
Yoni Pleasure 101
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03/29/23 • 57 min
Ok loves...it’s pussy talk time. We are called The Flaming Yoni, after all, and there is nothing we love paying homage to more than our yonis. So sit back, grab a cup of whatever will enhance your pleasure as you listen, and step into OUR Yoniverses with us...
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- Mindful masturbation, and how we both partook in it prior to recording this episode - our intentions, our methods and implements, and our experiences.
- Breaking down the parts of the vulva - from labia, clitoris, the vaginal canal and the cervix - knowledge is power and there is nothing more worthy of studying than the yoni!
- The “orgasm gap” - it’s real, y’all, and it disproportionately impacts yoni-bearers. We discuss why we believe this is, and also the myriad types of orgasms.
- How essential foreplay is to warming up a yoni - it takes set, setting and warming up nice and slow in order to arouse and help her swell and open optimally.
- We address the misconceptions and unknowns about squirting v. creaming - what is each, what are they made up of, how common is this for vulva owners?
- Last, but definitely not least, eating pussy like it is your last meal - if you don’t eat it, you need not apply.
**Apologies that Áine's audio was a little janky this episode--we have some new equipment that will give our audio an upgrade very soon!
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Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
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- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
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- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
Ok loves...it’s pussy talk time. We are called The Flaming Yoni, after all, and there is nothing we love paying homage to more than our yonis. So sit back, grab a cup of whatever will enhance your pleasure as you listen, and step into OUR Yoniverses with us...
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- Mindful masturbation, and how we both partook in it prior to recording this episode - our intentions, our methods and implements, and our experiences.
- Breaking down the parts of the vulva - from labia, clitoris, the vaginal canal and the cervix - knowledge is power and there is nothing more worthy of studying than the yoni!
- The “orgasm gap” - it’s real, y’all, and it disproportionately impacts yoni-bearers. We discuss why we believe this is, and also the myriad types of orgasms.
- How essential foreplay is to warming up a yoni - it takes set, setting and warming up nice and slow in order to arouse and help her swell and open optimally.
- We address the misconceptions and unknowns about squirting v. creaming - what is each, what are they made up of, how common is this for vulva owners?
- Last, but definitely not least, eating pussy like it is your last meal - if you don’t eat it, you need not apply.
**Apologies that Áine's audio was a little janky this episode--we have some new equipment that will give our audio an upgrade very soon!
Become a STAR in the Yoniverse! (click on “Unlock Exclusive Content”)
Dr. Evalene Dacker’s Instagram
Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
Previous Episode

PrEP-ing for Great Sex with Maggie White
Friends and lovers, we have a very special treat for you today and we can barely contain ourselves. Scarlet’s sexual health practitioner, Maggie White, FNP, is here in the Yoniverse talking all things sexual health, STIs and testing, and HIV prevention. Maggie brings 12 years of experience in community health and HIV primary care and research, and is certified by the American Academy of HIV Medicine as an HIV Specialist. Her other clinical interests include Hepatitis C, sexual health and gender affirming care.
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- How Scarlet found Maggie after searching for a better solution for her regular STI health testing and overall sexual health;
- Maggie’s background in sexual health, and how she entered into public health and specialized in HIV and HIV prevention;
- How femme representation is lacking in the patient population that is being treated for HIV prevention - and why that is;
- When pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP) came on the scene (a decade ago), and how stigmatized and misunderstood it has been;
- Scarlet’s personal and empowering decision to step into PrEP treatment to care for herself and any of her sexual partners;
- Distinguishing between oral and injectable PrEP, and how PrEP works;
- STI testing gone wrong - how healthcare providers do not always ask the questions they should to provide the best tests for the individual;
- Dental dams..let’s be honest - is anyone using them?!;
- Questions from the audience!
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Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
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Talk Sex with Lex :: Sleeping Orgasms + Birth Trauma
We met today’s guest through one of Scarlet’s close friends, and we are so incredibly happy to introduce Lex, of Talk Sex with Lex, to the Yoniverse. Lex was motivated to become a certified sexologist after discovering loads of false information and bad advice posted online. This motivation turned into a burning desire and passion to be a safe space for women and their partners to receive guidance with discovering their very own unique codes of pleasure.
In this episode of The Flaming Yoni:
- Hear about our first SlutSister gathering - and come join us in the SlutSister Sanctum!! Link below to join.
- Lex’s mission within the sexology and coaching - to help people sexplore, and alleviate fuckstration.
- The intense work of going through a divorce, being a single mother of 2, working 2 full time jobs, AND pursuing and getting her certification through the Pleasure Master Institute.
- How coaches can help us work through shadows and blockages to live more fulfilling and whole lives.
- Lex shares her deeply personal, vulnerable, and traumatic story of polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), weight loss surgery, pregnancy and birth, and how the medical system failed to listen to and protect her best interest and the best interest of her unborn child.
- The institutional racism baked into our medical system, and the extreme rates of maternal morbidity experienced particularly by black women in this country.
- Lex informs us of what “sleeping orgasms” are, and we think it sounds like a damn treat!
- The work that Lex is doing in her practice right now and the courses she is offering.
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Follow Lex:
- Instagram: @tlksex_withlex
- Website: https://tlksexwithlex.com/
- TikTok: @tlksex_withlex
Follow Áine:
- Instagram: @priestessaine
- Twitter: @PriestessAine
- TikTok: @priestessaine
Follow Scarlet:
- Instagram: @salacious_scarlet
- Twitter: @Salacious_Scar
Follow SlutSisters:
- Instagram: @sssanctum_
- Twitter: @TheSlutSisters_
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/sexualchemy/exclusive-content
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