YOLO seems like the perfect rock 'n' roll philosophy. You only live once... so do whatever seems right in the moment. Be spontaneous. Quit your job; find a new person to date; and always, always keep your options open.
We all fear getting stuck in the wrong occupation, relationship or home - so shun fully committing to anything. But we're misguided. The man who coined the term YOLO - the Grateful Dead drummer Mickey Hart - tells Dr Laurie Santos that throwing yourself fully into a life choice is the best way to live our precious life.
Further reading:
Pete Davis - Dedicated: The Case for Commitment in an Age of Infinite Browsing.
Dan Gilbert - Stumbling on Happiness.
Barry Schwartz - The Paradox of Choice.
Further Listening:
Try Mickey Hart's new album with Planet Drum “In the Groove".
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10/17/22 • 31 min
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The Happiness Lab with Dr. Laurie Santos - You Only Live Once... So Commit
Transcript Summary
In this episode titled "You Only Live Once... So Commit," the host explores the power of commitment and the benefits of dedicating ourselves to long-term pursuits. Our preferences can adapt to fit our circumstances, and committing to a decision activates our psychological immune system, leading to greater satisfaction. Rather than constantly seeking new options, YOLO (You Only Live Once) encourages us to find joy, connection, and purpose in long-haul commitments. The episode delves into the concept of YOLO and how it can provide a spiritual compass, as well as the downside of the culture of infinite browsing and keeping options open. Through commitment, we can uncover a sense of belonging, purpose, and a deeper understanding of the world while opening doors to new opportunities. Don't miss this thought-provoking episode that challenges the fear of missing out (FOMO) and emphasizes the joy that the long haul can bring to our lives.
Transcript
Pushkin. I've always been kinda into musicians. I obsessively read the memoirs of rock gods, and I love hearing about the lives of different artists. It's in part because I really envy musical talent, but it's also because I sort of dig the rocker attitude. Their vibe is so untethered, so spontaneous. There seems to be a word for this attitude of reckless, abandoned yolo. You only live once. It's a phrase that urges you to jump from passion to pa
You Only Live Once... So Commit Top Questions Answered
What is the meaning of YOLO?
YOLO stands for "You Only Live Once" and encourages people to live in the present moment and take risks.
Who claims to have coined the term YOLO?
Mickey Hart, the drummer for The Grateful Dead, claims to have coined the term YOLO when buying his dream house called Yolo Ranch.
How is YOLO used to justify behavior?
YOLO is often used to justify impulsive and carefree behavior.
What can the YOLO ethos of infinite browsing lead to?
The YOLO ethos of infinite browsing can lead to a lack of authentic connections, boredom, and choice paralysis.
How can having too many choices make us feel?
Research suggests that having too many choices can leave us feeling overwhelmed and dissatisfied.
What are the benefits of making commitments?
Making commitments can lead to a sense of purpose, connection, and a deeper understanding of one's chosen path.
What drives the fear of committing?
FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) often drives the fear of committing and the desire to keep options open.
How does making commitments affect our happiness with decisions?
Research shows that we are happier with our decisions when our options are closed, rather than having the ability to switch.
How does Mickey Hart redefine the YOLO acronym?
Mickey Hart redefines YOLO to mean dedicating oneself to long-term pursuits and commitments, rather than reckless behavior.
What can opening doors of commitment lead to?
Opening doors of commitment can lead to happiness and opportunities that we may not have known about otherwise.
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