The Jar

Ken Stearns

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Armed with a jar full of questions, Ken Stearns is driving to 111 cities in America to interview strangers and give Real People and Real Conversations a place to be heard. Every episode features a new guest who's life story unfolds slowly with each question they pull out of the Jar. With no topic or story off limits, The Jar is discovering the lives of the strangers you pass on the street.

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#02 Old friends reach new depths with Tom Schrader

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04/15/22 • 97 min

In his second sit down with The Jar, Ken catches up with a college fraternity brother whom he hadn't seen in over 30 years. When Ken first picked Olympia as a launching off point he knew that interviewing Tom was a must. As a leader in the real estate industry, his wife Tiffany's deep roots, Tom has a unique view on every topic brought up by the jar. He goes into depth on the many types of love, and his description of it was beautiful. Relaxed and articulate he shared his journey from a small Minnesota town, to a college basketball player, a model, to selling real estate to stars in California. Eventually falling in love with his wife Tiffany and moving to her hometown to settle down. Tom shares stories on the difficulties of parenthood, and grandparenthood and how the faith he shared with his wife was an integral part of getting them through those hard times.

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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Disclaimer: The views stated in this episode are our guest's opinions and do not represent the views, beliefs or opinions of The Jar Podcast. Our goal is to provide a platform for everyone no matter what they believe, and we would like to continue to do that while making it clear our guests are not a representation of The Jar Podcast.

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03/25/22 • 2 min

Join Ken Stearns as he invites people of all faiths, no faith, and every background to join in the conversation through a series of complex questions that are raw, unfiltered, and worth figuring out on The Jar Podcast. For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/ Follow The Jar on Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thejar_podcast/ Follow The Jar on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.thejar Disclaimer: The views stated in this episode are our guest's opinions and do not represent the views, beliefs or opinions of The Jar Podcast. Our goal is to provide a platform for everyone no matter what they believe, and we would like to continue to do that while making it clear our guests are not a representation of The Jar Podcast.

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#269 The Fragility of Life: Ed's Reminder to Treasure Every Moment

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07/14/23 • 72 min

In our upcoming episode of The Jar podcast, we have the privilege of sitting down with a remarkable individual named Ed. As he enters the home of our next guest, Kerrie Stone, Ed's presence commands attention. With his long white beard and weathered face, it is clear that he has lived a life filled with experiences and wisdom.

Ed's journey began as a Texas farm kid, cherishing the freedom and simplicity of rural life. However, at the age of seven, his family relocated to Fort Worth, and Ed embarked on a new chapter of his life. Coming from a large family of six kids, with a loving stay-at-home mom, Ed's upbringing instilled in him the values of love, warmth, and togetherness.

Throughout his life, Ed has embraced various careers and ventures. Yet, the roles that he treasures most are those of a devoted husband and a loving father. The depth of his love for his family shines through in our conversation, weaving a strong thread of faith and devotion throughout his narrative.

The loss of his beloved wife in 2022 has left an indelible mark on Ed's heart and soul. With a heavy heart, he shares the profound impact of losing his best friend and companion of 55 years. His eyes reflect the depth of his grief, and his voice carries the weight of a broken heart. It is through his unwavering faith that Ed finds solace and strength, drawing on the wellspring of his beliefs to guide him through the darkest of times.

During our conversation, Ed opens up about another tragic loss he has endured— the passing of his daughter from an illness. He recounts the heartbreaking moment when she expressed her desire to meet God before her departure from this world. Through these poignant moments, Ed's resilience and steadfast faith become evident, illuminating the power of spirituality in navigating life's most challenging trials.

Join us as we embark on a profound and moving journey with Ed, accompanied by The Jar podcast. Through his story, we are reminded of the fragility of life, the enduring power of love, and the unwavering strength of faith. Ed's remarkable resilience will inspire and touch your heart, leaving a lasting impression of the profound impact of faith and the enduring bonds of love.

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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#255 Finding Strength in Faith: My Transformation through the LDS Church with Alaina Hulette

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06/21/23 • 104 min

Step into the Lorin-Cory-Isley branch of the Lincoln, Nebraska library system on a delightful Saturday morning, and you'll encounter our next guest, Alania. Adopted at a young age, she was swiftly welcomed into the warm embrace of her new home in Scottsbluff, Nebraska. Her father's transition from a police officer to a FedEx delivery driver added a unique twist to their rural life, as his deliveries took him on fascinating journeys through the countryside, far different from the bustling streets of New York City.

In the heart of their home, Alania's mother embodied the role of a devoted stay-at-home mom. Church played a central part in their lives, with numerous events and activities revolving around their faith. Alania had an older brother and eventually had the opportunity to meet her birth parents. Among her birth parents, she formed the strongest connection with her birth father. Lucky to have two fathers in her life, Alania cherishes the profound relationships she shares with both.

However, Alania's early childhood was marred by significant trauma between the ages of 3 and 6. These experiences left a lasting impact, leading to self-harm behaviors. Eventually, she was placed in group homes, where she endured even greater trauma. The irony of it all was that her parents, who loved her deeply, stood by her side throughout her challenging journey, despite the unexplainable nature of her trauma-related behavior.

At the age of 18, Alania left home and, despite having abstained from alcohol and drugs, decided to attend a party one night. Tragically, she was given a date rape drug and fell victim to sexual assault. This harrowing experience plunged her into a downward spiral of substance abuse. In the depths of her despair, she tragically and painfully delivered her deceased fetus alone, a moment that forever marked her soul.

In her early twenties, Alania found herself pregnant again and entered into a marriage with a veteran. They welcomed two children together. However, her husband's battle with PTSD and alcoholism eventually led to their divorce. Despite the heartbreak, Alania found love and happiness in her third marriage. Embracing the Mormon faith, she and her new family became members of the LDS Church. Her mother-in-law became a shining example of a faith-led life, providing Alania with hope and a role model to emulate. The enduring love of her parents further bolstered her spirits.

Alania's story is one of complexity and hardship, yet her indomitable spirit, her unwavering determination to be the best version of herself for her children, her husband, and the world, shines through. Join us as we navigate through The Jar and bear witness to the incredible journey of Alania. Prepare to be moved, inspired, and reminded of the resilience of the human spirit.

For more of Alania, Check out her instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alaina.l.hulette/

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

Follow The Jar on Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thejar_podcast/

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#251 Trailblazing for Equality: A Courageous Fight for LGBTQ+ Rights in Rural Oklahoma with Wulf Roby

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06/15/23 • 86 min

Venturing into the grand halls of the Topeka Public Library on a Tuesday afternoon, we encounter our next guest, Wulf Roby. The library exudes an air of wisdom and knowledge, with its vast collection of books and meticulously designed AV room where we gather for our conversation. Wulf's vibrant presence is immediately apparent, accentuated by a bold red sweater that mirrors their personality.

Hailing from rural Oklahoma, a small town that nurtured their early years, Wulf recently made the decision to relocate to Topeka in pursuit of love and marriage. As a dedicated member of the state library system, Wulf plays a vital role in overseeing and coordinating the operations of libraries across various cities—a noble endeavor that allows them to support and uplift communities through literature and educational resources.

The tapestry of Wulf's early life is woven with intriguing complexities. Growing up, their mother was uncertain about their biological father, leaving behind a trail of potential suspects. However, Wulf fondly recognizes the person they refer to as Dad, who stepped into the role of a loving and supportive parent, nurturing Wulf and their siblings. In contrast, the relationship with their biological brothers and sisters remains strained, highlighting the intricate dynamics of family dynamics and the intricate dance of human connections.

In a twist both intriguing and poignant, Wulf found themselves married at the tender age of 16, a circumstance that offered little choice. Out of this unexpected union, two sons were born, forever etching a chapter in Wulf's life story. With candor and vulnerability, they navigate the complexities of their journey, exploring the intersection of love, responsibility, and personal growth.

Wulf's passion for advocating for animals and the LGBTQ+ community shines through their endeavors. They share captivating stories of their advocacy work, including the courageous act of establishing a pride chapter in their small Oklahoma town. Their commitment to fostering inclusivity and acceptance in the face of adversity serves as a beacon of hope, inspiring others to embrace their true selves and fight for the rights and well-being of marginalized communities.

In a heartwarming and slightly unconventional twist, Wulf recounts their experience of assisting in the delivery of puppies, a tale that encapsulates their compassionate spirit and connection with the animal kingdom. Through their stories, Wulf invites us into their world, painting vivid pictures that elicit laughter, introspection, and a deep appreciation for the beauty found in the simplest of moments.

Join us as Wulf fearlessly embraces The Jar, diving headfirst into the depths of their unique life experiences, hopes, dreams, and everything in between. Through the sharing of their extraordinary journey, we are reminded of the resilience of the human spirit and the power of compassion in creating a more inclusive and understanding world. Prepare to be captivated by Wulf's infectious energy, profound insights, and unwavering determination to make a positive impact on the lives they touch.

For more of The Jar, visit:

Website: https://www.thejar.live/

Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/podcast.thejar

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thejar_podcast/

For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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Disclaimer: The views stated in this episode are our guest's opinions and do not represent the views, beliefs or opinions of The Jar ...

#242 Dad 2.0 & The Power of Pen and Paper From A Tech Guy, with "Fritz" A.K.A. Michael Fritzius

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06/02/23 • 87 min

Welcome to another episode of The Jar, where we meet our next guest, Michael "Fritz" Fritzius, at the Undivided Wealth Management office in Chesterfield, Missouri. We extend our gratitude to Gary Baker for graciously providing us with this space. Fritz, as he is fondly called, hails from a small town near St. Louis and had a formative Christian upbringing that left a lasting impact on his life. Now 42 years old, Fritz is happily married with four daughters and has built a career in the tech industry. Inspired by his father, who was an early pioneer in the world of technology, including working for Wang Computers, Fritz has found his calling in supporting podcasters. He assists with production and provides invaluable support to help them bring their shows to life. During our conversation, we delve into Fritz's spiritual journey and his evolving views on God. He shares his belief in limitless growth when it comes to spirituality and embraces the exciting yet daunting prospects it offers.

As a father, Fritz opens up about his transformation and how he has become a different dad, embodying greater presence and intention in his parenting. He recognizes that his personal growth is unlocking his true potential piece by piece, and he takes it upon himself to put those pieces together. Fritz also reveals his daily journaling routine, where he meticulously writes down his goals, tasks, expressions of gratitude, and sources of stress. Through this practice, he finds solace, comfort, and continuous personal growth. Join us as we embark on Fritz's captivating journey and explore the stories he shares with The Jar.

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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#236 Shoot Your Shot: My Guide to Living with No Regrets with Karen Golightly

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05/24/23 • 83 min

We had the pleasure of meeting our next guest, Karen Golightly, at her super cool little home on the edges of Memphis. Her home has a warm and vibrant atmosphere, with art taking over the walls, cool furniture, and an array of 100 small pots, succulents, and trinkets of art on her porch wall. We set up the jar on her kitchen table, which looked like it had been around for over a hundred years.

Karen was born in Mobile, Alabama, and she has that Delta southern accent that she can turn on and off at will. She has one brother named Rusty, who is a lawyer and still practices. He was also her sports coach for all of her sports growing up, and while she looks back fondly on her memories of Mobile, she had the desire to get out of the small town. We laughed as she shared that she didn't have any Chinese food until she was 17. She ended up in Memphis for school and then started a journey of fun and education that brought her to Australia, Europe, and ultimately achieving her doctoral degree, before finding her way back to Memphis. Along the way, she even became an author.

Karen talked about the one that got away, who in the end turned out to be a blessing in disguise, and how this is so often the lesson in life. She shares her story about starting "Paint Memphis" with four other people more than 10 years ago, and the fun and learning around that, and what it's like to have an art nonprofit and have fun turn of events. She knows one of our guests from New York, Mr. Renda Writer. We were fascinated by Karen's story and her positive outlook on life. She shared her life mantra, which she got from her father, "shoot your shot" and have no regrets. It's a great reminder to take risks and go after what you want in life. Join us as Karen shares her life journey, navigating through the jar, and providing insights and advice that we can all benefit from.

For more of Karen Visit: PaintMemphis.org

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

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#237 Psychology and Poetry: The Dual Journey with Todd Osbern

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05/25/23 • 87 min

We had the pleasure of meeting our next guest, Todd Osbern, during our travel from Little Rock to Springfield, Missouri. Our interview took place at his mom's house, giving it a warm and inviting atmosphere. Growing up with two sisters, a brother, and his parents, Todd spent a significant amount of time in Southern California during his childhood. He always had a creative side, a desire to be the center of attention, and a knack for making people smile. It was in high school that Todd discovered his passion for rapping, which served as his introduction to the world of entertainment.

However, his college years took a different turn. His partying and excessive drinking led to financial difficulties, as his father cut off his financial support. Todd found himself working at a video rental store for three years, which became a turning point in his life. Determined to make a change, he went back to school, majoring in psychology. This time, he took his studies seriously, earning excellent grades and navigating his way through student loans and financial independence. The jar prompts Todd to reflect on his journey through the field of psychology and the various roles he has held within the field.

Throughout his life, Todd has also been passionate about playing guitar and performing in bands. His songwriting skills developed from his love for poetry, and he shares how he had to adapt his writing style to suit the musical realm. Todd finds immense joy in songwriting and live performances, cherishing the connection he makes with his audience.

Tragedy struck when Todd's father was diagnosed with ALS. Witnessing the slow progression of the disease deeply affected him, but it also brought his family closer together. Before his father's passing, Todd was able to achieve significant milestones, including graduating from school and performing on stage, creating cherished memories that he holds dear.

Now, it is Todd's daughter, Charlie, who holds a special place in his life. She has filled his world with love and purpose, and Todd's experiences have prepared him to be a devoted and caring father. As he explores the jar, his love for his daughter shines through, and he shares insightful perspectives on raising her. Join us as Todd embraces the jar, delving into his life's experiences and the transformative journey he has embarked on.

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YouTube: https://youtube.com/@hometowntouristband

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

Follow The Jar on Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thejar_podcast/

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Disclaimer: The views stated in this episode are our guest's opinions and do not represent the views, b...

#233 Unlearning to Relearn: My Journey of Self-Discovery Through Art with Deavon Smith-Collins

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05/19/23 • 81 min

We had the pleasure of meeting our next guest, Deavon Smith-Collins, in her cozy home in North Little Rock. Growing up, it was just her and her mom, and her grandparents in a small town in Arkansas. As her mom worked hard to provide for her, they moved around quite a bit, and Deavon attended Christian schools in Little Rock and Fayetteville. While she learned a lot in these schools, she also realized there was a lot that needed to be unlearned, and she strives to be the kind of adult that she wished she had in her life growing up. Some of her biggest heroes were teachers, and now she finds herself in the same profession as an art teacher in a local school for the last few years.

During our conversation, Deavon opened up about her experience of being sexually assaulted in college. She shared that she only recently began to unpack and come to grips with the impact it had on her and her family. It has been a difficult journey, but she hopes that by coming out and sharing her story, she can inspire others to have the courage to speak out as well. It's an interesting time in Deavon's life, as she and her mom are facing new challenges. Her mother is returning home to take care of her grandmother, who is suffering from Alzheimer's, and Deavon is leaving Little Rock soon to follow her heart and chase love.

Deavon also shared that the hardest part of her journey has been saying goodbye to her fourth-grade students, who welcomed her as their art teacher since kindergarten. Saying goodbye to them was the most painful part of her journey so far. Join us on The Jar as Deavon navigates through her story and shares her experiences, hopes, and dreams.

For more of Deavon check out her Art: https://linktr.ee/jackkofalltradezz

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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#267 Building a Clinic, Battling Burnout: A Molecular Biologist Turned Therapist's Unique Perspective on Mental Health with Monique Smith

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07/12/23 • 89 min

Welcome to The Jar podcast, where we delve into the captivating stories of individuals whose lives have been shaped by a multitude of experiences. In this episode, we are honored to have Monique Smith as our guest, joining us from Lawton, Oklahoma.

Monique's upbringing as an Army brat took her on a journey across different states and even overseas. Despite her nomadic childhood, Lawton has become a place of anchorage and familiarity for her. With a diverse educational background, Monique has found her passion in the field of therapy, utilizing her knowledge in molecular biology to better understand the complexities of mental health.

During our conversation, Monique opens up about her experience in establishing a clinic, only to face the challenges and burnout that followed, prompting her to take a break and refocus her path. We also explore the intersections of her scientific background and therapeutic work, as well as her journey of self-awareness within the realm of relationships.

Join us as we sit down with Monique Smith, an inspiring individual with a wealth of stories to share. Together, we will uncover the transformative power of resilience, self-discovery, and the profound impact that diverse life experiences can have on shaping our understanding of ourselves and the world around us.

For more of The Jar, visit:

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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The Jar currently has 322 episodes available.

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The podcast is about Society & Culture, Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality, Documentary, Self Help and Podcasts.

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The episode title '#02 Old friends reach new depths with Tom Schrader' is the most popular.

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The average episode length on The Jar is 87 minutes.

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