/@iambeatricekamau

Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram @theselflovefix. I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode and what your major takeaways were.

Head over to my website to learn more about how we can work together to shift your energy & transform your life.

Previous Episode

224. Don't Give Up On Dating! A Relationship IS Meant For You

If you’ve given up on dating...this episode is for you.

I’m not talking about the people who truly do not desire a relationship. I’m talking to the people who have a soul-deep desire for a relationship, but have gotten so discouraged that they’re ready to throw in the towel entirely.

Listen to me–I don’t care what your situation is.

I don’t care if you’re in your late 20s, 30s, 40s, etc.

I don’t care if you’ve been divorced four times and can’t imagine a relationship ever working out.

I don’t care if you’ve never been in a healthy relationship and are struggling to believe they even exist.

A relationship IS possible for you–yes, YOU. And if you’re walking around with your head down, living in defeat, certain it’s never going to happen for you...let me give you some hope today.

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226. "Red flags" + Infusing Maturity in Dating + Relationships

There is... a lot of immaturity in dating that shows up in the form of thinking EVERYTHING is a red flag.

Not everything is a red flag.

MATURITY in dating is understanding 1. That not everything is a red flag and 2. HOW to discern what IS from what ISN'T a red flag. 3. You'll have to listen to the rest of the episode to find out! ;)

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