#237 Psychology and Poetry: The Dual Journey with Todd Osbern

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05/25/23 • 87 min

We had the pleasure of meeting our next guest, Todd Osbern, during our travel from Little Rock to Springfield, Missouri. Our interview took place at his mom's house, giving it a warm and inviting atmosphere. Growing up with two sisters, a brother, and his parents, Todd spent a significant amount of time in Southern California during his childhood. He always had a creative side, a desire to be the center of attention, and a knack for making people smile. It was in high school that Todd discovered his passion for rapping, which served as his introduction to the world of entertainment.

However, his college years took a different turn. His partying and excessive drinking led to financial difficulties, as his father cut off his financial support. Todd found himself working at a video rental store for three years, which became a turning point in his life. Determined to make a change, he went back to school, majoring in psychology. This time, he took his studies seriously, earning excellent grades and navigating his way through student loans and financial independence. The jar prompts Todd to reflect on his journey through the field of psychology and the various roles he has held within the field.

Throughout his life, Todd has also been passionate about playing guitar and performing in bands. His songwriting skills developed from his love for poetry, and he shares how he had to adapt his writing style to suit the musical realm. Todd finds immense joy in songwriting and live performances, cherishing the connection he makes with his audience.

Tragedy struck when Todd's father was diagnosed with ALS. Witnessing the slow progression of the disease deeply affected him, but it also brought his family closer together. Before his father's passing, Todd was able to achieve significant milestones, including graduating from school and performing on stage, creating cherished memories that he holds dear.

Now, it is Todd's daughter, Charlie, who holds a special place in his life. She has filled his world with love and purpose, and Todd's experiences have prepared him to be a devoted and caring father. As he explores the jar, his love for his daughter shines through, and he shares insightful perspectives on raising her. Join us as Todd embraces the jar, delving into his life's experiences and the transformative journey he has embarked on.

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For more of Todd Check out:
FB: https://www.facebook.com/hometowntouristband

Instagram: https://instagram.com/hometown_tourist_sgf

YouTube: https://youtube.com/@hometowntouristband

For more of The Jar, visit:

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For behind the scenes content of the making of The Jar, meet the guests, see some footage of unreleased podcast episodes and more visit : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCaTqB1dhDvl0Oh505ysdxTg

To be a guest on the show email us at [email protected] or visit our webpage : https://www.thejar.live/

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#236 Shoot Your Shot: My Guide to Living with No Regrets with Karen Golightly

We had the pleasure of meeting our next guest, Karen Golightly, at her super cool little home on the edges of Memphis. Her home has a warm and vibrant atmosphere, with art taking over the walls, cool furniture, and an array of 100 small pots, succulents, and trinkets of art on her porch wall. We set up the jar on her kitchen table, which looked like it had been around for over a hundred years.

Karen was born in Mobile, Alabama, and she has that Delta southern accent that she can turn on and off at will. She has one brother named Rusty, who is a lawyer and still practices. He was also her sports coach for all of her sports growing up, and while she looks back fondly on her memories of Mobile, she had the desire to get out of the small town. We laughed as she shared that she didn't have any Chinese food until she was 17. She ended up in Memphis for school and then started a journey of fun and education that brought her to Australia, Europe, and ultimately achieving her doctoral degree, before finding her way back to Memphis. Along the way, she even became an author.

Karen talked about the one that got away, who in the end turned out to be a blessing in disguise, and how this is so often the lesson in life. She shares her story about starting "Paint Memphis" with four other people more than 10 years ago, and the fun and learning around that, and what it's like to have an art nonprofit and have fun turn of events. She knows one of our guests from New York, Mr. Renda Writer. We were fascinated by Karen's story and her positive outlook on life. She shared her life mantra, which she got from her father, "shoot your shot" and have no regrets. It's a great reminder to take risks and go after what you want in life. Join us as Karen shares her life journey, navigating through the jar, and providing insights and advice that we can all benefit from.

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#238 Lies, Love, and Life's Lessons: Unveiling the Truth with Savanah Boyd

We had the pleasure of meeting our next guest, Savanah Boyd, at the library center in Springfield, Missouri on Mother's Day. Savanah was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, into a family that included her mom, dad, and sister. Unfortunately, her parents divorced when she was just five years old, and her mom relocated them to a small town near her grandparents in Missouri. Savanah fondly recalls the memories of her time spent with her extended family, engaging in country activities like fishing with her grandpa.

During her upbringing, Savanah became actively involved in the local church, which served as an integral part of the community. She enjoyed participating in events and being part of the church's vibrant activities. However, as she grew older and entered college, her connection to organized religion waned, and she began focusing more on her personal spirituality. It was during her college years that she met her husband, and at the age of 19, Savanah became a mother. They are now proud parents of two children, navigating the challenges and joys of an interracial marriage and raising biracial children.

During her encounter with The Jar, there was an intriguing banter between Savanah and the jar itself. It seemed to ask her the tough questions, touching upon topics she may have been hesitant to discuss. Savanah openly shares about her tendency to lie as a child, describing herself as a serial liar. She delves into the complexity of her lies, their grandiosity, and the underlying hurt behind them. Interestingly, she reflects on how this perception has followed her into adulthood, reminding us all that people change and should not be branded solely based on their past actions. It serves as a powerful reminder to take the time to know individuals for who they are in the present.

Savanah engages in profound dialogue with The Jar, offering pearls of wisdom about living one's life authentically. Her story and experiences provide valuable insights into personal growth and transformation. Join us as we listen to Savanah's journey unfold through the probing questions of The Jar, allowing us to gain a deeper understanding of her unique perspective and the wisdom she has acquired along the way.

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